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ready4srvce4all -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 5:28:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy What if you make your sub only "mostly dead?" Just a quick trip to Miracle Max....And you'll be up and running in no time. but only if you found "true love" And what if that giant pill were a hard limit? So we have learned, if death isn't a hard limit, make sure the giant mostly dead Miracle Max pill isn't one either

MHOO314 -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 5:38:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: winterlight Would U can't kill me be a reasonable one? I have a problem with that one. Especially if you end up with some nut. He/She isn't going to care about your limits. *You ARE kidding aren't you? I mean who would even ask that question?* *I completely agree with LadyHeart, a hard limit is hands off---if you have to state that, one or both of you either has serious issues or one too many fantasy sites----gees.*

WyckedMystress -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 6:34:55 AM)
not to make light of people's hard limits but the funniest one I ever saw was "No yellow gumboots" apparently that was up there with death, scat and animals

winterlight -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 7:45:58 AM)
The reason i asked this question is that i heard a sub say my hard limits are: you can't kill me was one of them. I am serious!

sublizzie -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 8:32:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: winterlight The reason i asked this question is that i heard a sub say my hard limits are: you can't kill me was one of them. I am serious! I've said that was one of my hard limits. Granted I was in a conversation where it was understood that would be a hard limit and I was teasing but still there are some people I've met where I really felt the need to say that it was a hard limit. There are some people out there who have interesting fetishes....

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 10:01:48 AM)
Personally, there are many instances in which I would kill myself or allow myself to be killed- granted they are all fairly unlikely unless some medical issue arose in me, but I do know that's still possible. That has everything to do with ME and nothing to do with being a slave. The important thing is that Winter is still not understanding that this is a relationship in which she simply needs to stay true to herself, use good judgement, and make whatever life she chooses for her. Whatever limits she feels she needs, she should have. I have a limit on getting water in my ears. That has nothing to do with submission and is a fairly silly thing for most people. But I have hearing problems and tubes and water is forbidden.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 10:03:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: winterlight The reason i asked this question is that i heard a sub say my hard limits are: you can't kill me was one of them. I am serious! For some people it's not a limit.

greeneyes1962 -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 10:33:39 AM)
I go with the standard 3-4 limits, everything else is open to discussion. I may not like a lot of things, but i'd go along with them, because they're not limits, just strong dis- likes.

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 4:50:50 PM)
U can't kill IS a reasonable hard limit, yet, I'd be troubled if someone that I was interested in playing with of having a relationship needed that as a disclaimer. I mean even though we do different play than vanilla relationships, when it came down to sex, I never heard a play partner say this... But on the other hand there are some levels of kink that there should be comfort levels.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Hard limits (7/22/2007 4:53:42 PM)
imagine, if You will, how bad it would be if someone included in their profile/ad "deathplay" (or something equally as sinister)

LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Hard limits (7/23/2007 10:58:56 AM)
talk about illusion delusion.. this is a person asking for trouble. it is like a car with no breaks it will hit the brick wall sooner or later ouch. i see a 911 call in this for sure.

Celeste43 -> RE: Hard limits (7/23/2007 11:03:32 AM)
I find that someone who writes U is someone I'm not compatible with. No matter what comes after it.

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