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Homework - 7/9/2007 11:43:16 AM   
goddessAVA


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What kinds of little projects do you like to give your slaves to do when they are not with you?  I am growing bored of the assignments I give and need some fresh ideas!  Thanks

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 1:07:15 PM   
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Personally, if the house is clean, and dinner is ready - why not let them relax?  Or let them decide on a new project that needs done (like reorganizing the garage or something)?  I prefer a boy who doesn't have to be told what to do - who can figure out on his own something that needs done.

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 3:58:29 PM   
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I like to give controlled masturbation assignments with a writing assignment afterwards that asks them to think - how controlled did you feel, was it any different than a normal orgasm? What did you feel like while you masturbated?

I also like "take home this pair of boots and polish them" or "go find me X brand vanilla vodka" or "find me some jello pudding pops" or "Find out how to give a pedicure online. Write out instructions on how to do it which involve at least 6 steps. If the instructions aren't in your normal form of writing I will assume you copied them and make you call me on the phone and describe them in your own words." "Go find 6 hot sexy photos online, send me an e-mail with a link to the photo and why you think it's sexy."

"Find such-and-so shoe style in my size. Give me the links to the three cheapest places to buy it online."
"Go find a photo of a fetish outfit you'd like to see me wear and tell me which item it is you like in the photo. Then find X number of websites where I can purchase something similar."

Other assignments depend on their homework, but have included wearing panties out in public and providing me with digital photos to prove they did it (post offices late at night and parking lots at night with a sign in the background are the best "proof" they wore them out), and embarassing and humiliating photos of them doing things.

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 4:21:45 PM   
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Hello,
I have My boy keep a journal here on collarme.  I also send him books from time to time and I expect him to spend time reading them & report on them as well.
~Kara

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 5:47:02 PM   
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thanks for the great suggestions-I will definately use the masturbation assignment!

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 5:50:27 PM   
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Another good masturbation assignment is to have them learn to do it with the opposite hand to the one they usually use. It's really hard to do, and they will almost certainly get frustrated enough to cheat. You then have the fun of making them demonstrate to you their new found skill - and watching them fail, snicker...

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 6:03:23 PM   
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I can't imagine giving Robert various assignments just to watch him jump through hoops.  If I want him to do something that serves a purpose he does it...much of those that Elorin mentioned serve a purpose...find an outfit then tell me where I can buy it is grand. Polishing boots is also something valuable.  But why make someone do something just for the hell of it?  I don't get it....I suppose if your sub or slave is lazy and needs motivating?



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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 6:33:22 PM   
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well-my boysssssssssss, yes I might have a few more then one, have different strengths and weaknesses, some are indeed lazy and have to be given tasks to teach them how to behave when in my presence.  Others just need that extra bit of control when I cannot see them.  And yes, I do like thinking about them as mice, running around mazes pointlessly getting nowhere fast......hoop after hoop..........so amusing

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RE: Homework - 7/9/2007 11:19:37 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

I like to give controlled masturbation assignments with a writing assignment afterwards that asks them to think - how controlled did you feel, was it any different than a normal orgasm? What did you feel like while you masturbated?

I also like "take home this pair of boots and polish them" or "go find me X brand vanilla vodka" or "find me some jello pudding pops" or "Find out how to give a pedicure online. Write out instructions on how to do it which involve at least 6 steps. If the instructions aren't in your normal form of writing I will assume you copied them and make you call me on the phone and describe them in your own words." "Go find 6 hot sexy photos online, send me an e-mail with a link to the photo and why you think it's sexy."

"Find such-and-so shoe style in my size. Give me the links to the three cheapest places to buy it online."
"Go find a photo of a fetish outfit you'd like to see me wear and tell me which item it is you like in the photo. Then find X number of websites where I can purchase something similar."

Other assignments depend on their homework, but have included wearing panties out in public and providing me with digital photos to prove they did it (post offices late at night and parking lots at night with a sign in the background are the best "proof" they wore them out), and embarassing and humiliating photos of them doing things.

