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comeherenow -> am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 11:22:23 AM)
wel wot can i say, this is the 2nd time i hav come in here now, the 1st time was when i joined and sent a few e mails 2 females, but not 1 reply, wot am i doing wrong, can any1 help, if so can u e mail please hope 2 hear from some1 off here soon

Davesgirl -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 1:57:38 PM)
For starters, you dont say anything about yourself in your profile. It is, IMO, a slight bit rude, honestly. People usualyl dont respond well to someone who sends them an email stating little more than Come Here. Try divulging a bit of information on yourself, what you're looking for, interests, that sort of thing. I havent recieved an email from you, so i really cant comment on whether or not its what you're saying to these women, or how you're saying it.

Niran -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 2:25:56 PM)
Your next course of action, I believe, would be to clean up the grammar and the spelling. I have recieved about 9 messages since coming here. Of the 9, I have not replied to 2, because they are worded as yours. If you cannot take the time to spell (and spell-check, if you need to) then most are not going to take the time to read past the first line. Niran

Lordandmaster -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 2:27:48 PM)
YEA I AGREE NOONE RESPONDS TO POEPLE WHO CANT SPELL

subcheryl -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 3:04:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: comeherenow wel wot can i say, this is the 2nd time i hav come in here now, the 1st time was when i joined and sent a few e mails 2 females, but not 1 reply, wot am i doing wrong, can any1 help, if so can u e mail please hope 2 hear from some1 off here soon First off do you have a learning disability that makes it difficult for you to write coherently? If so would suggest you have a good friend type out your messages for you. I am use to people who spell as it sounds as have learning disabled children and a sister who is learning disabled but even they do better than this I had to read this passage like 2x's before I even got the drift of what you were saying. If not try keeping such spelling and short cut talking to IM's and not formal communications.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 3:09:03 PM)
subcheryl It's probably an extream form of chat speak, more and more people are becomeing to lazy to spell simple words right, A learning disability is intirely diffrent. I am learning disabled in math and other subjects, but I don't type like a drunk parrot. That's just being lazy. Come here now, you could try speaking / typing intelligably, and making sense when you type. Chatspeak is not endearing, it's tacky, and that's probably one of the big reasons you're being ignored. If you type that horribly in the contact email.

perverseangelic -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 3:46:47 PM)
Well, your profile is very unappealing and hard to read. I'd rework that. Because this is the net presentation is -everything- Write how you want to be viewed. Join in the discussion here. Make your name known on the boards. Get invovled in your local community and don't depend on the net.

perfection20005 -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 3:56:23 PM)
Correct spelling is the best way to get me to reply. If I can't decipher what in world you are trying to say, then you must not have wanted an answer back. perfection

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 6:58:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Davesgirl For starters, you dont say anything about yourself in your profile. It is, IMO, a slight bit rude, honestly. People usualyl dont respond well to someone who sends them an email stating little more than Come Here. I absolutely agree with this. One look at your profile and I'd have no urge to respond at all. I think you may have been trying to come off as dominant but it comes across as rude. That kind of profile makes me think the writer is just an online wannabee, and combined with the chat-speak spelling (which makes me think the writer is 20 years old at best) I'd have ignored you. I think it's wise of you to ask for feedback, and I hope you consider what's been said here. Best of luck. Cin

FelinePersuasion -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 7:04:28 PM)
excuse me sinfull, plenty of 20 year olds type far better than he does. It's an insult to all 20 somethings to say from his bad typing you would of thought he was 20:P

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 7:17:11 PM)
What I meant by that comment was that many 20 year olds have been raised on the internet and enjoy chat-speak. I didn't mean they couldn't spell, just that many of them enjoy using that shortcut speak in text messaging and online. When someone messages me using chat-speak, 80% of the time they are in their 20's. Most of us older folks are in the habit of using regular grammar and spelling. C.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 7:41:39 PM)
Well I find it's mostly in submissive men here lol. but yeah. Being raised on chat speak, expesially in forums and chat rooms, does tend to make people less mindfull of correct typing.

onceburned -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 8:55:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful What I meant by that comment was that many 20 year olds have been raised on the internet and enjoy chat-speak. Yes, this was my assumption too. I was surprised to see that he was as old as I am! [:-]

Kinkypupper -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/22/2005 9:33:52 PM)
First suggestion.. Become REAL. Second suggestion.. Most if not females will NOT do what ever YOU say just because you are the ALMIGHTY DOM. You need to earn that gift. Third suggestion.. Look at other "ads" here and see why yours is not working.. Fourth Suggestion.. Try communicating a bit and give things a bit of time. This site and others like it do have REAL people inamonst all the "wannabes" But you are NOT going to get anyone who does not have serious mental issues to reply to you the moment YOU step in the room and yell ALL KNEEL..

