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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 8:11:24 AM

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A whap-o-matic........ hmm, wonder if we could sell those on e-bay?

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 8:30:21 AM

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Couldn't he just call himself a switch and be done with it?

He could, but if you spent much time in the "ask a switch" forum you'd realize that almost every other thread there is people complaining about how the rest of the BDSM world shuns switches or how the word "switch" is too limiting.

I agree that the thread title is a little dramatic. If people misleading other people on the internet is something you've never heard of before, you have a lot of surprizes coming yet... Oh yeah, and I have a great way for you to become a millionaire, get better gas mileage, stop smoking and lose 100 pounds in 6 days - without any effort, whatsoever. All you have to do is send me $500 and I'll mail you the kit.

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 9:28:14 AM

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how many men (and maybe even women) do you think have profiles as both Dom./me and sub?

I can't tell you how many, but I can say that I am one of them, although not at collarme.

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Just found the profile of a guy I had been talking with for a while... he was talking to me as a submissive... now he has three profiles... one slave, one submissive, one Dom...
Same pics... mostly the same general info... just a little more assertive as the Dom than as the others...
Is this a frequent occurance?

yes, although motivations for it are frequently different. One can be "I'm desperate and want to find a partner and I'll list as everything I can to get that chance" - which is one of the truths about some people that give all switches a bad rep, because then the ones that got burned assume all switches are like that. It can be "I need to have fellow subs to share experiences with and get advice from, but I'm a domme and looking for subs and if I list as a switch I find neither thing I need". It can be the reason I use, which was a desire to have a place to write and journal about M, ask questions as a sub, and say I was "taken" while still having a personals listing saying I'm looking (as a domme), but not having to deal with as many people wanting me to sub to them.

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Couldn't he just call himself a switch and be done with it?

He sure could have, but until you've called yourself a switch and dealt with all the assumptions, stereotypes, and crap that fall along with it, you probably won't understand why many people choose not to list that way.

As for a later post...

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he's single...
and claims now that he just did it because he wanted girls to write him
why advertise yourself as something you're not...
it doesn't get the right kind of attention...

When what you want is ANY attention from the opposite sex, then ANY attention from the opposite sex is what you need. People lie all the time because honesty won't get them what they want. Chalk him up as another of them.

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 2:03:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: satyrsnymph28

how many men (and maybe even women) do you think have profiles as both Dom./me and sub?

Just found the profile of a guy I had been talking with for a while... he was talking to me as a submissive... now he has three profiles... one slave, one submissive, one Dom...

Same pics... mostly the same general info... just a little more assertive as the Dom than as the others...

Is this a frequent occurance?

Couldn't he just call himself a switch and be done with it?

:: giggles :: i knew when he offered up his credit cards it was too good to be true...

haha

This is an example of a guy just looking to for a kinky fuck, nothing more.

He'll play any role you want so long as he get to fuck you.

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 5:41:04 PM

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yeah his are both active... he was on them both within 5 minutes of eachother...

what men dont do... i swear

Yup. Every last one of us pretty much sucks.

Thanks for reinforcing that. Guess I have to go listen to "Jagged Little Pill" a few dozen times, cut my cock off and denounce my manhood.

*sigh*

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 5:42:56 PM

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I don't think B would be to happy with that

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 5:44:09 PM

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Yup. Every last one of us pretty much sucks.

Thanks for reinforcing that. Guess I have to go listen to "Jagged Little Pill" a few dozen times, cut my cock off and denounce my manhood.

*sigh*

ouch.....go home....get stoned......much mo bettah

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 5:46:37 PM

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Sounds to me like he's just looking for attention and not much more or less.....what did you get out of the actual conversations with him?

Maybe he's confused and isn't really sure what he wants?
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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 5:47:27 PM

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I have 2 profiles on here. I do not hide that fact. (on the boards or in my profiles.) While they are different, (reflecting different wants and needs, I feel that they complement each other.) As for those who changed their role, maybe something happened and a desire they thought they buried, has sprung forth.

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RE: And I thought I had seen it all... - 7/8/2007 6:02:23 PM

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