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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 8:06:06 PM   
MzMia


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Get with the program, Domiguy.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 8:12:54 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		hey, i'm not against a threesome...my late Master once told my exhusband he was a fool for getting rid of me (but in reality I got rid of him lol)~ because I'm that open-minded..all I ask for is honesty, is that asking too much?

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 8:19:07 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Seriously Krissi, you are a sweet and attractive woman, you deserve better!
Keep him to the curb.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 8:20:04 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		thankyou MzMia but with all the men I have kicked to the curb...who's left?

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 9:54:29 PM   
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Just saying/asking...


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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 10:00:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		Boy this sounds like the beginning of a great relationship.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 10:34:31 PM   
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he wears a ring but it's a silver ring...didn't look like a wedding ring to me...

For what its worth my wedding ring was silver, as I am allergic to gold...good thing I ain't rich eh?

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 10:38:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have my late husband's silver wedding band from his first marriage *keeping that stuff for the UM*...Arpig, can you wear platinum?  (Not that I'm offering, just curious...) 

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 10:43:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have had people tell me to spy on ladies I have dated. I wont do it, they are not worth having, if I have to do that. If I do not get invited to her family functions, I will invite her to mine. Not right away though, you have to feel comfortable first. If they come up with a lame excuse why they can not go to a nice summer cook out, then I know something is up.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 11:12:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mostly I agree, if the calls are not work related, then they are from someone else who wants his time.  Even calling him on your day.  If you want the truth, tell him again in your most serious voice you want to know.  Are you sharing him with family or other women?  Be sure you want the answer.  If you want the man after that?  It's all up to you and what you want from the relationship.
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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/19/2007 11:34:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've always just asked what I wanted to know from ones I was seeing...if they were lying, somewhere along the line they tripped themselves up and they couldn't fast-talk their way around confessing the truth or some semblance of it.  I've never "spied" such as having them followed, and am not sure I could even ask anyone to do that.  I still recommend asking, and hope the answer is not clearly meant to blow my concerns off as unimportant.

I'm pretty quick to dismiss people now who aren't forthcoming when asked direct questions (I used to be less firm and more patient), or when it's clear they want me to devote my time or energy to them while offering virtually none of theirs.  I'm probably too quick to dismiss them (a friend told me I'm intimidating at times), but frankly, I don't want the drama.  I'd rather start with honesty, and then if we click, Wow.

On a side note to the OP, only one man has been invited into my home before I knew him very well *I learned a painful lesson to not do that after that one time - I had to take two days off work, and it took a long while for all the visible deep bruising around my throat and collarbone to go away, getting a lot of questioning looks from coworkers.* - by "knew very well," I mean full name, address, phone number(s), license plate numbers and car description.  Place of employment if he wished to give that.  I've also required a lot of dates/outings in public beforehand.  There is another person here depending on my continued life, and I won't ever be too trusting with my safety again.  Please be cautious and know who it is who gains entry to your home...he may be a great guy who highly values his privacy (benefit of the doubt here) but...you don't really know for sure at this point.

*edited to correct a misspelling...I know I'm tired now...*

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/20/2007 3:09:50 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		thankyou all for your time in helping me in this matter- I am going to do some Matlock up in here and will let you know how it all goes..you all are the greatest.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/20/2007 7:24:04 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		baby girl, you deserve a man that comes without doubts, makes your heart sing not cringe. the time you're wasting with this one can be spent getting ready for the real thing. He's out there dont be caught with a loser when He comes around.

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RE: I Need Advice: Relationship Type - 7/20/2007 8:18:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72
some things that make me have doubts.
we have had sex unprotected once (bad choice on my end)...
I am never invited to his place or met any of his friends..
I don't know where he lives...
all I ask for is honesty


JK,
Your doubts are well founded.

Get tested

Don't expect to.

Jeez!

No, you don't want honesty, you'd rather not know or else you would.

JK, it will be difficult to get anyone to respect you if you come into the relationship not respecting yourself. You don't know where he lives? Do you have his home phone number? Know where he works? Without a wife or significant other, there is no reason to withhold that information. He does so because he can. He can because you let him. You let him because you don't want to confirm what you already know.

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