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RE: Longlocks - 7/11/2007 7:52:43 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Hey I'm doing that on my birthday! I'm sending it all to Locks For Love. I will miss it but it's just hair *gasp* and it will grow back, plus it is time for a fun change
I'm just glad hair play can be done with shorter hair too!

Seriously if anyone has ideas for my haircut please let me know? I've no clue what looks okay on me lol.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/11/2007 7:53:22 PM   
stateira


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Status: offline 		I have long curly dark brown hair, although Master always argues that it's black.  I think it his is favorite thing about me.  LOL even when I talk about getting it trimmed he immediately says no.  He pulls on it sometimes...and sometimes I will wake up in the middle of the night and he's got his hands in it...like he was dreaming about it. 

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RE: Longlocks - 7/11/2007 8:34:33 PM   
chellekitty


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hair bondage can be done with various methods...including the already mentioned braiding string/cord/small rope into it and using that as an attachment point, either to a ring or to an actual tie down point...to doing a complicated braid around the hair and i am sure there are more techniques...your hair doesn't have to be extremely long to do this either...if you can pull your hair into a low pony tail and have it hit right between your shoulder blades, i'd say it was long enough...

I had the pleasure of witnessing a very powerful experience...this slave had realized that her hair had become a point of false pride for her...so as a fundraiser at a leather event she raised money to cut her hair in front of a whole bunch of people...she donated her hair to locks of love and gave the money away, and was allowed to help others as well as help herself by removing this source of false pride...i don't know about anyone else in the room, but i was bleary eyed by the end of it...she had it styled afterwards and it was very cute...

as for the style that would work for you camille, i couldn't even begin to guess because i don't know what your face structure and shape are....but there are lots of options on the short end of things from a pixie spikey style to a bob (which they can do a lot more with these days) to long in the front and faded to the back (not sure what thats called) and all lengths and thickness of bangs to go along with the main portion...oh man now i have to go find a hairstyle i want now cause i have the itch to get it cut again...i think i am gonna keep the length in back this time and just add bangs...lol...

ttfn
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RE: Longlocks - 7/11/2007 11:15:19 PM   
LadyPaige


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Status: offline 		Long hair is erotic from both sides of the slash for me.  I like using it in sensual play and having it brushed / having my hair pulled instantly turns me to mush.  I'll have to try the hair bondage thing, J has the sexiest long hair and I love the way it feels on my skin *shivers*.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 1:22:39 AM   
Sinergy


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Personally, there is nothing more lovely than tying her hair to the doorknob and using her cake hole for what it is
designed for.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 3:50:53 AM   
Areflectionofyou


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Status: offline 		my hair is super short and he loves pulling it because he can grab and hold it easy.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 3:56:50 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		I love my hair.. :-)  Well, another 4-6 inches and I'll love it.. LOL

B has incredible hair.. thick, strong, down to her ass.  I'm going to incorporate some hair bondage techniques this weekend...

She loves having it pulled, even if not during sex... and I've been known to wrap it around her neck during play... it also makes for a decent flogger..

:-D



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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 4:18:16 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		Hi

i am in the process of growing my hair own from short. i find that long hair is fun. i can do alot more whit it, and i think it looks elegant, and my master love it, but it i alot of work to keep it in good condition. Witch remind me i should go an wash it again.

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And, contrary to popular belief, I find a half inch of hair is more than sufficient to do a good hair pull.


When i was a little girl, i got picked on allt. i was never fast but i was strong as a bear browing up. At one point i got a hold of one of the bullies, one day he suspected peace and no danger. i was nearly fully grown depite being 10 or so, he was one year young than me, and very little. i took a good grip in his hair and nearly lifted him clear of his feet, explaing to him i wanted him to leave me alone. my teatcher was shooked, his teatcher belived he deserved it, the next day this boy come to school whit less than half an inch of hair, and he never bothered me again. So i guess he belived that half an inch was quite safe. :)


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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 6:19:28 AM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		Was debating going for the chop....
Up until recently I absolutely hated having my hair pulled...it is almost to my waist, thick and black.
Strangers will touch it, and I get alot of compliments on it...but as i said up until recently I hated people pulling on it..but have discovered  these days it depends on whose doing the pulling.
So for now it's not going anywhere.



