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learning to serve - 7/9/2007 10:14:14 AM

pornaster

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mistress please tell me what i need to do to attact a dominant women i'am new and want to serve

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RE: learning to serve - 7/9/2007 6:13:38 PM

earthycouple

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married male w/mornings open looking for fun w/older ladies will be your slave for use and abuse. I need you make me dress up as your maid and serve you. this is new to me. i would love to be a house slave do your hosework wlile you slapp whip c&b torture for your pleasure
the above is your profile and you identify as a switch. So I'll bite at your OP...

You need to be single, not cheating on your partner, not suggesting your dominant need be older (what the hell is older anyway? seems relative to me). Stop telling us what we NEED to do to you, and how dare you suggest you'd only love to be my houseboy while I'm slapping and whipping you. Lastly I suggest you write a sentence that has proper grammar, punctuation and spelling.

Edited to add: "pornaster"? oh my...terrible.

< Message edited by earthycouple -- 7/9/2007 6:15:10 PM >

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RE: learning to serve - 7/9/2007 7:01:07 PM

Lashra

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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

married male w/mornings open looking for fun w/older ladies will be your slave for use and abuse. I need you make me dress up as your maid and serve you. this is new to me. i would love to be a house slave do your hosework wlile you slapp whip c&b torture for your pleasure
the above is your profile and you identify as a switch. So I'll bite at your OP...

You need to be single, not cheating on your partner, not suggesting your dominant need be older (what the hell is older anyway? seems relative to me). Stop telling us what we NEED to do to you, and how dare you suggest you'd only love to be my houseboy while I'm slapping and whipping you. Lastly I suggest you write a sentence that has proper grammar, punctuation and spelling.

Edited to add: "pornaster"? oh my...terrible.

This sums it up beautifully.

~Lashra

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RE: learning to serve - 7/9/2007 7:15:23 PM

LadyHolly

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ORIGINAL: pornaster

mistress please tell me what i need to do to attact a dominant women i'am new and want to serve

What do woman want?

Each of us are different but there seem to be a few variables that often remain - honor, loyalty, respect, service. The true submissive desires to serve; the right Domme would be eager to train a newbie as there is no re-training involved when working with you.

If you want to have something tangible to offer her above the norm, you may try some of these:

Take a cooking class, take a massage class, clean that house like you mean it - after all, you hate dirt, right? ;) Never be rude, dont be crude - until told to - and most importantly, keep all your cock pics to yourself until asked for one. This is not to say you do this, I am answering a question you asked with very limited information. I am certain I am not the only Domme that has seen a few thousand bastard cocks in their my box - dont know their name or where they came from, I do have the feeling many of them are strays! Too much information.

Find out what your hard limits are and inform your possible Domme of them. If the hard limits are not somewhat comparable, this will only add more drama later.

Most importantly, you may want to have a glance at the quote on my signature. Live it if you want to know the mind of what I consider to be a perfect submissive and the expectations of many a Mistress.

Much luck to you,
LH

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