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Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 7:26:04 AM

BoundDragon

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I long to be taken advantage of as I sleep by my man... it has happened to me once before & it really stirred something inside.

My dream is this:
I was asleep and he started kissing me & stroking me... just enough to make me moan in my sleep. Soon enough I was getting quite wet so he decided (as my partner) to see how far he could take it.... without going into to much detail I am moaning and getting close before I wake up... I am roused just as I am about to orgasm...mmmmm.

Does anybody else have a fantasy like this?? How does it make you feel??
Personally it makes me feel very submissive as my body is his whenever he wants it... and he can take it whenever he choses.

Just interested if anyone else shares those thoughts/views.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 7:31:29 AM

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I have somewhat done something similar while doing a force scenario. It can be a very erotic time between the 2 partners no matter the situation it is being done in.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 8:57:02 AM

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I, too, have a sleep fantasy, but it is more involved with a fantasy of being able to get sleep more than anything else.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 10:23:00 AM

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Actually, I think that's a pretty darned hot fantasy!

(Meaning the OP's)

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 10:31:28 AM

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Actually, this is sort of a realtiy for me - I dream so vividly that I will wake up in the middle of an orgasm. At first, I think that I was just dreaming, but then I realize I truly am physcially reacting - it is a very nice orgasmic wave to ride!

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 10:56:30 AM

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i have had that done to me as for me i really enjoyed it alot....and it made the both of closer together....its a awsome feeling.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 12:02:59 PM

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This scenario has nothing to do with being submissive for me. It's just hot...with the right partner. I've enjoyed it.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 12:33:02 PM

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Being taken in my sleep is one of my big things...doesn't happen much but is one of my favorite fantasies....

It works on a few levels....being "taken" while so vulnerable is one....my sleep not being as important as Master's is another part of it as well.

There is a website run by a friend of my Daddy's that i have been curious about checking into.

Hawt hawt hawt!

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 1:18:57 PM

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Thank you for some crackin answers... I love reading them all.

And Cherry you are spot on with the same way of thinking... its a compination of reasons that makes it so hot.
I also think that it makes it even hotter when it only happens once in a blue moon... I'd be disappointed to get used to it & lose the excitement.

Keshia... again spot on... I do not want it to be done by a stranger but by my man as he has my full trust & total submission.... to be able to let him do something like that & him to know I trust him so would pull us closer still

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 1:19:10 PM

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FWIW: Dan Savage has someone write in maybe a month ago who had the mirror of that fantasy. The writer called himself a somnophiliac. http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=241517

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 1:29:33 PM

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somnophiliac... now thats a term to google!!!!

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 5:22:30 PM

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Well Master woke me up that way once so it is real for me not a dream. Then again as we got into it i woke up fully and was a willing and eager partner. I did not remain asleep. However i do have vivid dreams and i have woken up totally aroused. I hate that cause then i have to hurry to the train.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 8:38:32 PM

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Depends on whether you want to be asleep when it starts, or while it happens.

The former is one I'll unfortunately not get to experience, as Thor would be hard pressed to wake me with Mjölnír when I sleep.

The latter is one I hadn't thought about, but which suddenly seems curiously appealing.
The logistics of the latter probably involves sleep drugs, though.
Might want to have a look at the "chloroforming" thread.
If that is an aspect that appeals to you as well, that is.
In either case, thanks for adding a fantasy.
That's been ages for me, I think.
Overactive imagination. ~g~

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 9:44:48 PM

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I have this fantasy also. Hopefully he will try this sometime when we are together more. mmm

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 10:15:23 PM

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Actually, I think that's a pretty darned hot fantasy!

(Meaning the OP's)
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Ditto

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/21/2007 11:11:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kossack

FWIW: Dan Savage has someone write in maybe a month ago who had the mirror of that fantasy. The writer called himself a somnophiliac. http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=241517

Thanks! :) i'll have to check that out. Never knew there was a term for it, but that one makes perfect sense.

The site that my Daddy's friend worked with was/is "Sleep Attack" or "Sleep Assault" something to that effect....it was a year or so ago that i found out about it, but i'd imagine it's still up and going.

This is up there in my like top 5 fantasies, and i agree with the OP that if it were to happen all the time the effect would be ruined...if it happened on occasion and i didn't know it was coming in any way that would be one of the greatest.

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/22/2007 2:34:14 AM

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it is very very very hot ... both in fantasy and in reality

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/22/2007 2:52:41 AM

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Wow... I knew there would be some people out there who had similar thoughts but there seems to be more than I bargained for.

I sleep quite deeply so I'd be asleep for the start.... still writhing about asleep in the middle but wake up and really go for it at the end (to put it bluntly lol)

Glad I could add to your fantasies Aswad.... certainly worth trying it at least once. I can recommend it

Mmmmm.... next time I see him I'm gonna have my fingers crossed as I fall asleep beside him

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/22/2007 7:32:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoundDragon

Wow... I knew there would be some people out there who had similar thoughts but there seems to be more than I bargained for.

There always is.

quote:

I sleep quite deeply so I'd be asleep for the start.... still writhing about asleep in the middle but wake up and really go for it at the end (to put it bluntly lol)

My nephandi would be asleep for about 2 minutes, I expect, so one version kind of works (but I'd have to stay up, which kind of ruins the spontaineity of that). The other version should work more generally.

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Glad I could add to your fantasies Aswad.... certainly worth trying it at least once. I can recommend it

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RE: Sleep fantasy - 7/22/2007 10:25:47 AM

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Ravishment fantasies are extremely common.

Unconcious fantasies are more common than people think.

I personally haven't been able to have this fulfilled mostly because my partners are lazy sleepers ;) and because I wake up fairly quickly when someone is touching me.

But I do have drugging/knock out fantasies which I would LOVE to have done to me at some point.

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