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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 5:46:56 PM   
onlineheartbeats


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Status: offline 		winterlight, I'm running into the same problem on here. They not only want breast size, they want nude pics, or they want me to strip and take nude pics to send them, lol. You did 2 right things, first by following your instinct and second by deleting and blocking.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:01:12 PM   
angelsub642


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Status: offline 		Nope absolutly not. i've had the same thing done with me before as well. i blocked him since i didn't want for him to know my sn. You were right to trust your instincts

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:33:29 PM   
SexyRed


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Status: offline 		OP, I am sorry, but if you are this upset over an IM conversation, what are you going to do when you meet someone in real life (as as happened to me twice this week already) and after a lovely lunch or dinner (first time meeting after talking on the phone a few times) and after talking on the phone and in person about how much they want a "relationship", the next thing they say after the check came was, so can I come over tonight for a scene?

When, in disgust (even if I like the guy, the first meeting is a getting to know you stage) I say, are you serious? What makes you think that is appropriate after our first lunch to ask if you can come over tonight for a scene? The answer: because you are submissive, so I thought you would be open to it. I said, do you ask vanilla dates that question? He said, of course not, the woman would get angry.

And this my friends, is a "dom" who is a college professor, PhD.

So OP, don't sweat the small stuff in IM's and emails, prepare yourself for the onslaught of the men who equate submissiveness with easy access to sex IMMEDIATELY.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:37:13 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		I don't want to come up here and upset the apple cart....But we are walking the thin line between giving help and fucking with the laws of nature....Many a lad or weak Dom has cut his teeth on the unaware the gullible the feebleminded....Does the lion plow right into the middle of the heard of wildebeest and take on the strongest one?...Hell No!!! They bide their time and pick on the weak the slow learners the ones who have their head down grazing in lieu of analyzing the horizon...The wildebeest that welcomingly send pics of tits and open vaginas over this medium are our friends they are a necessary commodity and, if there is a God, should be left to their own devices...Wanking material does not fall off of trees..Ya know!!...

Any Dom commanding you to submit..Should really be enough for you all!..You will obey!!! Or you are not a true sub..(To all of you rotten subs who have sent me tit and meat wallet shots...This would not apply to you....You are doing God's work)  ..Anywhooo! By giving these people advice you are potentially damaging things beyond your grasp....Do not try to attempt to empower those that should be preyed upon...You know not what you do.  The entire balance of the universe could be flipped on its lid...If a butterfly flaps it's wings cannot that lead to a hurricane? I'm holding you do gooders to the task of cleaning up the mess that these subs you are empowering will ultimately cause....FEMA will be powerless to deal with the devastation brought down upon us all by these dopes...You are all responsible...Sleep well.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 7/10/2007 6:40:16 PM >

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:50:08 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To the OP..he is poor excuse for not only a "dominant" but a poor excuse for a man as well....simply feel sorry for any woman or women he may have in his life up to now and in the future....Tempting

Actually if one thinks upon it, most Dominants will be paying for his wankishness in the future as he will be creating another submissive who will doubt, question,or even leave BDSM and D/s far behind after experiencing this wank in person..

< Message edited by TemptingNviceSub -- 7/10/2007 6:52:54 PM >

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:50:16 PM   
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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 6:52:55 PM   
MissJana


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Status: offline 		Love your answers. LMAO. Gotta remember a few of those.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/10/2007 7:01:24 PM   
Corve


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Status: offline 		Out of line?  Is it your required obedience to continue comunicating with some specific dom?  I guess the answer depends of where you give your devoted submision.  What do you seek in your submission?

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/11/2007 2:00:07 AM   
heartcream


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Status: offline 		thank God there is the block button. some of these people out there are rude and scary beyond. i have gotten frightened, squicked, angry, or outraged in my short time here by some of the mail and pm's i have rec'd. i launch them out of my orbit with my block button and feel somewhat safer and better. sheesh.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/11/2007 4:32:12 AM   
bliss1


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Status: offline 		Way to go girl!

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 4:00:06 PM   
teamnoir


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Status: offline 		You are not out of line.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 4:32:13 PM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		I can be kinda demanding like that.
But its not something I do right off the bat.

There are however Dom/mes that do and that doesnt make Them wankers or
not real They happen to know what They want and maybe They do it
to weed out those not willing to follow through.

Two sides to every coin...dontcha know.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 4:48:15 PM   
teamnoir


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Status: offline 		I didn't mean to suggest that they were in the wrong either. It's entirely possible that two people exhibiting reasonable actions don't get along.

However, the original poster was not out of line in expressing the boundary as stated. I don't think the people being forward were necessarily out of line either, although they did sound to be a bit forward for most people's tastes, I think.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 4:53:57 PM   
MistressSassy66


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Status: offline 		I used that dang fast reply thing...wasnt meant in direction of what you posted  'team'   

Just My own thoughts where ever I can fit them in...

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 5:00:55 PM   
instynctive


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I would love to add my two cents here, but I will need to know your breast size, when the last time you had sex was, no fewer than 200 nude pictures and a reference from your Mom.




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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 5:16:25 PM   
MistressSassy66


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ORIGINAL: instynctive

OP-

I would love to add my two cents here, but I will need to know your breast size, when the last time you had sex was, no fewer than 200 nude pictures and a reference from your Mom.






LMFAO...You Sir are so bad.

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In the Immortal Words of Bob....Fuck the dumb shit.

"I love you not only for what you are,But for what I am when I'm with you."- Opening line from a poem by Roy Croft

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/12/2007 6:57:56 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for the replies. I am not upset but i am frustrated at times with the stupidity of people.

Yes, i know i am stupid i hear that all the time...

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/15/2007 10:53:41 PM   
hideandseek


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Status: offline 		If you felt uncomfortable you did exactly the right thing.  Some subs/slaves don't mind sharing that type of information but you should be with someone who makes you feel comfortable.

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/16/2007 8:33:23 PM   
subfemale27


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Status: offline 		i find this a lot also and have learned that if the 'Dom' starts talking about sex/tit size first thing... then the odds of them actually being a Dom are slim. most will show You respect!

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RE: newbie what disturbs me is a "dom - 7/17/2007 3:45:46 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings

you lucky you just had that. i had nude pictures oh all kind of things. no you were not out of line if that is all he is thinking iit is good you block him. i haad thought i found a friend who was a dom. i have some troubles but then he began to want to have conversations that i did not feel good about well he stop speaking to me and that was it.

take care
mons

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