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RE: Homework - 7/10/2007 4:09:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

well-my boysssssssssss, yes I might have a few more then one, have different strengths and weaknesses, some are indeed lazy and have to be given tasks to teach them how to behave when in my presence.  Others just need that extra bit of control when I cannot see them.  And yes, I do like thinking about them as mice, running around mazes pointlessly getting nowhere fast......hoop after hoop..........so amusing


Oh my well, then, please excuse my idiocy in that you must be so very perfect because you have "boyssssssssss".  Gee I hope I got the number of "s" correct on that quote.  I bow in all humbleness to your superior domination skills because I can certainally not be of your stature and level with only one collared live in slave *hum* and here I thought I was doin' ok....



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RE: Homework - 7/10/2007 8:35:16 AM   
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meow kitty-that was not meant as a put down silly, just the opposite.  Up to you to feel put off-I can't help that.  Obviously I would not be posting here or soliciting opinions if I truely felt "superior" in my domination skills. 

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RE: Homework - 7/11/2007 6:58:59 AM   
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quote:

But why make someone do something just for the hell of it?  I don't get it....I suppose if your sub or slave is lazy and needs motivating?


Its just another flavor of fun.  A completely pointless task evokes a different feeling that a purposeful task which has two immediate benefits for the sub that I can think of:

1) some people enjoy pointless tasks more because it feels more "fantasy" and less practical and that makes it arrousing
2) it provides a little variety in their lives rather than performing the same type of task all the time

From the Dom's point of view, I would surmise that sometimes it is just plain old fun to be silly with your requests.  Having a sub vacuum the carpet may make you happy because you got a clean carpet, but it probably won't make you giggle in the same way as having the sub do something completely pointless like sew sequins on to a pair of boxer shorts in a heart pattern.

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RE: Homework - 7/11/2007 3:08:44 PM   
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I can understand about these pointless assignments. But I tend to have a use anyway. For instance, when I send my slave/husband out in the middle of the night to get me wafels with strawberrys and cream, it's something I know to be silly, but my slave returns with the wafels I really want at that moment.
Most of the time (99.999 %) I have enough tasks for him so I don't have the time to award him with some kind of play: being my slave is a serious business, he needs to free up my time. Meaning he needs to work autonomous as much as possible.
If I would start playing with him like this, I would be doing what he wants. While he already has a lot of pleasure serving me as it is.
Well, as long as you have fun it's all allright with me. Freedom for everyone, so this was just my view on my household.

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RE: Homework - 7/11/2007 6:26:01 PM   
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sequins in a heart pattern-thats fun, I like it, even better if he has to do it at work sneaking the stiches between clients hmmmmmm I am feeling a bit reinspired, thanks

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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 1:50:50 AM   
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quote:


Personally, if the house is clean, and dinner is ready - why not let them relax?  



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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 2:28:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

quote:

ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

well-my boysssssssssss, yes I might have a few more then one, have different strengths and weaknesses, some are indeed lazy and have to be given tasks to teach them how to behave when in my presence.  Others just need that extra bit of control when I cannot see them.  And yes, I do like thinking about them as mice, running around mazes pointlessly getting nowhere fast......hoop after hoop..........so amusing


Oh my well, then, please excuse my idiocy in that you must be so very perfect because you have "boyssssssssss".  Gee I hope I got the number of "s" correct on that quote.  I bow in all humbleness to your superior domination skills because I can certainally not be of your stature and level with only one collared live in slave *hum* and here I thought I was doin' ok....



You mean "pro".  Thus, "many boys" = clients.

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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 2:30:18 AM   
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Is that really The Ranger?

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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 4:45:36 AM   
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I have both kinds of boys.

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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 8:29:56 PM   
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Gosh! No matter which  forum I go to...there are just some people who have nothing else to do but make snide remarks and bitch.  Again I say too much time.  Perhaps the slave should do less and the Dominants more.

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RE: Homework - 7/12/2007 8:34:29 PM   
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nahh. I prefer my boys/girls do all the work. I'm lazy!

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