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cellogrrlMK -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/28/2005 12:24:17 PM)
now jennifer, I got one today from someone that consisted of nothing but "hi bitch". THAT one got a "fuck you asshole" reply and blockage. Some people have no manners, and if I am addressed as "bitch" by anyone but a friend (in a good way) I shall BE a bitch (in the bad way) and respond accordingly! [:D] cello

MrSnake -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/28/2005 1:24:13 PM)
Hey there Maggie Lynn, nice to see a familiar face. The simple answer is that they are twats with no social skills. They have their copy and paste style emails pre-prepared and send em out to every female profile seemingly. Maybe I should do that myself ;)

Tempestspet -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/28/2005 4:24:43 PM)
lol Mr. Snake cello... yes I have responded in kind... if in a playful mood. I conduct myself in a manner that befits a slave of my Master's. That said, I also generally don't give them enough thought to be bothered much more than a chuckle, delete, block. By catering and returning fire, you are actually indulging their fetish for attention.... thirst..or whatever name you wanna put on it. Because no matter what name you give it... it's still doing what they want you to do. They won. And I'm not that easy a victory. Tempest's pet jennifer

cellogrrlMK -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/28/2005 5:21:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tempestspet cello... yes I have responded in kind... if in a playful mood. I conduct myself in a manner that befits a slave of my Master's. That said, I also generally don't give them enough thought to be bothered much more than a chuckle, delete, block. By catering and returning fire, you are actually indulging their fetish for attention.... thirst..or whatever name you wanna put on it. Because no matter what name you give it... it's still doing what they want you to do. They won. And I'm not that easy a victory. Geez, I never thought of it that way, but you indeed have a point. I was selfishly thinking about how good it felt to type those three little words! LOL cello

Mandalin -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/29/2005 1:00:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tempestspet Ok, I finally have to reply to this, I'm just plain confused. Are people really getting upset over someone wishing them, a good day? Basically that's how I'm reading that......... "wishing u a super duper fantabulous rest of the day" Or am I, and I'm serious here, mising something? Tempest's pet jennifer Hi Tempest's pet, I didnt get the quote box correct in my post and it looks like I was complaining about getting a " have a super duper fantabulous rest of the day" email, but that is completely off base! I love getting that email and it makes me smile the rest of the day! Thanks for noticing it is confusing...I would be sick if the sender was to see that and think I was mocking his good heart!

Akinta -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/29/2005 1:34:26 AM)
I guess this asks the question of just what kind of email would you expect to see from a "Master" who's searching? Admittedly, these people mailing owned and collared subs is rather.. well.. dumb. But isn't this site meant for contacting other people, seemingly at random, after reading a few words printed up about themselves because you think, in some way, you'd hit it off with them? The problem comes in that there's a lot more men wanting to Dom and fewer women seeking to be Dom'ed. It seems like the sender of this email should be taken as someone who WANTS to be a Master, but has no understanding or training. Sending back your own form letter which reads, in short: You seem to have little experience as a real Master, have you tried reading XXX and YYY and checking the forums? Depending on their response to something like that, you can weed out the ones with interest from the ones with no interest and just wanting an excuse for sex or abuse. This site IS supposed to be about learning and sharing on this lifestyle. Mind you, I'm not defending the person from the original post and I think it was pointless of him to send a letter like that to someone collared, but it would have been nice to see what sort of response he would have given to a challenge of his understanding of the lifestyle. Perhaps he would have tried to play it off, but a lot of the time people like that are lost, or confused, and just taking out their angst (or repression) on people at random. Sure, you prolly don't have the time to deal with each and everyone one of these people. But you never know, you might make a friend. Personally, I'd relate this back to "Warren" in Empire Records. Once someone showed him a small bit of compassion and understanding, he folded like a deck of cards admitting he knew nothing but just wanted to be noticed by someone. I dunno.. maybe I'm the only person who feels that the rest of mankind MIGHT be worth saving and helping along every now and then. Certainly most people have had someone extend them a hand when they needed it.

Tempestspet -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/29/2005 5:25:02 PM)
Mandalin... smiles... it's cool, I'm notoriously horible with those quote boxes...I don't even try anymore...lol Thank you for replying though... Tempest's pet jennifer

wildangel1012003 -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/29/2005 8:07:10 PM)
i understand yoru frustaion with this troll i recived a email the other day , from a man who lives 45 min from me, stating that becouse we live in the same state, that " he exspects me to be in front of him on my knees this weekend sevicing him" my reply was " as i donot knwo you and have notgotten toknwo you , i willnot be doing anything with you now oe ever , but thanks for the offer" he replied " you are a wanbee ,player , a stupid ego maniac BITCH, who i woudl not waste my time with and you have no training!" well my profile does state i am a novice and that i do not play on the first meeting. i guess he thinks that becouse he calls himslef a Dom he can order any woman around. I am submissive but not a door mat. i blocked his e-mails. there are many trolls out ther dear , but a lot of nice people too. dont give up on making friends! you have one here if you want:-) wildangel

MaggieLynn -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (6/30/2005 5:27:41 AM)
LOL... I guess I've just gotten out of practice dealing with these type jerks. I've been on b.com for so long, and post so much everyone pretty much knows that I don't deal well with "stupid"... so they've stopped sending childish stuff like this to me over there...[:D] One of the main rules Master has is "you don't have to put up with stupid"... I like that rule and so does he [:)] And this covers online as well as r/t. He told me once that a few of the things that got his attention about me is my coughs outspoken coughs attitude (hell I'm Italian AND Southern... so I tend to speak my mind just a bit). Edited to add a wave to the ohsosexy MrSnake!! God I still think you have the most amazing hair!!!

