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nickymaz -> Chastity (7/11/2007 3:08:53 PM)
Greetings; I wanted to invite everyone to share their experiences with chastity devices. Do you own one? Do you wear it? Is your chastity enforced by a Dom/Domme? What's the longests you've been locked up? Please feel free to share any fun experiences you may have had with your CB. Personally, I own a CB-3000. I wear it on and off and my chastity is not yet enforced by a Superior (any takers? [;)]). The longest I was locked was 6 days. It was not a very fun experience, but I'm a little older and wiser now and know how to wear the CB better than I did back then. It's very important to get the right fit. Also, check out this link. http://www.lockedinsteel.com/?Cat=63&CatName=CB3000%20Security%20Belt This company made this cool belt attachment for the CB-2000/3000/Curve. Looks nice!

daddysliloneds -> RE: Chastity (7/11/2007 3:54:47 PM)
never owned a chasity device and never been put in chasity by someone; why? well because i can't get off by myself through masterbation, penetration with toys, etc., and every dominant i've been owned by knows that i dont' fuck around with anyone else unless they give me permission and are aware of it, so there's never been a need for chasity.

nickymaz -> RE: Chastity (7/11/2007 4:06:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds never owned a chasity device and never been put in chasity by someone; why? well because i can't get off by myself through masterbation, penetration with toys, etc., and every dominant i've been owned by knows that i dont' fuck around with anyone else unless they give me permission and are aware of it, so there's never been a need for chasity. Good for you. I respect those who have that kind of self control.

ready4srvce4all -> RE: Chastity (7/11/2007 6:31:31 PM)
I've never worn one, and before Mistress and I even first met, chastity devices were one of my limits. I have never fucked around on any woman I had a relationship with in my life, and I personally would feel somewhat offended to be asked to wear one for an extended amount of time, as I would feel "I can't be trusted." Mistress controls my orgasms, and even tells me if I'm allowed to masturbate at all, with or without orgasm. She has specific reasons for this control, and I obey Her. I don't need some device that I know I won't tolerate more than a few hours to keep me in line.

earthycouple -> RE: Chastity (7/12/2007 3:54:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ready4srvce4all I've never worn one, and before Mistress and I even first met, chastity devices were one of my limits. I have never fucked around on any woman I had a relationship with in my life, and I personally would feel somewhat offended to be asked to wear one for an extended amount of time, as I would feel "I can't be trusted." Mistress controls my orgasms, and even tells me if I'm allowed to masturbate at all, with or without orgasm. She has specific reasons for this control, and I obey Her. I don't need some device that I know I won't tolerate more than a few hours to keep me in line. Awww....I just noticed my slave has is first paddle!!! And I suppose chastity has become much like hoop jumping...if you like it great, then make it happen, but I don't find use for either of them. Though I own a Curve and have used it in the past. I don't believe for a second I would ever feel required to use it on Robert due to inability to trust him.

bandit25 -> RE: Chastity (7/12/2007 3:59:10 AM)
Although it's not a hard limit, I doubt that I would tolerate well either. To me, it also implies a bit of mistrust...even tho I am sure many will disagree and say it's just for their entertainment. Whatever works...but it wouldn't work for me.

Zephyr46 -> RE: Chastity (7/12/2007 6:29:18 AM)
Has anyone looked at wearing a chastity device from this viewpoint? I wear one when I am away from my Dominant partner. I do this voluntarily but with her knowledge. She has never insisted on my wearing it but understood my doing this when I explained my mind set for it. For me it is a constant reminder of the control she has even when we are apart. I am free to remove it at any time but enjoy the concept if not the device which can become uncomfortable at times during the day.

SirMIkeSD -> RE: Chastity (7/12/2007 9:02:18 AM)
I have used one on my boy once (so far), my reason was not that I don't have full trust in him not to play with himself and cum while awake. But I wanted to be sure he did not play with himself while sleeping. I knew he was really looking forward to cuming when he reached his "cum date" as I had been working him really good making sure he really wanted it. Then on his "cum date", I gave him a choice of cuming or getting played with sounds and waiting 5 more days. Picking sounds was a real hard choice for him, and I knew that he would never touch himself while awake. I also know that as men, waking up playing with yourself is not uncommon (at least for the two of us). So I wanted to besure that did not happen. Mike

Trampler -> RE: Chastity (7/12/2007 9:27:59 AM)
While I find the idea of my sub wearing a CD in general to be sexy. It doesn't appeal to me, to have him wear it for long periods. Also not really inclined to have him wear it at work, for fear of distracting him to much. But I also find mental control to be more stimulating. knowing that I expect him to not touch himself when he isn't supposed to.

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