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HeavansKeeper -> RE: a dom showing his girl that she is a treasure (7/15/2007 3:33:54 PM)
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... I'm going to keep my sexist statistical outlook private, but I will say this...
Maybe you are not his treasure. Maybe you are his sex doll. I see no problem making such mean and straightforward comments because I feel every submissive should know where they stand. I'm certainly not trying to be a homewrecker, though. I wouldn't want some guy asking My Pet "Does he deserve you?" and "Do you think he just uses you for sex?" The questions are slanted, and don't come across as fair. I would expect, however, that My Pet stop, think, and answer honestly. I've seen her do such a thing. I've allowed her to answer a man who ask her 'He says you his ho, that tru?' (With inferior spelling and grammar) Why? Because I don't mind people testing her faith... The heat and pressure of such hard questions forces our souls to forge love as strong as steel, or to destroy what we have. I know the heat and the hammer are tests to strengthen our love.
Now back to you... The questions are rhetorical. You may answer them publically, as it may help others see what you mean, but they are personal, hard to answer questions to test your heart.
"he is very busy" What is he so busy with?
"I am his pleasure slave" What else does he call you?
"I am deeply in love with Sir" Why?
"unless he is at the virge of yelling at me I don't know what I have done." Is yelling the only teaching he gives you?
"the past he showed more of himself" What has changed?
There is a 'right' answer to every one of these. Just because I ask you why you love him doesn't mean you don't. Ask any submissive who loves their dominant, and they should have some sort of answer, even if it's a rambling notion. This exercise is not easy, but essential in determining if you are in a bad situation.
On the happy side, I know life can get hectic, and often times the ones we love the most get the most grief for things they didn't do. He could be stressed out, and the only outlet is treating his treasure like junk. If I were your master, I'd want you to ask if we could speak freely, and then you voice your concerns. I would not want to hear such choice gems as "Talk to me.." and "What's wrong?" or "Am I not good enough for you?" Don't add stress. Explain that you have a situation with him and offer suggestions. Finish your plea with something like "I know you're busy lately, so please take some time to think about this whenever you have a moment. I don't want this to go before your other responsibilites." Even though you do.
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