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Betrayal by a close friend!!! ? advise ? - 7/14/2007 5:53:28 AM

pahunkboy

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Last night someone NOT on CM, that I knew and implicitly trusted for many years; used something I told her about me personal- to betray me.

If we are going to get picky about perfection: I can play hard ball-

I am angry and hurt.

I did manage to not say " you are telling me blank, when you hide multiple bottles of hard liquor under yout bed?"

I was 2 minutes of dead silence- and thought that thought,

Shortly after that we ended the call.

comments? your betrayals? advise?

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RE: Betrayal by a close friend!!! ? advise ? - 7/14/2007 6:07:30 AM

pahunkboy

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im also irritated with my brother again! he chided me about doing the insulation WRONG!

umm. this is MY HOUSE. i bought it with my money! I MAKE the payment, ME.

i dont intend to flip it. i am here for ten years or longer!!!

last month he was on my for planting trees.

i dont know that i physically want him here. Jim said my brother got what he wanted. [mom] and they will never set foot in Pennsylvania again! they will control her - her money and in essence my inheritance.

i did not want to beleieve this.

i dont want to live in a house where it is a museum- room roped off!!

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RE: Betrayal by a close friend!!! ? advise ? - 7/14/2007 8:05:02 AM

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Big HUGZZZZZZ for ya.

Friends like that a person doesn't need. It's too easy to retaliate but usually best to turn and walk away from the friendship and from the untrustable friend. Good friends don't be mean spirited to friends.

Reminds me of a former best friend from childhood. At the age of 27 I came out to him expecting support and all he had to say was "I'm sure glad you didn't try anything with me." The funny thing is he was a best friend and not one who I was attrcted to an any way. Hell, I even was a shoulder for him to cry on when he was having women troubles lol.
I am now nearing 47 and it's been 20 years since we spoke. Our friendship ended that day he said that and though I do miss the freindship, In the end he ruined a lifelong friendship and it's his loss, not mine!

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RE: Betrayal by a close friend!!! ? advise ? - 7/14/2007 8:28:38 AM

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oxoxoxoxox
i'm soooo sorry.
i've been lucky. my friend from when i was 15 was an older "wild" cousin . she always told me the truth even if it hurt, never repeated anything we spoke of, and never gave me away when i was naughty.
unfortunately because of her wildness i lost contact, been looking for her quite a few years now.

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