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True status..... - 7/11/2007 8:57:33 AM

atendersoul

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in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?
Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....
slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

~serving House of Wolf, Master and beta to Alpha Male Wolf with pride and honor~

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:02:39 AM

camille65

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?

It could be, or it could be to stave off accusations of being fake.

Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....

I'm sorry but according to whom are they unearned titles?

slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

Since you have been on this path for so many years surely you realise that everyone seeks something different. Not every 's' type is into pain. Where is it said that only those seeking pain are permitted here? I do not understand that concept at all.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:04:23 AM

TallDarkAndWitty

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Real and true are valid English words and the backlash they receive comes more from their use by "one true wayers" than any fault of the words themsleves.

There is nothing wrong in claiming that one is real and/or true. The problem only comes when people believe that their way of living is the only way to live if one wants to be real and/or true.

Taggard

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:05:29 AM

Trampler

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hi cjenny, camile is a pretty name :)

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:09:15 AM

SlND3R3LLA

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Who is to say who is true or not? If the two people, or in this case the one person in the profile, feel the need to state they are true or real..what does it matter? They must for some reason feel it needs to be stated. Perhaps because they didn't kneel on the webcam when they were told, or they didn't use "sir" after every sentence, someone told them they weren't a real sub/slave.

No one can define what a true/real sub/slave is, they can only define what a sub/slave is to them.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:11:10 AM

camille65

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Thankies Trampler!

*slowly licks at her delish 'nilla cone, so yummy on a hot summer day*

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:11:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?

It's probably either an attempt to block the idiots who call them fake or it's an attempt to make them appear more desirable and elavate them above the rest.

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Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....

Exactly how do you earn the title? Is there a school?

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slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

Do you really believe the only reason to be here is pain? Not every dominant or master even likes inflicting pain.

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~serving House of Wolf, Master and beta to Alpha Male Wolf with pride and honor~

That's nice.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:14:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?

I am real(at least to those that have met me). I am also true to myself. They aren't bad words unless you make them bad. Forcing your expectation and labels of what is real and true on someone is the problem, not the words themselves.

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Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....
slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

Like I said - forcing your expectations and labels on others is when something becomes a problem. Not all s-types are masochists. Some S- types are Sadists. Some are neither. Your assuming that all BDSM is about pain, it isn't. If it was it would be called PAIN, not BDSM. You are making a judgement and then placing it on all orientations. Making a judgement is all good - forcing the judgement on people you don't know and condemming others because it doesn't conform to your idea isn't good - nope, not at all. Milage and yearage may vary - doesn't make you more advanced or qualified just because you have 'many years' on the clock.

Peace
the.dark.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 9:38:12 AM

camille65

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You don't understand why people use the word true or real nor do you understand why someone not into pain would be on CM.
IMO what you are doing is practicing 'the one TRUE way' mode of seeing the world. I'm not sure if you realise you are coming across as condescending and twue-wayish but several of your posts question peoples judgement and lifestyles. Hopefully you aren't doing this purposefully and will realise that everyone has their own way, and that is a very okay thing

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Like any large group there are divergent personalities & many different reasons for being who they are.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 10:19:56 AM

littleone35

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I do not know why they use real or true. it might be a way of telling others they are not players (of course some of them still might be).

I am one of those submissives that don't want a lot of pain. Oh does that mean i should delete my account and leave? Well that ain gonna happen. I am here because i WAS (i have one now) looking for a sensual not a sadistic Master. I found one, yes he will punish me if i earned one, but he does not like to inflict pain. We are a good match.

Matt's littleone

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 10:29:24 AM

Deamonpainter

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* Pinches myself. I'm true.

...But you know, I'm not so sure what is being said here. I'm guessing you believe in truth and reality and the narrow, hard-earned status of slavery...but are bitching about those people who use the word "true" without being true at all. If so, I'm right there with you.

Master-Beta.

quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?
Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....
slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

~serving House of Wolf, Master and beta to Alpha Male Wolf with pride and honor~

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 10:39:53 AM

GhitaAmati

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last time I checked I was a real human being...nope, no fake cartoonish drawing here.

true..true to what? im true to myself....does that count?

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 10:44:36 AM

camille65

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It only counts if you love pain

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 10:52:39 AM

windchymes

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Jerking the thread...sometimes I wonder how far down the Greek alphabet some of those "houses" have to go....wonder if anyone ever makes it to "omega"?

Or maybe it's a demotion....you once made it to delta, but after a bad "brat" day, got demoted down to "omega"? Gotta earn your way back up through the ranks of "psi", "chi", "phi", etc.

< Message edited by windchymes -- 7/11/2007 10:53:49 AM >

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 11:48:53 AM

TallDarkAndWitty

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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes
Gotta earn your way back up through the ranks of "psi", "chi", "phi", etc.

Maybe that is how sororities got started. A bunch of slave triads, in various progressions through the greek alphabet, got together and formed them. Sigma Delta Pi!

Taggard

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 11:51:44 AM

meticulousgirl

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the control, the mental aspects, maybe just the sex who knows..that's each individuals place to call only them, themselves actually know.

~meticulous~

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 12:15:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

in reading many profiles here, she is taken back with the usage of the words Real and True as defining their positions of status here. Could this be due to being on line that they feel it necessary to write?
Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....
slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

~serving House of Wolf, Master and beta to Alpha Male Wolf with pride and honor~

the only true i claim is Tru, which has nothing to do with status as a submissive, and everything to do with where i stand with Deity.

Sir is satisfied with me as i am, and isnt that what it boils down to? pleasing one's owner?

kitten, who was patted on the head and told not to worry her pretty little brain about such things, quite recently....

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 12:20:13 PM

Celeste43

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ORIGINAL: atendersoul

Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....

slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

Who are you to decide whether or not what he calls me is true? It's our relationship, not yours.

As far as the second comment quoted, where on earth did you get the idea that painplay equals control. Or do you assume if you see someone whip a stranger at a party that the top automatically owns the bottom? He has control over me but neither of us is into s & m, we're into bondage. S & M is play and can be brought into use for control but it isn't required. Consent is required.

I submit because I consent to submitting to him. I don't submit to anyone else including internet types who believe they have the right to tell me if my relationship is true or not, and think because they're with a sadist that everyone else has to be.

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 12:23:15 PM

BitaTruble

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quote:

ORIGINAL: atendersoul

Having this been my path for many years, there is understanding to the tag of titles, many self poised, unearned....
slaves and subs that has so many hard limits and cry of not being into pain, what is the true reason for even being here?

You have a Master. From your journals it seems you are pretty happy with him. Don't be so petty as to begrudge that others seek what you have even if they don't want it in the same way as you. Your concern is your Master, not other slaves and how they decide to use the English language in their search. It is, after all, 'their' search, not yours and their reasons for being here are their concern, not yours. Your journals speak as if you come from a very humble place.. the content here belies such. Is that the impression you want others to have of you?

Celeste

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RE: True status..... - 7/11/2007 1:00:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes
Gotta earn your way back up through the ranks of "psi", "chi", "phi", etc.

Maybe that is how sororities got started. A bunch of slave triads, in various progressions through the greek alphabet, got together and formed them. Sigma Delta Pi!

Taggard

Are there hazing rituals?

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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