HalloweenWhite -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 7:17:33 AM)
First, I admit to sending the odd submissive a quick note-usually a question or two about something Im curious about from reading their profile. So perhaps Im a hypocrite. But I would NEVER speak to a Submissive the way this person spoke to you. Personally I think they talk like that because they can-its easy to hide behind a username, and they are not serious about the lifestyle. Well that's what I think anyway..... lol. Ignore them,they are just idiots who dont diserve a reply. "Have you been bred yet?". There are some right turkeys about.[:@] HalloweenWhite.

fillepink -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 11:45:05 AM)
quote: now jennifer, I got one today from someone that consisted of nothing but "hi bitch". THAT one got a "fuck you asshole" reply and blockage. what happened to cello was bad enough, but what hapened to wildangel was shocking and a bit scarey; i know, because it happened to me too. the "fantabulous" messages give me the creeps; sorry. i just do not like the idea of some man lining up submissives like dominos and flooding their emails every day with this odd message. To me there's something slighly sinsiter about it; maybe my sense of danger has a higher threshold than other women's. i hate receiving these messages and have told the writer to stop, but he apparently cannot. i realise women here will be approached -- over and over -- by men seeking a quick f**k, and that nothing can be done about it. for the most part, we are grown and can handle the email "groupers". but some men go about it in such bizarre ways...or in creepy ways...or in nonsensical ways..and so we will always want to share our experiences and seek support. [image]local://upfiles/72910/355DA0B516224EC79028A8E5E8FF4900.jpg[/image]

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 11:52:07 AM)
I'm not getting how emails are "scary"? Unless they have a virus or something...

Tempestspet -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 12:19:56 PM)
I don't understand either...but that's ok. What's scary to one... is just funny to another. I've gotten odd e-mails from girls too.... should I be worried about that?....smiles... And again, if one does not like the e-mailer, you shouldn't ever see more than one e-mail, block it. Then it cannot happen again. If one chooses not to block, then they are, on some level, enjoying it. Tempest's pet jennifer

kc692 -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 12:45:10 PM)
I like them to keep resending one line emails and keep track of how long it takes them (if they ever do) to get a clue after no responses. If they send you ugly emails, it just means you got to them, so why let them get to you. My favorite are the scathing email I get from those that HATE dominant women, long drawn out emails that you can tell they labored over, and in advance have deactivated their profile because...who knows, maybe they are scared of you answering. i guess they haven't figured out that if you have no profile your name is black on the email list, so I take the time to get a cup of coffee, cigarette, before I open those so that I can enjoy them properly...<weg>

Tempestspet -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 12:56:20 PM)
kc692, See to me, you have the right attitude....that's great... and thank you for making me smile!!! Now, if only more people reacted that way...so many would not become outraged.....lol Tempest's pet jennifer

kc692 -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 1:21:14 PM)
You gotta love them, so big and bad and full of hate, but scared you might figure out who they are......smiles

slavedesires -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 2:44:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK now jennifer, I got one today from someone that consisted of nothing but "hi bitch". THAT one got a "fuck you asshole" reply and blockage. Some people have no manners, and if I am addressed as "bitch" by anyone but a friend (in a good way) I shall BE a bitch (in the bad way) and respond accordingly! [:D] cello i might have played with him some, not blocking him...and given my man a thrill! but the disrespect is so great with some of these f#####a$$h000000sssss ~~shy

slavedesires -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 2:48:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 Expecting other people online to display any reasonable level of manners and social etiquette will only lead to constant disappointment. Accept it and move on. no one ever need accept that. you might, but no one needs to. ~~shy

Tormentius -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/1/2005 7:53:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavedesires quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 Expecting other people online to display any reasonable level of manners and social etiquette will only lead to constant disappointment. Accept it and move on. no one ever need accept that. you might, but no one needs to. ~~shy Thats fine, you don't "have" to accept it. But many (maybe most) are not going to show that level of etiquette online. Its no different than real life; putting personal demands and expectations on other people just leads to disappointment.

dominmd -> RE: A question to the Dom's about "trolls" (7/3/2005 7:15:20 PM)
My 2 cents worth is really this. A woman says she is collared..........Deal with it. She states that she only wants to be friends...........Deal with it. Get nasty to a woman collared or not, and she or her Dom has the perfect right to squish you like the bug you are, verbally of course[:)] I say this to any woman here, collared or not, I can be a friend. Subs are everywhere but Friends are indeed harder to find. So[:'(] to all the idiots out there who don't know how to talk to people let alone women.

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