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RE: pick your battles carefully - 6/28/2005 11:17:41 AM

toilet4use

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Excellent advice.

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RE: Disliking my Masters friends - 6/29/2005 8:56:11 AM

imtempting

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ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

Sometimes, people just aren't meant to be friends. I can appreciate your Master's point of view in wanting someone She cares deeply for (you) to get along with Her friends. However, if you have no desire to socialize with this person, then you shouldn't be forced to either.
~shiv

Good point. Also its an ex. Be realistic everyone and say how you would like your partner or sub or Mistress or Master talking to an ex bf or gf or sub... I know I would hate it... I would be so worried. Especially if you cant ask specific questions or not allowed to be near them when talking etc.

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RE: Disliking my Masters friends - 7/1/2005 10:13:08 AM

nonuts4thshoney

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quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

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ORIGINAL: Hissweetshiv

Sometimes, people just aren't meant to be friends. I can appreciate your Master's point of view in wanting someone She cares deeply for (you) to get along with Her friends. However, if you have no desire to socialize with this person, then you shouldn't be forced to either.
~shiv

Good point. Also its an ex. Be realistic everyone and say how you would like your partner or sub or Mistress or Master talking to an ex bf or gf or sub... I know I would hate it... I would be so worried. Especially if you cant ask specific questions or not allowed to be near them when talking etc.

i thank you both for shareing your views on this topic. i have however decided to suck it up and try to open up to Masters friend/ex. i am not happy about it but there is not much i can do about it. i do not have a valid reason for disliking her and Master knows this. They are only friends and i do beleive this. i do not feel threatened in any way. i just posted a new thread about Master giving me a new task to become more social. i think the fact that i am so reserved plays a big part in this. i know that Master is just doing what she feels is best for me. Before i make judgement on another she wants me to get to know them first.

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