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WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/20/2005 5:01:29 AM

KittieSummers

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Last night, for the first time in my life, I truly understood what sub-space really is. I had heard the words before and just assumed it meant feeling submissive. However, last night my Mistress told me to act as a footstoot for my sister sub while Mistress was in the bath talking to my chain-sister, who was on a chair in the bathroom. I cleared my throat and Mistress said saomething about footstools not talking and called me a fucking little slut or something like that (She knows I love talk like that) and wow! I was floating. It was like being on drugs or something. My mind was huge but my body was really tiny and floating. I alwaysd thought I'd enjoy objectification but it was so much better than I ever thought it would be. Thankyou, Mistress, for showing me this. And WOW, if you haven't experianced this I feel so sorry for you now. Now I know what I was missing.

Sub-Space is AMAZING!

I am interested, though, to find out what makes all of you drop into your sub-space? With me it appears to be objectification. With my chain-sister it is other things. Looking forward to hearing your 'sub-space' making experiances.

P.S. Sorry I'm not making much sense and my grammer has gone to pot...I'm very tired!

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/20/2005 5:30:27 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KittieSummers

I am interested, though, to find out what makes all of you drop into your sub-space? With me it appears to be objectification. With my chain-sister it is other things. Looking forward to hearing your 'sub-space' making experiances.

P.S. Sorry I'm not making much sense and my grammer has gone to pot...I'm very tired!

For me it's adrenaline and feeling intimately connected and allowed to be vulnerable. I don't get endorphin sub-space.

I'm glad you had a good time, it can be overwhelming to some who aren't used to the experience, and sometimes sub-space can be bad, but like an orgasm, it can be a great addition to things to enjoy.

I rarely go into subspace, though I am enjoying the pleasure of topspace.

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/20/2005 2:16:56 PM

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I am so happy that you finally found out what it is like in "sub space". It is a wonderful, and scary feeling all at the same time. I never knew till a few weeks ago myself how great it can be. Wish you luck in your journey.

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/21/2005 2:48:06 AM

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Ah yes.

Sub space.

A most pleasurable and somewhat addictive state of being. For me, it
always felt like a warm, secure cocoon.

While I dropped quite easily, the actual experience was different each time. But generally, I lost all sense of place and time. Hours would pass that felt like minutes. If sensory deprivation was involved, other senses were incredibly heightened. I became completely Dominant-focussed.

Funnily enough, emotions were often supressed. I read somewhere once that subs rarely smile in subspace - perhaps that's why.

Enjoy!

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/21/2005 12:29:58 PM

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Yes subspace is amazingly beautiful isn't it?

For me its like another state of conciousness and all i can hear is His voice.At times i've gone into such intense subspace that it's taken me hours to fully come down and even after that i'm still in a bit of a love fog for days afterwards

i don't think there's just one thing that puts me into subspace but more of a combonation of things.His dominance vibing with my submissivness,the atmosphere,pleasing him,hearing him call me a "good girl",all of those things do it for me.
Hope you have many more happy subspace moments

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/22/2005 8:15:06 PM

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Feeling like an insignificant "Threeholeslittlewhore!!" works for me.

In other words, humiliation, pain and tears are my way to get to that state. All of this mixed. Anything less then that, will get me to be scared and confussed...nothing else.

I don't ussualy feel like floating. I do feel extremely small, and like I'm sort of disappearing in some dark place. I can't talk or respond with elocuence. And the only thing that can bring me back to Earth is a tender kiss.

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/23/2005 3:47:09 AM

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Since we're sharing, there's nothing like a sharp slap to the face to get me well on the way to dropping down, down, down...

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/23/2005 4:01:27 AM

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i just discovered a new 'one'! Daddy grabbed me the other night while playing, by shall we say, the 'pubic mound', not my 'sex', very roughly and just 'manhandled' me for lack of a better term. never remember a Dom doing that, but boy did it work for me... our s/m play hasn't 'gotten me there' yet and we have moments when just his tone has, so we're discovering all the ways to provoke this state... im not referring to the 'high' subspace, more like the headspace where you feel very small as described above, very subly, very obedient...very much his littleone...
all i could say was 'yours Master' over and over again, wasn't so much aroused as was just overcome by my own response...

nothing like a big strong hand grabbing and holding you there to remind you who's the Daddy ;)

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/23/2005 8:10:14 PM

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Since we're sharing, there's nothing like a sharp slap to the face to get me well on the way to dropping down, down, down...

I agree!. A suddenly good slap to the face gets me down too. But when I ask for it, it makes me smile...like, Isabella Rosellini in "Blue Velvet".

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/24/2005 5:26:59 AM

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I agree!. A suddenly good slap to the face gets me down too. But when I ask for it, it makes me smile...like, Isabella Rosellini in "Blue Velvet".

There it is *sigh*

Under the right circumstances, the humiliation -- or perhaps some would say its edgier cousin, degradation -- of asking for something like that combined with actually receiving it is gauranteed to send me spiralling.

It's primal, that's what it is.

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/26/2005 10:17:10 AM

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And WOW, if you haven't experianced this I feel so sorry for you now. Now I know what I was missing.

Sub-Space is AMAZING!

Don't feel sorry for me...i dont want it.
make of it as much as you like...amazing or whatever....

You claim it ... you own it, but dont feel sorry for me if i don't.

I know this wasnt for Me...but twas MY reaction.

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RE: WOW - 'Sub-Space' - 6/27/2005 6:13:58 PM

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I have only been to sub space once and it was durring a scene and it was amazing I would like to get to that point with out the use of His toys. Although when he calls me His little one is makes me smile and get all getty and happy I don't see that as being in sub space. Also when I went into space I saw happy pictures of my past. Anyone have any sugestions on how to find sub space with out Him having to use His toys? He rather enjoyed it when I was there. I love it when he is happy like that it makes me VERY happy.

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