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meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 9:44:09 AM   
iceland2006


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Status: offline 		do mistresses here find crude antagonistic men attractive and are they funner to have or do they think of them as one to be ignored because they are no fun and exciting to be with?
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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 11:08:38 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I find people who are crude and antagonistic not worth a second of my time.  I am certainly not attracted to that type of behavior. 

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 11:11:36 AM   
goddessAVA


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Status: offline 		Antagonistic and rude is BORING-I have had a few switches like this.  I much prefer my boys in subspace where I can completely control them and push their limits.

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 11:31:54 AM   
hereyesruponyou


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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 11:39:53 AM   
goddessAVA


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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 11:44:06 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		I agree with the ladies above that have said they won't waste a second of their time with these types & that this behavior is predictable thus boring.

I will admit that I have faced this type before (it was at a play party) some of the girls told me he was a friend & he wanted a sound thrashing & they knew I could do so. I went to talk with the young man so that I could "negotiate" a scene & he was very arrogant, very rude & pretty much told me that he was a man & because of such, I could do my worst & he could take it.

So I put this young man on the cross... asked him one last time if he wanted me to warm him up a bit before we got down to business & his reply, give it your best shot cause I can take anything you can dish out.

Alrighty then!!

I guess the few licks I got off jogged his memory because he suddenly remembered he had to be someone early in the morning & he really needed me to let him down off the cross so he could get home & go to bed.

BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!

I let him down & packed up my toys.... my friends were all like Wha' happened? All we did was go to get a fresh drink so we could watch the show & all of a sudden your packing up?

What a wuss.

I summed him up to be the sub with a severe case of "premature evacuation"


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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 1:17:38 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		The type doesn't do a thing for Me.  So little so that it is barely even worth mentioning in a reply to the question.

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 1:55:46 PM   
MamaDomme


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Status: offline 		those type of men do not interest me whatsoever.  I have no time for it.

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 3:14:30 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Someone who is rude and antagonistic all the time doesn't get far enough in  talking with me to end up having a session.

Someone who is polite and mannerly and wants to occasionally do a role play where they can be rude and antagonistic and be "taken down" can be fun. It is a role play I have done consensually and truly enjoyed - a thrill for both of us - and it is something that I have had "pulled" on me without being discussed with me prior which I hated. I tried to "roll" with the role playing that was introduced, but I told the sub afterwards I had no desire to do a scene like that with him again, and if he started the behavior another time I would simply end the scene and leave the moment it started.

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 6:07:46 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		How could this be fun?  Someone who just pushes out his chest and is rude and ugly will only make me laugh at the goof that he is...

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 7:16:28 PM   
Lashra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: iceland2006

do mistresses here find crude antagonistic men attractive and are they funner to have or do they think of them as one to be ignored because they are no fun and exciting to be with?

If I wanted to train monkeys I'd work in a zoo. I prefer my submales to be intelligent, have a great sense of humor and manners. Rude and struting around like a gorilla with a hardon just does not do it for me.

~Lashra


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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 7:55:36 PM   
ocilla


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Status: offline 		Yuck - total turn off and the kind of person I avoid in all aspects of my life.  Life is to short to waste any energy or time on such an ass.

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 9:26:50 PM   
mistresszariah1


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Status: offline 		My subby is unruly, but I wouldnt have him any other way!! I love a challenge

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/9/2007 9:52:57 PM   
WyckedMystress


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Status: offline 		just because someone is sub - or even Domme - does not give them a right to be rude and antagonistic. If you play with them and their little games they getting exactly what they want - best to ignore them and find someone who will appreciate/enjoy the attention

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/10/2007 7:34:43 AM   
MistressGala


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Status: offline 		Yes rude and antagonistic submissives are boring. In fact rude antagonism is boring in every walk of life. Why just check out some of the posts from the people on these boards.
I have met one such man who wished to change that behavior pattern when with me. He is a soldier and what I viewed as rude and antagonistic in our interactions is common Alpha male behavior in his world. Sometimes there is a secondary reason for the behavior.


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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/10/2007 7:39:44 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		I know there are some women who love "uppity" male submissives.  God bless them, because they aren't my cup of tea.  I tend to go limp and get all mealy-mouthed when I encounter this, leaving them thinking "this bitch think she's a dominant?"

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RE: meanies fun to session? - 7/10/2007 7:59:12 AM   
ripples


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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion
I summed him up to be the sub with a severe case of "premature evacuation"


Teehee!

I have to agree with the sentiments, it's like dealing with a child who is craving attention, any attention. I don't have the time or patience to be dealing with that.

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