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It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 5:05:33 AM

Vampyress33

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That when your owned/collared, how rude Dom's(and i use that term loosely) can really be. I can see if a profile is in accurate, has spelling errors etc, but to resorte to name calling/swaring just because your profile still says "willing to relocate"? And you haven't changed it? Who the heck really cares, just skip over my profile. It really show's their true colors. But then again.. it shouldn't suprise me.. but yet it somehow does.... specially from a 56 year old.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 5:14:06 AM

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Nature of the beast sweetie… ppl just love pointing out other ppl’s faults… Just proves that they, themselves have very low self esteem and so they beat other ppl down to make themselves feel better…

The poor thing is most likely just lonely and is trying to get you to talk to him...

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 5:31:44 AM

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I would save yourself the aggravation and change your profile to fit your being owned status a little more. Your profile talks about what you want in a dominant and that can be confusing for some.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 5:41:30 AM

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About the spelling errors....pot meet kettle.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 8:52:45 AM

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Some people are insecure and can only boost themselves by putting others, in thier minds, beneath them. Use it as an effective weeding technique. Every little one helps you find the right person or people for you.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:04:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

About the spelling errors....pot meet kettle.

Hey, if you spot a spelling error in my profile, please point me to it... i did spell check it seveal years ago before submitting it. I admit other than adding that i'm owned/collared.... i haven't looked at it really since submitting it two-three years ago.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:17:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vampyress33

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

About the spelling errors....pot meet kettle.

Hey, if you spot a spelling error in my profile, please point me to it... i did spell check it seveal years ago before submitting it. I admit other than adding that i'm owned/collared.... i haven't looked at it really since submitting it two-three years ago.

Perhaps the person was suggesting that you update your profile a bit more? Maybe look at it and keep it up to date. a three year old profile that you haven't bothered to look at since you submitted it and you are annoyed that someone would point that out to you? Also, age is never a good indicator or maturity. That you are holding someone to a standard of behavior based on their age is right in line with them thinking you should update your profile to .. i dunno, be up to date.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:26:14 AM

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well, there always a smartass in every crowd haha,

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:38:39 AM

octavia

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ORIGINAL: HardnRuff

well, there always a smartass in every crowd haha,

*reaches back to grab a hadfull of her ass and see if it's "smart".*
Smarting yes....

Does that count?

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:41:34 AM

slaverosebeauty

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Welcome to the wonderfull world of trolls. They cannot read, refuse to do and and are nusances. I delete them and move on. I am not be the worlds best speller, but at least I can READ a profile. Besides, as long as you know whay I am talking about, its all cool; being able to KNOW what is being said verses NOT being able to comprehend what is written is the deal breaker for me.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 9:48:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: octavia

Perhaps the person was suggesting that you update your profile a bit more? Maybe look at it and keep it up to date. a three year old profile that you haven't bothered to look at since you submitted it and you are annoyed that someone would point that out to you? Also, age is never a good indicator or maturity. That you are holding someone to a standard of behavior based on their age is right in line with them thinking you should update your profile to .. i dunno, be up to date.

Now, if someone is happy with their profile - regardless of what it says, etc, just what business is it of someone else's whether they update it or not?

Personally, if she's put in there "owned and collared" I'd pretty much surmise that she's not looking anymore and the state of her profile should be a moot point. For that matter, if she's no longer looking, whether she puts in there any notation whatsoever, it's HER profile to do with what she wishes - even if she spells things "differently."

But I agree. The closer I get to my 50s, the more I come to resent the idea that somehow being in your 50s equates to being just this side of senile.

Course, when I was closer to my 20s I didn't really like that somehow being in your 20s equated to being infantile either.

The age comment was definitely snipey - regardless what her profile did or didn't say.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 10:02:36 AM

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I have no respect for people that can only think of one way to spell things

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 10:04:22 AM

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While I can't speak for the emails you receive, your profile can be a little confusing, in that you state you are owned and collared, yet right after that, you proceed to continue with several paragraphs about what you are looking for in an ideal dominant, and you are willing to relocate. Not knocking you - your profile can say whatever you want it to say within TOS, but its inconsistency may very well invite questions, comments and critique that you would rather not receive. I might interpret it to mean you are temporarily under someone's ownership while looking for a more ideal and permanent owner for yourself.

There is a "Relocatable Only" option in the search function. Perhaps you are receiving frustration from others who came upon your profile in their search, only to be a bit confused by it and aggravated at feeling one more needless profile to sift through has wasted their time.

Finally, name calling and expressed frustration is not limited to certain age brackets.

Best of luck to you in your search/non search

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 10:20:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: octavia

quote:

ORIGINAL: Vampyress33

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

About the spelling errors....pot meet kettle.

Hey, if you spot a spelling error in my profile, please point me to it... i did spell check it seveal years ago before submitting it. I admit other than adding that i'm owned/collared.... i haven't looked at it really since submitting it two-three years ago.

i dunno, be up to date.

Hmmmmmm i think i *am* up-to-date stating that i'm owned/collared, and no longer looking.

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RE: It never ceases to amaze me - 7/21/2007 11:04:19 AM

octavia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vampyress33

quote:

ORIGINAL: octavia

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ORIGINAL: Vampyress33

Hey, if you spot a spelling error in my profile, please point me to it... i did spell check it seveal years ago before submitting it. I admit other than adding that i'm owned/collared.... i haven't looked at it really since submitting it two-three years ago.

i dunno, be up to date.

Hmmmmmm i think i *am* up-to-date stating that i'm owned/collared, and no longer looking.

Oh! forgive me then.. you are willing to relocate? Sorry, my bad. I assumed because your profile has conflicting information in it and you "haven't really looked at it since submitting it two-three years ago" that perhaps it wasn't. I guess some of us experience more change in a three year time period than others.
edited to remove the "pfft" cause that was rude.

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