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Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 7:29:55 PM   
kiddoMsAllie


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Status: offline 		hi i am MsAllieskiddo and i was just wondering if wanting to crossdress is wrong? i act more female than i do male and im seeming more and more to be gender confused. Mistress already knows that i have purchased panties and have been wearing them, and that ive been painting my nails, but is it wrong? My birthday is coming up and all i really want is to have one full night as a female, is that wrong of me to ask? Please tell me if over stepping my slave boundaries or should i be happy with how i am as a male or should i further explore my feminie side?
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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 7:32:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		We are not the ones to ask. Obviously, you are owned. ASk her, since she is the one who will be impacted by this, not us. 

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 7:33:29 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		If you are happy cross dressing then you need to search out people who will support you in that.  It is not wrong...it is simply who you are. 

Wrong is when you demand it of a dominant to "do" it to you.  The best way to live as who you are is to find those who support you as you are.  I wish you luck!

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 7:35:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		In my view it is not wrong and I allow my sub to do it. But he does have to ask permission and sometimes I will say no. Your Dominant may enjoy controlling your crossdressing and so you would need to take this up with her. We all have a fem/masc side to our personalities and sometimes you do have to let them come out and play or we become unhappy and stagnant. So if you want to let your inner woman out, talk to your Domme.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 8:04:21 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		Cross-dressing is very wrong. Make sure you're in your most girly outfit when you present yourself to your owner for a spanking. (Pst- stuff the bra, too.)

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 8:07:00 PM   
BigBastard


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Status: offline 		Wrong is a relative term.  The only thing pertinent to a fetish is the truth of what consequences you're willing to face.  I never do something for which I am not willing to accept the consequences.  Consequences of fetishes can range from a feelings about oneself post the acting out of the fetish to legal ramifications.  So the question I would encourage you to ask yourself is, "Am I willing to accept the consequences this pleasurable activity carries."  In your case, the three things I can think of would be ridicule, rejection and self-doubt.  I don't mention the positive things because those are no-brainers.  Of course you want the positive outcome of your actions.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 8:18:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is crossdressing wrong?   Nope, just not my cup of tea.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 10:08:38 PM   
robertolapiedra


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Status: offline 		Hello kiddoMsAllie. Of course it is not "wrong". Ask your dominant permission. Until you get an answer, you will just be feeding anxiety. It is better to know if your dominant will grant your wish, than spend days worrying about it. What do you think? RL.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/15/2007 10:31:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		You've got to be who you are on the inside and let that shine.  That may or may not be ok with your Mistress, but if you feel you are truly a woman then you need to find a Master/Mistress who understands that.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/16/2007 4:58:57 PM   
kiddoMsAllie


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Status: offline 		i thank you A/all for your input, I asked Mistress basically for a start and im awaiting my awnser, i told her it was my birthday wish, which my b-day is in 10 days lol. Im hoping and preying Mistress will let me at least have this one day. But like i said thank you A/all for your input.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/16/2007 5:03:58 PM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiddoMsAllie

hi i am MsAllieskiddo and i was just wondering if wanting to crossdress is wrong? i act more female than i do male and im seeming more and more to be gender confused. Mistress already knows that i have purchased panties and have been wearing them, and that ive been painting my nails, but is it wrong? My birthday is coming up and all i really want is to have one full night as a female, is that wrong of me to ask? Please tell me if over stepping my slave boundaries or should i be happy with how i am as a male or should i further explore my feminie side?


When I read a question like this, I ask myself if the person is wanting to crossdress for me or himself.  Is the mistress an excuse/prop or would you want it to be her desire for you? 
 
Nothing is more boring for me than to be sought out as an excuse to enjoy your private desire.

< Message edited by LotusSong -- 7/16/2007 5:06:14 PM >

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/16/2007 5:07:45 PM   
kiddoMsAllie


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quote:

When I read a question like this, I ask myself if the person is wanting to crossdress for me or himself.  Is the mistress an excuse/prop or would you want it to be her desire for you?
 
I would love for it to be Her desire, even though it is something i would love to do, i still want it to be something she can feel proud of if that makes sense

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 7/16/2007 5:59:49 PM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		No, crossdressing isn't wrong. Neither is flirting with gender. Whether it's appropriate to your relationship...well, that's something I can't answer, but thankfully, you and your partner(s) can.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/4/2010 11:09:25 AM   
amasissy


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Status: offline 		no I love wearing womens clothing it make's me fell good all over , been dressing from the age of 12 off and on , am now 62 y.o. , was a straght guy for years and my 1st. wife love dressing me up a lot , but then she brouth home a CD'er that was HOT ,., O.M.G. a women just like me !

Being honest it maid me HOT all over looking at her . Get hard as a ROCK . was 30 y.o. at this time !

Real women are fun , but real CD'ers make better lover's only if thay love deep kissing and lots of slow play , not in a rush !

Now I love being with other CD'ers the best in love making , but as any guy may age like younger better !!

But love real women too , thay are # 1 in my book , but need cock too


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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/4/2010 11:20:53 AM   
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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/4/2010 12:24:12 PM   
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Irony. . Where is Hibbie? I want to ask her if old threads are still ok! lol..

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/4/2010 12:38:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		LP beat me to this one!!

And did I MENTION spammers who pull up new threads? Are you all HAPPY with the new thread he started??

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/4/2010 12:50:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiddoMsAllie
i was just wondering if wanting to crossdress is wrong?


Liberty: that which does not do harm unto others.

Is it wrong for you?  Only you can decide that.


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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/5/2010 9:35:59 AM   
Charles6682


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Status: online 		It's not my thing personally.However,I see nothing wrong with it if it is your thing.

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RE: Crossdressing is it wrong? - 9/6/2010 9:28:23 AM   
FamilyofM


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Status: offline 		Why would it be wrong? If it makes you happy and does not involve animals or children then I say go for it. To each their own.



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