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Finding a Mistress - 6/21/2005 9:24:11 AM

repairman1

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I am a mature male submissive/slave..Im looking for a couple or a woman to dominate me..Im in the dayton,cincinnati area..They seem to be hard to find..Most of the younger people dont want an older man..There must be a Mistress or Mistress and he sub husband out there somewhere..Need help locating.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/21/2005 9:56:36 AM

SweetDommes

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I would suggest trying the personals side of the site.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/21/2005 11:32:48 AM

GoddessDustyGold

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*Sigh*
you joined this site on June 12th. Are you that impatient? Put something in your profile other than a smiley face and then do a search in your area. Send a respectful letter introduction to any Lady who might interest you. It is doubtful they are searching for you, and even if they are browsing, you have not written anything that would catch anyone's attention.
Look at these threads for some help in getting started.
Wondering why your emails are not getting responded to? by MissXtacee
10 Steps For Making A Good First Impression By Lady Angelika & Maitresse Eden

**edited to update links, as they were not working today when I recieved an email concerning this.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 6/25/2005 2:24:06 PM >

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/21/2005 11:48:02 AM

BeachMystress

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Gee, doesn't your Walmart carry them? I heard they had them on sale, two for the price of one the other day.

What you are doing here is considered trolling. It is unacceptable. You didn't bother to find out if it were against policy of the forums before you posted. Because of that, if I were local to you, it would put you on my black list, as it has probably done with any Ohio Domme who have read your post. Your post puts two huge strikes against you.

First, you couldn't follow simple rules like no trolling in forum. Ignorance of a law is no excuse, as they say. It was your duty as a submissive approaching Dominants to find out the acceptable behaviour. You did not bother.

Then you asked a forum full of Domme to do your work for you. You want us to be Domme Pimps?. *shakes head* If you're not worthwhile enough to attract a Domme on your own merits, then you'll do without. Go figure out what it means to be a submissive before you make more newbie mistakes that mark you as unsuitable and undesirable

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/21/2005 4:20:41 PM

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Gee, doesn't your Walmart carry them? I heard they had them on sale, two for the price of one the other day.

ROFL! This one is especially funny because my work is having our annual huge 2-for-1 sale (no, we aren't WalMart, but we're close). Thanks Beach, I really needed that.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/25/2005 5:57:31 AM

MHOO314

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smiles, how about ebay, you can buy ANYTHING on ebay!---young one, some have been looking for months/years--and one that eager will end up being prey---caution and patience--

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/25/2005 9:58:30 AM

LadyAngelika

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I might be able to be bought... 1 million a week.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/25/2005 4:42:31 PM

MstrssPassion

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Ladies... I am very much with you in regards to people trolling on message boards. However, in the section guidelines...

Section Guidelines - Ask a Mistress - 1/12/2004 11:19:15PM
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This section is open to those wishing to ask questions of a Mistress, in the hope of receiving answers from that particular perspective.

Experienced Mistresses are also encouraged to share their advice and knowledge regardless of if a question has been asked to prompt response. If you know the topic to be something that is often on the minds of newer people, or a subject you have found in your experience to be beneficial to address, feel free to take the initiative and open the discussion yourself.

Also burried about half way through Collarme.com Forum Guidelines there is a brief reference...

Collarme.com already provides ample resources for the creation of "personals" listings. This forum is not the place for such things.

If trolling is undesired then it should be more clearly worded within the guidelines. The guidelines do not clearly ban trolling & even if it were to... unmoderated forums cannot filter out every unwanted subject from appearing, nor can they stop people from lashing out at one another. I co-own a few discussion groups in a completely different area of the web. These groups have a membership process & screening that takes place prior to members being unmoderated. Very time consuming & I completely understand why this forum will not go to being moderated on that level.

Now before I am attacked for stating this (I am sure of a rebuttal), keep in mind how people who are completely unaware of this specific 'netiquette' of trolling being undesired & how they may feel when their questions are summarily dismissed in a manner of a hostile disposition or a very unfriendly replies. Why not ignore the posts from these people if no advice can be offered as to how they can meet someone? (or if you are not willing to offer advice)
Trolls are always going to be around... squash one & 5 more will pop up & replace them.

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/26/2005 5:14:58 AM

MHOO314

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thank you Mistress for that gentle reminder--its always good to be brought back to the point of the forums--

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RE: Finding a Mistress - 6/26/2005 9:16:05 AM

LadyAngelika

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Why not ignore the posts from these people if no advice can be offered as to how they can meet someone?

I think the responses given to the OP were very realistic. As for my response, there was a little humour there. But there was also a message. If you want something badly enough, you are going to have to pay for it.

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