zephyresque -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/23/2005 3:43:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: comeherenow wel wot can i say, this is the 2nd time i hav come in here now, the 1st time was when i joined and sent a few e mails 2 females, but not 1 reply, wot am i doing wrong, can any1 help, if so can u e mail please hope 2 hear from some1 off here soon As others have said, I would automatically delete a message worded like yours. It's harsh, but in cyber-land, often the only measure by which we can initially judge someone is by their words. And before I get pounced on (perish the thought grin), everyone judges, oh yes indeedy. It's part of human nature. Good luck :)

Mylee -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/23/2005 12:17:55 PM)
I felt badly for you and asked Him if I may send you an email in welcome, He quickly agreed that I could do this, but upon reading your prifile, you scared me away with how unfriendly you sound, perhaps if you reworded a few things to sound more inviting, you have have more responses ~my'lee

subspacenaut -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/24/2005 7:32:53 AM)
this is something i have to say that will probably be deleted and cause a lot of controversy (meaning i'll be flamed or worse) but just the same this fact has been nagging me no end. i think most are full of shit. just like guys wanking off to probabilites i think most Females on here are doing the same. or they are whores thinking that bdsm is a good ticket to ride free on when there is no free ticket in life. i am an old man, almost 50, i have college behind me with a genius IQ i have my own company i can spell better than most i have gotten action before there was an internet via the old swingers magazines Get Kinky, Aggressive Women, Etc... than even a responce from the so called Dommes where i am at now. Las Vegas. (i can't even get a no thank you from these so called searching Dommes. but i can get a good flogging for 20 bucks by any street ho.. so it averages out.) maybe its just poor upbringing. like their Mamas didn't know manners and in that case i am glad they don't reply. as i cannot serve any dumb Woman. what is Superior than dumb? anyone. if its because of my age they don't reply then the stupidity is on them. as i can kick most 20 years olds asses. i can prove it. in a fair or street fight. though truth be told i am a lover. with more than two brain cells that touch. spelling.. smelling... if they want it they will go for it. simple as that. the rest is all bs. or in this case LS????? i am done. i get more girls at the laundry mat to flog and Dom me than i can even get a simple no thank you for whatever reason here. okay... now flame the hell out of me. i'm a masochist you can't hurt me. subspacenaut (been there, done that, lets do it again... )

darkinshadows -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/24/2005 8:56:32 AM)
Just because one writes to another, does not automatically mean you will receive a response. It should not be expected, even out of politeness. That said, most people will view a profile before responding to an unsolicited email. And You may find that unless a person is 'into' humiliation and power trips, your profile my not attract many people. Even the most experienced and deeply rooted masochist enjoys conversation and good manners. Not meaning to sound harsh, but your profile does little in the way of attracting a genuine response. If you are into such play, then you may find that you will find someone you get to know much more responsive to your desire. It just takes time and patience and for trust to grow to be able to exert such autority over another. Other than that, welcome to the boards - please do not be disheartened by constructive critics. Peace and Love

MadameDahlia -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/24/2005 9:42:25 AM)
Just to settle the twenty-year-old dispute I happen to be just that, twenty! I was exposed to just as much of the "net speak" as everyone else who uses the internet. I elected not to type in a way that would convey laziness or a disregard for those I was speaking with. I did it five years ago when I was fifteen and new to the internet. I'll be doing it fifty years from now if we haven't had computers wired into us by then.

ArmyCop -> RE: am i not worth a e mail ? (6/24/2005 9:50:44 AM)
This is my first post, so 'Hi'. Pretty much everyone here has it right: Tell about yourself, tell what you're looking for, tell what you're not looking for. But don't order anyone around. It'll have the effect of driving them away. If a person does answer to a profile like yours, they're either baiting you or they probably need some professional counselling more than they need domination. I notice you're in the UK, and I know that the UK is filled with SMS fanatics and this method of spelling has become an almost defacto second language there. But many of the people who will read your posts and interact with you are not necessarily SMS-speakers. Or Prince fans. Speak well and write well. I'm not saying you have to use the Queen's English at all times but how you communicate in a relatively faceless and two-dimensional medium such as this is critical. The internet, despite all of the images on it, is still a medium where the written word is how you come across to people first. If you do so intelligently, you will attract intelligent people. I write well in order to communicate well. I speak well for the same reason. Does this mean I'm a stuffed shirt academic? Not at all. I love Bugs Bunny cartoons, the Three Stooges, Monty Python, and Adam Sandler comedies. But I can also hold my own in a conversation, either spoken or written, on architectural styles in ninteenth centurty America; the deeper meanings in Romeo and Juliet; or the beauty of DaVinci's sculpture. These things may or may not be of interest to you personally, but they have meaning to many. If you want to get responses from folks, on a friendly level or more, you may want to consider these thoughts. My opinions are, as always, only mine. Now where did I put that Three Stooges Retrospective DVD???

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