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New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 10:51:59 AM

newMsubsksDomme

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Hello,

I have recently been having thoughts and vivid images of being forced to submit to 1) a single female 2) a M/F couple 3) F/F pairing. In these scenes I am restrained (hands and ankles), blindfolded, receiving a strap on from the F, and then either being forced to give head to the M, or the other F with a strap on.

As these are new fantasies of mine, I have never experienced any of these scenarios, but if there are any Dommes/Mistress' willing to chat, guide, instruct, explore this with me further, i would be extremely grateful.

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 10:59:41 AM

DrkJourney

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if you are just looking for scenarios or online roleplay, there are a lot of chat rooms that focus on roleplay. The ones that have been there forever would probably be happy to guide you

might be much easier than trying to find that on the boards.

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 11:46:13 AM

LadyPact

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If you were local, I'd be more than happy to help you with this. However, I don't do the online fantasy exploration thing. I'm only interested in those who want to persue real experiences. Afterall, why have dreams when you can have goals?

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 12:43:45 PM

PairOfDimes

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Your profile says you live in Toronto, Canada. Toronto is a pretty big city, and another woman just posted from Toronto referring to interactions within her local community, thus, I can assume that there are munches, classes, and other local BDSM events around you. Join them!

Read these forums. Read books, perhaps by Elise Sutton, Claudia Varrin, Hardy Haberman, and Jack Rinella. Read blogs--ondominance.blogspot.com is a blog I like to recommend, written by a submissive man.

You ask for guidance and instruction, but I'm not sure what you want guidance and instruction in. You seem to have an idea of the kinds of things you fantasize about, which is good, so I don't think you need help there. It might help you to think more carefully so you can frame specific questions you would like answered, or specific areas in which you would like advice. Then, by all means, ask those questions on the forums!

As for finding dominant women who would enjoy participating in acts like what you want, you can meet them on here, by writing to people whose profiles seem appealing and who are in your general geographic area, or by going to your local events, getting to know people, and flirting a bit.

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 12:51:18 PM

MistressCara

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I am an online domme that can help you, message Me and we can take it further. I understand that you may not be able to engage in real time and/or want to play scenes out in your head due to lack of experience or vanilla personal circumstances for instance.
good luck in your search

MistressCara x

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/21/2007 6:26:09 PM

lostatx

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new to the site, having trouble meeting female dommes who are full figured. Anybody have any advice where to find one

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/22/2007 6:51:17 AM

Cloudz

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ummm...read profiles?

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/22/2007 12:44:11 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lostatx

new to the site, having trouble meeting female dommes who are full figured. Anybody have any advice where to find one

Don't disrespect others by hijacking their threads to troll for women. Go and read profiles for that purpose.

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RE: New M Sub seeking tips - 7/22/2007 12:45:51 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: newMsubsksDomme

Hello,

I have recently been having thoughts and vivid images of being forced to submit to 1) a single female 2) a M/F couple 3) F/F pairing. In these scenes I am restrained (hands and ankles), blindfolded, receiving a strap on from the F, and then either being forced to give head to the M, or the other F with a strap on.

As these are new fantasies of mine, I have never experienced any of these scenarios, but if there are any Dommes/Mistress' willing to chat, guide, instruct, explore this with me further, i would be extremely grateful.

There are many men in your situation. I strongly suggest looking on the other side in the profiles in your area for women who work with novices, or getting involved in a local BDSM group where you can learn from more experienced individuals. Trolling on the boards, no matter how polite, for someone to play with you just isn't the way to go. Good luck with your explorations.

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