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Fun4All3OfUs2 -> Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 12:10:23 AM)
Master, do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 12:20:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2 Master, do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? Both. Depends on my mood and what it's about. quote: When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? Yes. More I simply want information to move forward with.

julietsierra -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 3:18:08 AM)
rofl...Being asked about my comfort zones is a clear indication that whatever I say my comfort zone is, it's about to be violated. juliet

beargonewild -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 7:46:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2 Master, do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? I want my sub/slave to be able to be comfortable enough to do both, depending upon the situation. When I ask about their comfort zone, I want to know how they feel about certain things and then I can make an informed choice on whether to push that comfort zone or if it wiser to not to.

Celeste43 -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 8:38:20 AM)
He likes being teased if he's in a mood for it. His response might be to spank me or tickle me. Basically me teasing him is a way to indicate what mood I'm in and what I might be up for that usually I'm not. Comfort zone? I suffer from anxiety disorder so I can't be pushed as far as others. But if he's just asking about it then it would mean that he was looking for information as to how I was feeling. Because he doesn't much like having me freak out and suffer an anxiety attack if he can help it.

Rover -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 10:09:07 AM)
Within the context of acceptable behavior, as I have defined it for my own relationships, I would prefer (no... require) that she be a well-rounded individual. And that includes having a wicked sense of humor. And I have no trouble laughing at myself. John

libbiez -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 10:18:26 AM)
thank Y/you for all the wonderful information here, i think it is totaly personal prefrence but have often wondered this myself...would it not be wise to ask this question of the One you are with? ~ elizabeth

PAcpllooking -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 12:39:09 PM)
I want my slaves to be a person first and foremost. If the person is one who teases and likes to laugh then I enjoy that. Now while we are getting to know one another she will learn when she has gone to far. Iwill tell her the first time, the second she gets slapped or corner time. The only hard rule for me is that when we are in public with strangers there is no teasing around until I am comfortable with the people. The reason is that how she acts is a reflection on me and if she looks and acts the buffoon or unruly sub the I am a sloppy Master. As far as comfort level. I learn that as things progress. Actions speak louder then words. Anyone can say anything, Its all in how they act on a regular basis and not just for a short period. William

robertolapiedra -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 1:21:48 PM)
Hello Fun4AllOfUs2. In my relationship "fun" is permitted. Teasing is mostly good fun. RL

HeavansKeeper -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 3:15:54 PM)
Because I am My Pet's Master all the time, I feel our minds cannot afford to be Master and Slave all the time. She is always mine. She is always devoted and eager to please me... to seek my happiness however she can. There is certainly a time for "I say, you do." but to have our entire life that way would be boring. Even though I own her, there is no reason I can't sit her on my lap and read to her, petting her hair as she turns the pages. And thats something I intend to do often. Lifestyle BDSM needs to be sustainable. It needs to be a dynamic that works. I may be a pansy of a master by some measure, but I'm ok with that.... Sometimes I equip My Pet with the metaphoric extending leash (sometimes not metaphoric). I could, at any time, remind her of her place, and end her foolish games... But I wouldn't. I like them too much. What made me fall in love with her is the way she danced with words and actions... Like submarines battling, each action was meaningful and calculated, while the other was blind and worked on instinct alone. I still love to dance. In that way, we will always be dating. Sure, you can't go back into the past, but you can keep that flame alive. When I let My Prey run just far enough so I get to chase her down, it excites us both. Our blood pumps faster, hotter... It's a delicate balance... Being My Pet and vice versa, me being Her Master is not just kinky, it's part of us. She doesn't like to come across as disobedient, so we carefully balance reassurance that her 'teasing' is not disobeying without ruining the fun. I could tell her to tease me, to make me claim her, but I'd rather let her know Master wants to see her creative side. She knows I love her dearly, but is still skittish around not being perfect. She is perfect... Perfect by the very nature of her flaws. More to the point, I guess I do like a little teasing. A game, a dance, a tease, a hunt... There is certainly a time for it, and can be very fun. Not all people are alike. I can't speak for any other dominant, or any other man. I would not be suprised to hear that many masters don't like teasing, that all they want is compliance. As a brash, unfounded, untested, and inexperienced generalization, most masters who cannot or will not laugh with, hug, love, or romance their submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle. I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time...

robertolapiedra -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 7:13:25 PM)
Hello HeavansKeeper. I can relate to your post not only in the fun that you have together, but also the joy you seem blessed with. Once you taste this in a dynamic, you tend to reorder and redefine your "protocols" so as to not impeed this Magic from happening. After a while, you do your best to protect it, nurture it as it becomes central to the dynamic. D/s with fun and joy, how kinky can you get! Good for you HK. RL.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 7:46:37 PM)
If I were unable to tease..I would become stifled and not be me..teasing is a part of me..actually a part that I hope a Dominant would enjoy and delight in..Would I know when teasing is appropriate..I hope so..but I also know that, any Dominant would have no difficulty in letting any submissive know when and where such is appropriate..will I place that toe occasionally over the line..oh yeah!!..again part of my nature...and I hide it not....Tempting

