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New sub and FemDom less than 1 year experience - 6/21/2005 5:23:57 AM

manhere4u

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I am a novice sub and have recently meet online a Fem who is recently divorced and looking to greatly experience her new found freedom. We have corresponded online and will be meeting in the near future. Myself having meet several Femdoms online and in person which we never had the chemistry. They were more experienced than myself or the Fem I have just met. I already feel an affinity towards this new FemDom. Are there any pointers I can solicit considering she as well as I are new. She is bi curious and I am a straight male. I have no misconceptions with that however I would like for your input, ideas, and advice. I see it as an opportunity to grow into a worthwhile relationship and would like to do as much as I can on my part for us both to learn. Or am I groping at straws so to speak. Thanks all and have a nice day.

mike

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RE: New sub and FemDom less than 1 year experience - 6/21/2005 8:05:44 AM

Rascalyrabbit

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Hey mike,

I think the best thing you can do is just be yourself! Its best if she likes you for who you are, not who you might pretend to be.

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RE: New sub and FemDom less than 1 year experience - 6/21/2005 10:22:40 AM

BlkSeattlesub

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i would say to be open and honest with as much information as you possibly can. A Likes list, defined possible relationship bountaries, hard/strict "no's", poly, past relationships, everything. If you can become naked (so to speak) in each others eyes, and there is physical attraction, chemistry, mutual goals and desires.. well, you have the makings of a true D/s couple. Still, there is what the immortal bard said... "...the beauty of the world, the paragon of animals" We are basically animals, so all the advice won't make a difference if one gives into their nature. i wish you love and luck and that you find what you both truely seek!

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