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Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 5:36:13 PM   
BigEyes


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Status: offline 		Hello everyone! I have a fairly intimate question for other female subs and I understand if no one wishes to answer.

Refering to vaginal play, has anyone experienced objects they have not been comfortable with? I.e. do you have limits as to what is inserted inside you? I myself am worried about objects that may come apart inside me or leave residue. Does anyone else have any experience of this? I am fairly new and trying to explore my own boundaries by talking to others.

Thank you! Big Eyes
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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 6:09:54 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		NOTHING even close to food related goes down there. Thta goes for chocolate sauce, whipped cream everything except perhaps food covered in a condom. I get yeast infections -easily- and that's one thing that starts one.



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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 8:22:04 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Perverse beat me to it again, foods are not cool.

Knives are good though. And while I've fisted others, I have yet to be fisted myself, would love that.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 8:28:32 PM   
BigEyes


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Status: offline 		EmeraldSlave - Knives? The idea has aways interested me but I'm a little nervous about the idea. How can a sharp blade be inserted (apart from carefully!!)?

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 8:32:17 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		LOL "carefully" is pretty much the best way to put it.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 8:45:58 PM   
Rascalyrabbit


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Status: offline 		emerald, aren't you afraid of cutting the woman on the inside? What is it that you get out of this? What is it that your sub gets out of this? Feel free to elaborate.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 9:37:41 PM   
WildrCee


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Status: offline 		Knives inserted carefully, but the trick is the control needed to not contract the muscles of the vagina around the knife..

Cee

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/20/2005 11:07:35 PM   
subversiveone


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Status: offline 		im not terribly comfortable with anything that hasn't been thoroughly washed, even hands/feet but there's already been a thread on that one...
there have been a few Doms that thought using the non-business end of a tool was good, like a whip's handle, but i always point out that if it's been exposed to chemicals (ie leather dyes/glues) and it has texture, no amount of scrubbing is going to be enough for me. granted, ive not always had the chance to discuss before it was put there too late, but if YOU get the chance, please consider this. condoms can be usefull sometimes!
i wonder if you put Purell on something nonporous, would it then be safe to insert upon drying???

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 5:38:41 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		I would guess there are threads on this in health and safety. While I do not set limits here are some things we have discussed.

Hands need to be washed, fingernails trimmed and clean underneath.

Is this item used only on me?

Would you want to have a vibrator used on you if you knew it had also been in 25 other girls. How are the dominant's toys cared for?

Is your skin sensitive to lotions? If so you might want to do a test patch on those burning lotions before they are used ~down there~.

Also great care needs to be taken in how far and what angle an object is inserted.

as for knives MMMMMmmmmMMMMMMMMM

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 5:55:59 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: Rascalyrabbit

emerald, aren't you afraid of cutting the woman on the inside? What is it that you get out of this? What is it that your sub gets out of this? Feel free to elaborate.


LOL I get fear out of it :) I'm a fear junkie, and I love hard metal. I also love being penetrated.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 8:03:20 AM   
Rascalyrabbit


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Status: offline 		LOL, I can see where the fear comes into play.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 12:24:06 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I've done the knife thing. yum. Though, never witha sharp knife (though I didn't know it at the time.) We were doing yummy things with a sharp knife, then I ended up tied up and blindfolded and a butter knife went in me. Total adrenalin rush.

Also, hands = yummy, but don't be dumb like I was and EVER use petrolium jelly as a lubricant. It works really well but is very bad for your bits. (I had thought this was only the case with toys that it melted. Nope. You don't want it inside your pink bits. Anally, I don't know. We use water based lotion.)

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 12:44:57 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

Also, hands = yummy, but don't be dumb like I was and EVER use petrolium jelly as a lubricant. It works really well but is very bad for your bits. (I had thought this was only the case with toys that it melted. Nope. You don't want it inside your pink bits. Anally, I don't know. We use water based lotion.)