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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 6:32:22 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I always had super short cropped hair until the last five years or so...just for the fact that I love to have it grabbed, pulled and led around by it.  You can't do that with short hair.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 6:34:12 AM   
instynctive


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I always had super short cropped hair until the last five years or so...just for the fact that I love to have it grabbed, pulled and led around by it.  You can't do that with short hair.


You could always grow out your pubes.. ;-)


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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 7:39:23 AM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		i love my long hair........ive had the same hairstyle since about 1974-except my 3 years in the army......i can still take you to the spot on 285, where i rolled up the window to my old vega, and my hair got caught in it.....i laughed and cried......my long hair was back......

as for having it twisted tightly in someones hands........errrr.....i cant think about that.....im in mourning right now and would have to go touch my self

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 8:19:12 AM   
Kellendra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

as for having it twisted tightly in someones hands........errrr.....i cant think about that.....im in mourning right now and would have to go touch my self


Wow..yes.....Needs to go have a wee lie down now....

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 8:24:15 AM   
michelleryder


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Status: offline 		Green with envy as my hairs only ever grown thin and straggly :-(

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 8:30:52 AM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I used to associate my hair with a sense of power and security...but then I realized I was actually using it as a sheild from my insecurities.

I've let it grow down to my butt and cut it back to my chin 4 times now. 

What really matters to me is the style, functionality and practicality.  A lot of people in the scene get into long hair and that's fine- as long as they keep the ends clean.  It pains me to see people who just let them get all stringy and scraggly. 

I did know a hair fetishist once...spent a few afternoons in his chair having some really great spa experiences.

And, contrary to popular belief, I find a half inch of hair is more than sufficient to do a good hair pull.

I will use my hair in play as another form of sensation, but that's it.


I agree with this!  In particular I find the sheer amount of scraggly, dry, split ended, uncolored (I'm a huge fan of experimenting with different hair color blends - with a trained hairstylist) heads in the scene to be kind of perplexing.  I definitely think a lot of people in the scene like long hair, but aren't necessarily well versed in taking care of it.

C~


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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 8:51:05 AM   
SweetAndInnocent


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I always had super short cropped hair until the last five years or so...just for the fact that I love to have it grabbed, pulled and led around by it.  You can't do that with short hair.



My hair isn't long- barely brushes my shoulders.  Sir doesn't seem to have any problems grabbing a handful and leading me exactly where he wants to go with it.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 9:32:32 AM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		My hair is curly and comes to the middle of my back if not longer, and MJ loves it, I get a phone call in a few moments when I say I have the 'urge' to chop it off, lol. MJ has 'plans' for how to concorperate my hair into things, most likely pulling or having it wrapped around His hand, I didn't ask, at this point, I don't wanna know. I always wear my hair back and can't sleep with it down or usually play with it down, so we shall have to see.

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 10:10:05 AM   
chellekitty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: michelleryder

Green with envy as my hairs only ever grown thin and straggly :-(


i have a story for you...my aunt had this beautiful head of curly red hair when she was little, and theres this story my family tells almost every time we get together...there was one time when she was about 3 or 4 sitting in front of a mirror trying to get a comb thru this curly hair bawling her eyes out saying "I want long stwingy hair like Vawerie (my mom - Valerie)"...my mom hasn't complained about her long stwingy hair since...and if she even starts i just quote her sister lol...
i for one envy you because you can wear your hair short..if i tried that hair cut i would be a poof ball...and i have tried...

take care
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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 3:29:33 PM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		i have babyfine hair and not a whole lot of it.  i lose it because of illness.   its been a little over a year since the sleepwalking/haircutting incident, and now its just past my shoulders again.  oh yeah it grows slowly too...

Sir is encouraging me to let it grow out, and i'm trying...not sure how long it'll get but we'll see.

kitten who once had mid-back length hair and misses it....

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RE: Longlocks - 7/12/2007 5:44:20 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		My hair reaches below my ass, and I find it to be fun. Sometimes I'm encased in it, sometimes it gets into my mouth, my eyes, under Daddy, stepped on, sat on, but it's always worth it.

When he grabs ahold of the hair at the nape of my neck, I know I could have a supershort cut and he could still do it - he demonstrated for me on a friend/shopkeep at a Renn Faire this spring. But he couldn't choke me with it, or brush it, or play with it. I couldn't flog people with it, or drape my hair across my lover's body if it was super short. I couldn't luxuriate in a 2 hour long styling session at the salon if it was super short.

My hair is a luxury, and one I love, and I enjoy the attention it brings as well as the compliments.

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