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A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 3:55:11 PM

GhitaAmati

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This may get removed, it may get me moderated, All in All it will be worth it...

(think of it as a form letter to crummy doms, or in this case subs who speak like doms)

To whom it may concern...you know who you are.

I could care less about you, or if you know who I am. I know who I am and thats all that matters to me. I do not lie (unless by not telling you my personal information right off the bat you see that as a lie, and I admitted my mistakes to you allready) and I am not spoiled. I am not a peice of baggage to be thrown about. Nor am I your "little girl" to whom insults can be hurled. I will stay where I am, I will not change a part of me to make anyone else happy and I have never topped anyone who didnt ask for it. You are no concern of mine, I pity you for the anger and hurt you hold inside, but it does not concern me. If you honestly believe I waste my time "doing" anything for your benifit you are sadly mistaken. So whatever you think I am "doing" you can change your tune now, for what I am "doing" is continuing on with my life, spending time with the friends I love. Whether that is here, or offline....my life is not yours to control, please stop trying.

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 6:17:38 PM

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*reads this, nods, and offers a hug to Ghita*

kitten, who gets it.

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 6:38:51 PM

LadyIce

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Nice post Ghita, I doubt the many on here that need to read it will care.
I am often surprised at the level of nastiness that comes from the so called
on-line submissives.
I just got a nasty response from a couple that seems to live here on the boards,
we can't do anything about nasty people.
Be glad that you don't have to deal with them in real life.

< Message edited by LadyIce -- 7/21/2007 6:40:16 PM >

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 6:59:33 PM

CuriousLord

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I hope you find some peace. I don't know the situation, so I guess it's not possible to say much more. Just- glad you got it off your chest.

If someone's controlling you more than you're comfortable with, then I'm glad you're finding the will to break away from it, even if it's hard. Good luck, and I think a lot of us will be here to give you a hug when you need it.

I'm really sorry to have to mention this- but I can get rather OCD about some things.. the phrase "I could care less" should be "I couldn't care less", which is misused all of the time, so it drives me nuts when I see it. (Saying you "couldn't care less" means you care so little that it's impossible for you to care any less. Saying you "could care less" just means you do care.)f

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 9:21:54 PM

juliaoceania

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The way to show how little you care is just to move on from what has happened with a smile on your face and love in your heart... I know I am a sappy person, but what the hell, it has always worked that way for me.

Shine on.. shine on... shine on.

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/21/2007 10:15:19 PM

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It's always a great way to communicate to someone how much you don't care about them by taking time out of your life and posting a message explaining in detail how much you reall don't care about the individual that you took the time out of your life to post about. I can think of no better way to show someone that I don't care by just ignoring them as if they didn't exist. You have done a remarkable job.

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/22/2007 7:18:13 AM

sub4hire

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Look's like someone who doesn't know you and doesn't know anything about you made a judgement call about you? Of course it was wrong, most are who have no clue about who we are.
Why worry about them at all? Are they affecting your life in the least? Anyone who believes them are only showing how moronic they are as well.

Move on, as everyone else said. Life is too short to get all drawn up in morons opinions about you.

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RE: A post to someone, and yet to no one - 7/22/2007 9:18:09 AM

GhitaAmati

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Why thank you domiguy for that insightful response...lol....

For once I agree with you, it was a compleate was of my time to try to write that, because I am sure she will never read it, but getting it out made me feel better..and for the most part..that was all I hoped to get out of it.

For the rest of you...I smile and laugh, because it really does come across as the perfect response to an eggheaded online nasty....but it was actually a post directed at somone from my real life, who happens to believe that just because I occasionally show up at the same public places she does, and have online accounts on some of the same websites she does, that I am stalking her or something...

I do thank you for all for the chance to rant....grins

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