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Outing Myself - 6/17/2005 9:12:15 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		<cracks up laughing> Well i just COMPLETELY outed myself with my grandmother. Yeah i've tried hinting around at it. Staying more towrds the "kinky" side of things since my grandmother is very sexually orientated. Very low intensity things, like handcuffs and bondage. She gets that ii enjoy kinky things...

BUT <cracks up laughing>

i've been trying to get her on AIM for AGES from my commonly used name "EnslavedFairy" But i've 3 different AIM names.So she pops on AIM and i click the pop up and right HEY click enter

i Look up

It says "Robsslavekelly"

LOL nooooooooooooo way of getting out of that one, as i'm the only "kelly" she knows!

she IMs me back and says "i see slave girl" and then asks me what it means. Oh GOOD LORD the consquences as she has the BIGGEST mouth i've ever seen! And though i'm open, i keep the "slave and Master" part seperate from my tellings. Usually just stick to submissive/Dominant.

Geeeeeeeeeez, i can see how its going to go. Grandmom tells the hated Stepmother, Stepmother tells the father and then MaryAnn (long time friend of the parents) MaryAnn opens her big mouth and tells Mr K, his kids (my age), my sister, and anyone else she knows. Grandmother tells the aunt (whose kinda of kinky). And some how the Grandfather gets left out the loop!

LOL ITS TERRIBLE. Cos now everyone on my fathers side (family and friends alike) Are going to know i consider myself Master's slave. And i've been the black sheep for maaaaaaaaaaany many years so its just ONE more thing they can use against me to nix me from the family. i suppose its a very good thing i could careless and that those that actually mean anything to me already know.

roflmao BUT its soooooooooooooooooooooooo hilariously funny. What a suprise for Grandma! What a surpise for everyone! <chuckles>

Geez thats too funny, even for me! (my grandma has took off running on me now) <chuckles>

Aaaaaaaaah well live and learn to pay more attention!

EDITED TO:: cut out the majority of the ramblings

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/17/2005 9:33:21 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		<grins> Just to follow up, i got her talking again and she's "okay" explained it away as a pet nickname and it'd prolly be best she didnt tell anyone (especially the stepmother) as they wouldnt understand. LOLOL


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RE: Outing Myself - 6/17/2005 10:48:19 PM   
MaggieLynn


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Status: offline 		**chuckles**

My mom came up for a visit for the first time a couple of years ago. We took her out to Dennys for breakfast so she could meet a bunch of our friends. She really got along great with everyone.

Later that afternoon I had logged onto bondage.com to check the boards there and my email...thinking she was laying down for a nap...

WRONG...

She was looking over my shoulder to see what I was doing on the computer...lmao.

After much spitting and sputtering and eyes bulging out I finally told her, "Mom, you know all those people you met this morning and had such a great time talking with? They are all from this site".

Of course the very next thing from her was "But but but they all look so NORMAL"...LOL

Now she just calls me a freak and tells me she loves me anyway...LOL

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/18/2005 7:24:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

<grins> Just to follow up, i got her talking again and she's "okay" explained it away as a pet nickname and it'd prolly be best she didnt tell anyone (especially the stepmother) as they wouldnt understand. LOLOL


I find one of the best ways to deal with this is to down play it like you did. I once appeared on the evening news when asked a question by a camera crew during a Pride Parade. All my co-workers saw, my family, friends of the family. My mother's phone was ringing off the hook. Many's initial reaction was one of outrage that I didn't tell them about my sexual orientation. My answer was "Because it's really not a big deal to me. If I was sleeping with you, it would something important for you to know about." And of course, everyone assumed then that I was a lesbian which messed them up even more when a few months later I started dating a man.

I find people who have not much going on are the ones that just love to get the dirt on others.

- LA

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/19/2005 7:30:30 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		thats great! Thanks for the laugh

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/20/2005 12:39:21 PM   
Davesgirl


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Status: offline 		What a great topic! I've been thinking of how to handle this very subject with my parents for a few days now. Master is gettinga permanent colar to wear, and asked me how I was going to explain it to my parents. Afte somethinking, I told him that I would tell my mother there are some questions she jsut really doesnt want to know the answer to. LOL

I'll jsut tell her the "pretty necklace" is a gift from Dave. If she pushes.....I have no idea how Im going to handle it.


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RE: Outing Myself - 6/20/2005 1:41:31 PM   
proudsub


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Master is gettinga permanent colar to wear,


I hope you will share a pic with us.

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/20/2005 3:53:58 PM   
fillepink


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Status: offline 		i hope all of you do two things: 1st, take pride in ALL of yourselves, including your sexuality; and 2nd; treat your loved ones with kindness and -- cough, cough, cough -- especially mothers and (one would think) grandmothers. i guess E/everyone has to decide whether to tell or not; being "discovered" sorta removes the choice...but not always, LOL. in any event, i don't think parents want or need information about their kid's sexual life once that kid is 18 years old unless the kid needs help. (with one exception: gay people and transsexual people and everyone else leading lives which are more difficult than those of straight people need and deserve the support of their parents; i wish that was always the case.)




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RE: Outing Myself - 6/20/2005 4:36:16 PM   
Davesgirl


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Status: offline 		Definately will Proudsub! And my new camera phone should be here soon too! This week has been great so far!

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/21/2005 6:57:31 PM   
liltxsubby


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Master is gettinga permanent colar to wear, and asked me how I was going to explain it to my parents.


I saw a gorgeous chain necklace that had a little heart shaped lock. Just pretty jewelery to anyone that doesn't know, but pretty obvious to anyone that does. I've been thinking that's what I would like when I get an everyday, everywhere collar. For now mine just goes on when we're alone.

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/22/2005 11:02:58 AM   
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Ok, maybe overkill with the smileys, but tahts what my face has been doing for 1 hour, and approx 25 minutes now. The collar Master got for me came today!!!! He put it on, and I can not describe the feelings.....Amazing is the best I can do, but even that doesnt do justice to the myriad of emotions that have been soaring through me.

As promised, heres a pic of it. Not the best, as Im still tinkering with my phones camera.




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RE: Outing Myself - 6/22/2005 1:03:37 PM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		Congratulations Davesgirl

That is wonderful , thanks for sharing your happiness!!!!

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/22/2005 4:00:56 PM   
proudsub


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As promised, heres a pic of it. Not the best, as Im still tinkering with my phones camera.


Congrats, it's beautiful and looks like one you can wear anywhere.

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/23/2005 11:32:34 AM   
Davesgirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone.

Being able to wear it all the time was important to us, and I think this one will do just fine



(yep...still smiling)

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RE: Outing Myself - 6/23/2005 12:24:11 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Both my parents know I am kinky. Mos is sort of intreaged she likes to joke a bit, And dad is very very laid back, but he doesn't want it flaunted that his kid is kinky. I was going to take my mom to events but dad put the law down and said his wife will not be going to play parties period.


He don't care about socials where no play is going on tho.

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