octavia -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 8:49:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper Because I am My Pet's Master all the time, I feel our minds cannot afford to be Master and Slave all the time. She is always mine. She is always devoted and eager to please me... to seek my happiness however she can. There is certainly a time for "I say, you do." but to have our entire life that way would be boring. Even though I own her, there is no reason I can't sit her on my lap and read to her, petting her hair as she turns the pages. And thats something I intend to do often. Lifestyle BDSM needs to be sustainable. It needs to be a dynamic that works. I may be a pansy of a master by some measure, but I'm ok with that.... Sometimes I equip My Pet with the metaphoric extending leash (sometimes not metaphoric). I could, at any time, remind her of her place, and end her foolish games... But I wouldn't. I like them too much. What made me fall in love with her is the way she danced with words and actions... Like submarines battling, each action was meaningful and calculated, while the other was blind and worked on instinct alone. I still love to dance. In that way, we will always be dating. Sure, you can't go back into the past, but you can keep that flame alive. When I let My Prey run just far enough so I get to chase her down, it excites us both. Our blood pumps faster, hotter... It's a delicate balance... Being My Pet and vice versa, me being Her Master is not just kinky, it's part of us. She doesn't like to come across as disobedient, so we carefully balance reassurance that her 'teasing' is not disobeying without ruining the fun. I could tell her to tease me, to make me claim her, but I'd rather let her know Master wants to see her creative side. She knows I love her dearly, but is still skittish around not being perfect. She is perfect... Perfect by the very nature of her flaws. More to the point, I guess I do like a little teasing. A game, a dance, a tease, a hunt... There is certainly a time for it, and can be very fun. Not all people are alike. I can't speak for any other dominant, or any other man. I would not be suprised to hear that many masters don't like teasing, that all they want is compliance. As a brash, unfounded, untested, and inexperienced generalization, most masters who cannot or will not laugh with, hug, love, or romance their submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle. I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time... yeah, what he said. [:D]

slaverosebeauty -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 8:50:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2 do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? I ALWAYS tease MJ, I sent Him pics of what I would like Him to do to me, or things I want to try, I might text Him in the middle of the day with something like, "I'm naked.. thought I would share." When we are togther, MJ drives me wild, I will tease Him, straddle His lap, kiss Him, get on top of Him, put my breasts in Hsi face, all without asking, {giggles}. If He wants me to stop, He can defiantly do that, He's a LOT bigger than I am and stronger. He is in control of the situation, even though I may be doing the teasing, its His ballgame. quote: When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? MJ has asked me that, its in both of our best interests to be in a comfort-zone, their will be times when I am outside of it, yet, its HIS responsibility as my Master and protector to keep me safe and to get me comfortable with the uncomfortable. MJ asks me what my comfort-zone is so that He can see wher I am 'at,' its a place to start from, if He decides to push that in soem way, other times, its to see if we are at the same 'place' as far as something goes. It has NOTHING to do with Him NOT being sure of His own 'powers.'

rmanrr -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/15/2007 9:12:08 PM)
Greetings. You would have to ask santalia about that heh heh....she can answer it best.

ProfJoe -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/16/2007 5:09:25 PM)
I like to be seduced. I love resistance play. I love mindfucks. Tease away. But you might want to check the mood, just in case you're hitting a bad moment. I think you'll be able to tell by my eyes, my voice, and all the usual stuff, if it's a good idea or more pain than it's worth. Just saying ProfJoe

MsStryker -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/16/2007 5:18:53 PM)
Teasing is fun. I always enjoy a creative playful submissive. I also do not like to have to instruct a submissive to be affectionate with me. I like that they want to be close to me. If/when it does not suit I will stop them. Ms Alizbeth eek, typo

lk70 -> RE: Master, do you like being teased? (7/18/2007 9:20:12 AM)
quote: submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle. I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time... quote: ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper Because I am My Pet's Master all the time, I feel our minds cannot afford to be Master and Slave all the time. She is always mine. She is always devoted and eager to please me... to seek my happiness however she can. There is certainly a time for "I say, you do." but to have our entire life that way would be boring. Even though I own her, there is no reason I can't sit her on my lap and read to her, petting her hair as she turns the pages. And thats something I intend to do often. Lifestyle BDSM needs to be sustainable. It needs to be a dynamic that works. I may be a pansy of a master by some measure, but I'm ok with that.... Sometimes I equip My Pet with the metaphoric extending leash (sometimes not metaphoric). I could, at any time, remind her of her place, and end her foolish games... But I wouldn't. I like them too much. What made me fall in love with her is the way she danced with words and actions... Like submarines battling, each action was meaningful and calculated, while the other was blind and worked on instinct alone. I still love to dance. In that way, we will always be dating. Sure, you can't go back into the past, but you can keep that flame alive. When I let My Prey run just far enough so I get to chase her down, it excites us both. Our blood pumps faster, hotter... It's a delicate balance... Being My Pet and vice versa, me being Her Master is not just kinky, it's part of us. She doesn't like to come across as disobedient, so we carefully balance reassurance that her 'teasing' is not disobeying without ruining the fun. I could tell her to tease me, to make me claim her, but I'd rather let her know Master wants to see her creative side. She knows I love her dearly, but is still skittish around not being perfect. She is perfect... Perfect by the very nature of her flaws. More to the point, I guess I do like a little teasing. A game, a dance, a tease, a hunt... There is certainly a time for it, and can be very fun. Not all people are alike. I can't speak for any other dominant, or any other man. I would not be suprised to hear that many masters don't like teasing, that all they want is compliance. As a brash, unfounded, untested, and inexperienced generalization, most masters who cannot or will not laugh with, hug, love, or romance their submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle. I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time... If more doms were like you, I might consider 24/7

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