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PairOfDimes -> RE: Enough about women.. what about men? (7/8/2007 7:38:57 PM)
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Leather pants are often good, and you can usually find some cut like trousers or like jeans. If you shop around, you can find leather pants in different cuts (just like normal pants, some have a little more room in the butt, some have slimmer legs, and so on), so, six-pack-abs or no, you can likely find something that fits well. No ass cheeks? There are pants, they call them "low rise" or "short rise," that accentuate an ass. Once you find the pair that makes you look like that "chiseled fetish model," you can wear it over and over. I like leather pants with a dress shirt, perhaps cotton with a little sheen to it or silk if you're adventurous. Rich or deep colors can suit many men, and can make an outfit seem more adventurous and special, since guys often need to wear pastel shirts in the workplace. Black is a popular choice, but I think it's more interesting and attractive to choose a color, perhaps a dark green or purple (depending on your skin and hair colors, of course!) or at least a black shirt with an interesting pattern.
If the event doesn't have a dress code, you could comfortably wear wool trousers or jeans. I'm partial to button-down shirts, but knits (like t-shirts, and those dressy t-shirt-like sweater-shirts) can be good, too. For a theme or overall "look", a rough, denim-oriented, sort of laborer outfit; a military look; or a conservative suit or suit-like choice, depending on which one is best for your general image, can work well and project authority. Jackets in interesting colors and fabrics are good, too. Some of the clothes I've liked were a bit dandyish, but I thought that was a good way to make clothes a little more festive and fetish-appropriate without, as you say, crossing the line into the Village People.
Hm...some guys wear kilts, too, and some wear them very well. You get nice accesories, too--you get to wear many different kinds of gloves, and with the right combination of short-sleeved shirt and gloves, your forearms can look really nice. And big clunky boots make your legs look hotter. And you get the authentic *and* authoritative uniforms, although that might be too Halloweeny for you. Truthfully, I'm optimistic about the idea of kinky het or het-ish guys getting creative with fetish fashion--with few standard, iconic images of the het dom man, there's a lot of potential to create your own image of dominance.
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