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Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:12:08 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		I hate to throw all my problems out there but tonite, I just need to know why...I spent a wonderful year of my life with my late Master- and even though he is gone now, I cannot forget the many ways he has changed my life and the lives of my children. I just got off the phone with my ex husband...now the conversation had me crying..I guess he figures because Ron is gone now, it's time for me to come home..He said "do you ever think of me?" and I thought to myself..yeah I do...the many bruises both physically and emotionally that he gave me...he appologizes for the past and asked me to forgive him and come home..but what am I coming home to? The town itself has so many bad memories for me...I fear going back there would put me in such a state of depression it would cripple me...I remember Ron once telling me that if anything ever happened to him and I went back to my ex he would haunt me forever...Of course, he was my husband, there are feelings there that linger- we share four beautiful children together but I just fear going back would be nice for the first few weeks or so...then he would turn back into the monster he once was....I don't have much of a life here where I am at but I do have a job and friends....I don't want to make the biggest mistake of my life...he talks about how the kids miss me so much..the guilt....the guilt...

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:17:39 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		if you need to talk, i can call you tonight. i'm sorry you're going through so many problems, hon.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:18:53 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		thankyou hon, you know how much that means to me...i am gonna head to bed shortly but I don't work tomorrow evening and a call from you would be very nice (smiles)...let's say around this same time? ..you are such a dear friend.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:26:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok from what i just read that would be a big glaring HELLL NOOO. Anyone that wil use guilt and kids to try and get you to come back is not worth your time. From what i have seen on here you're a nicce person Jersey don't let him work and play you like this.From now on i'd limit your calls to talks about tthe kids only if he tries the kids miss me line hang up on him. Trust me he will get the message soon enough.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:29:47 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		What hurt me the most was he asked me what do I tell people is the reason that I'm no longer with him..and I told him simple "because i'm too fat"...and honestly, that is what he told me the reason was years ago he didn't want to be with me...he got quiet for a moment and said "but you lost alot of weight since then"....that made me so angry because that means he is still thinking the same ole' way..just candy coating it...I am going to be strong and get through this ..I guess it just caught me off guard tonite is all.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:32:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		always does. just keep reminding yourself what a piece of pond scum sucking toad he is and all will be well

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:38:04 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		thankyou CrimsonMoan- I have to remember that us women are stronger than we think we are....if you would like to chat, i have yahoo messenger but cannot send messages here on collarme for some reason- send me contact info and we can chat there...yeah, i talk too much..

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:38:10 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Manipulation is really very evil in a person. HELL NO do not ever go back! Tell him that he can quit with the guilt trips they won't work. You are a strong woman and you must stay that way..My condolences on your loss of your Master.
He sounds like one of the best (Manipulators) around.  Just turn away from him because he is a pathetic little loser that he feels the only way he can have a woman is to pull this crap.

YOu know better and are stronger than this jerk.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:43:23 PM   
CrimsonMoan


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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 7:43:50 PM   
KMsAngel


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Status: offline 		don't even think what an evil pond sucking scum he is. that's way too much thought to devote to him. pity him. he had you and didn't try to find the you that your Master loved and pulled out to the sunshine. Truly it is his loss and he will never regain it.

My ex pulled the same comment. Told me as the divorce paper were in the mail, that after years of telling me it wasn't my weight, that if i became slim again, who knows we could start dating again. NOT.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 8:26:50 PM   
lilsubl


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Status: offline 		awww, Krissi...do not buy into this...you said that you remembered bruises...that alone is a reason to stay away...nobody deserves being hit in anger...abusive people always will tell you sorry, i've chnaged, it won't happen again, but it's just not true...you are in a transitional place & more vulnerable right now...it was just the anniversary of your Master's death...please stay strong & if you need us to stay strong & prop you up until you can be strong for yourself, i volunteer to do that...i also have Yahoo messenger & would love to chat sometimes....i admire you & how you have managed to get through this year......

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 8:29:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Don't fall into his guilt ridden trap. You don't need nor deserve to be abused. Love your kids and let them know that. But keep your independence, distance and sanity. You will meet a man one day who can love you for you and not mistreat you.

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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 8:29:44 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

thankyou hon, you know how much that means to me...i am gonna head to bed shortly but I don't work tomorrow evening and a call from you would be very nice (smiles)...let's say around this same time? ..you are such a dear friend.


anytime, hon. you're a dear friend and i care about you


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RE: Tell me WHY? - 7/10/2007 8:32:35 PM   
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quote:

Our greatest glory is not in never falling-but in rising every time we fall ( Confucius )


just a reminder......


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