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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

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ORIGINAL: substance78

2 Things will interupt my life

1. Work

2. Family

so yes i think your being unreasonable
as for his attitude, chia seems to be that sort of person. being angry at his personality is something it seems she had time to either change or accept.
others may not find it cute, she obviously finds some redeeming quality in it, so just one of those quirks of their relationship

other have sudgested unplugging for a bit of time, that is not unreasonable to ask

as for blameing him, you of course have every right, your the Domme, and Dommes get to place the blame elsewhere [;)]

substance78, ahhhh actually three things will interrupt your life,

work, family, and ya ta ta da, chia* (the pet)

While you're out there searching for starfish, see if you can find your way
back through this thread. Why you ask? i'll break it down for ya;

1. Nefertari's boy is referred to as "dream", (a hot sexy little number)

2. i am referred to as chia* (the pet), (a hot hairy little number)

3. Nefertari's boy "dream" left while the temple was in full bloom

4. chia* pet tilled the garden and planted the seed to encourage the bloom

5. As for attitude, claiming one has such without substance, is ignorance

6. chia* pet is the sort of person who loves to find the lighter side of all things

7. Be sure you know all the characters in the play before offering critique

8. Off to your left, there's a shark fin, GET OUT OF THE WATER!

9. chia* pet wouldn't warn you of such if he was "that kind of person"

chia* (the pet)  

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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Yes, actually, I believe yo are being unreasonable to be angry with him. IF you dont want to explain to everyone why he cant answer the phone while he is trying to get you off, thats your choice.

What is to explain?  I am really confused; do you explain to everyone why you don't answer a particular phone call?

Family obligations to me do not mean that I am at their beck and call.  The only person that I have to offer an explanation to for why I cannot answer a phone when it rings is my Lord.  Anyone else does not get an explanation and if they ask for one, will most likely only get that I was busy.  If they press for more details, I might just give them more than they bargained for and say I was masturbating.  *eg*

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: becca333

Bleeding or burning is an emergency.  Hammering in a nail.... probably not so vitally urgent.  I know he saw it as important, but it's really difficult to accept interruptions JUST at the wrong moment, and I can understand your frustration. 

I've had a lot of success with taking the phone off the hook during play, and turning off mobile phones.  (Nothing kills passion faster than a phone call from your mother just at THAT moment.) 

Talk about it in a quiet moment, and lay some ground rules.  And let him know how frustrated and disappointed you were.