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Lydiacapecod -> A new duck to water in the pond (7/15/2007 3:04:17 PM)
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Hello to everyone who passes by this post. I have been lurking at collarme for a month or so now....which is about how long I have been dabbling in the bondage scene. Like the subject line says tho ...I am a duck to this water. I am loving it and can't believe the luck of having lived this long and then found something brand new and exciting to begin discovering.
I came across this site while just curious about the lifestyle and found it very helpful. About all I knew at that point is that I was a natural submissive in the bedroom. This is the ultimate release for me because I have always been a very strong and independent woman, owning my own homes and making my own way in the world while nurturing a somewhat unhealthy attitude about not wanting to depend on men for anything. I am very good at this way of life but something was obviously missing.
Then while I was here, I read a post by SimplyMichael about how he handles his submissive when she misbehaves and I pretty much had to dry the chair off that I was sitting in.
I have done a fair bit of swinging/dating at one of the infamous pay sites on the net and began prodding some of my recent dates to see if any shared a similar interest. Sure enough I came up with two candidates and now a month later one of them appears to be working out really well. And he builds stuff too which is really neat !
I showed him SimplyMichael's post and explained that this was exactly what I wanted. In fact I think I mentioned wanting to go live under Michael's bed LOL. So my new man is doing a great job of learning the ropes as I myself am just learning them also....literally [8D]
I think we may be two naturals tho as it is moving along really fast.
We already have a little daily game going where he emails or calls to warn me " You be a good girl for me today. No ruining your panties. They are expensive and if you keep soiling them I will have to punish you when I get home"
I'll keep the rest of our little game dialogue private heh, but I just melt when he talks to me like that [:)]
I look forward to getting to know you all here. I have already gotten alot of advice, ideas and the benefit of much experience just by lurking here for a month or so.
Good to meet you all
LydiaCapecod
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