nyrisa -> RE: i hear this a lot from people in here that a true sub/slave kneels and sits on the floor (7/21/2007 2:32:41 PM)
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People put way too much stock in outward appearances, when they don't know the internal dynamics of the relationship. My husband has often raised eyebrows at bdsm gatherings because, if seating is limited, he puts me in the chair and sits on the floor by my feet. This has nothing to do with any desire to be subby, it is just that in the culture we were raised, the woman is offered the chair by the man. Also, he has a liking for sitting on the floor; it is his preferred spot for watching TV or playing video games. I, on the other hand, have knees that lock up after a few minutes. Each time I have to renew my CPR training, I am hobbling away after the time spent kneeling beside the cpr mannequin.
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