It's good to NEVER use oil based lubricants as they break down latex VERY quickly.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 3:18:25 PM   
perfection20005


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Status: offline 		I guess my limit would have to be fisting. I have no desire to feel His whole fist in there, nor does He want to do that, so I'm lucky enough in that respect.

perfection

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 3:30:46 PM   
pandoravampire


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Status: offline 		ive been putting things inside my 'lilly' since i was oh, well since i can remember. It was a cool hidey place i thought lol
Now as a woman, i still havent stopped. I think things that fall apart could be a bit dodgy, but if it seems safe, and it looks like it might fit, how can you not consider it is my question lol

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/21/2005 4:03:32 PM   
perverseangelic


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

It's good to NEVER use oil based lubricants as they break down latex VERY quickly.


Oh, I knew that, but I didnt' think it'd hurt flesh and blood. (Ie-hands and bits, w/out toys or condoms) I was wrong about that one, but it didn't have any bad repercusions.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/26/2005 10:44:06 AM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BigEyes

Hello everyone! I have a fairly intimate question for other female subs and I understand if no one wishes to answer.

Refering to vaginal play, has anyone experienced objects they have not been comfortable with? I.e. do you have limits as to what is inserted inside you? I myself am worried about objects that may come apart inside me or leave residue. Does anyone else have any experience of this? I am fairly new and trying to explore my own boundaries by talking to others.

Thank you! Big Eyes


as you can see big eyes...nothing is off limits for discussion

Changing the vaginal pH is what gives yeastiebeasties...even insertion of a vib can do so.
Smoking too much in one day can give me yeastiebeasties.

Knives? Oh my...not that sort of fear would make me do anything but run.

Washed vegy's are fabulous...carrots, cucumbers, beets, etc .... mmmmmmmmmm
But wash them in a solution that does not change your vaginal pH....i suggest anything by Shaklee or Melaleuca (Tough n Tender...can scrub my kitchen floor with it, wash my lace bra and wash my vib in it...even douce with it if i get the yeastiebeasties).

I worked in a Trauma Emergency Room and part of my job was to prepare for those inevitable emergency pelvic exams.... hot fucking shit...what men and women put up their ass's or vagina's never ceased to amaze me on how stupid they were!!

Gerbils for instance...live gerbils for the vib effect. BIG TIME antibiotcs for most of those stupid neurotic people!! (IMHO)

Just be careful!

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ORIGINAL: pandoravampire

ive been putting things inside my 'lilly' since i was oh, well since i can remember. It was a cool hidey place i thought lol
Now as a woman, i still havent stopped. I think things that fall apart could be a bit dodgy, but if it seems safe, and it looks like it might fit, how can you not consider it is my question lol



Me too girl..... when a girl, we were so poor that mom would NOT allow us candy...so i snuck some, saranwrapped it and stuck it up me and went off to school.....

Cucs are my fav now.

~~shy

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/26/2005 5:53:59 PM   
terah


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Status: offline 		Yup food,, nasty.. I mean who wants to really smell like a hot dog?? LMAO

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/26/2005 8:21:04 PM   
darlingjade


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Status: offline 		Hmm...Well, the ewww factor on used vibes and stuff had me buying my own. If a Dom has a particular favorite I'll be more than happy to buy whatever he desires to add to my personal collection. Ditto for whips and the like. Simply have enough health problems I came by genetically that I'm super cautious about stupidly adding more.

As for objects? Ok, my take on this is a bit different. Those internal places are reserved for the express use of whoever I'm in service to so absolutely nothing goes inside unless it's a direct order or the Dom does it. All of that said, again I AM super cautious so not a lot that isn't made specifically FOR that goes inside.

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RE: Intimate question... - 6/27/2005 8:32:39 AM   
Hissweetshiv


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Status: offline 		Man! Food, knives fer gossakes, you girls make me feel like a virgin all over again!
Not that i wouldn't try a cuke or something ... i have used ginger root juice on my bits... natural antibiotic so no yeastie beasties girls lol. Back to the point, however. In general, bigeyes, if it makes you go "OH MY GOD NO" it's a limit. If it makes you squirm, whether in a horny or simply curious manner, then it's probably something you're going to want to try eventually. Master and i have stopped saying "never" with regards to the lifestyle activities. Almost everything we used to say "never" about is now at least a "maybe", lol. The lifestyle is all about exploring, pushing, learning... all that good stuff.
be well and be safe
~shiv

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