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Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 7:06:31 AM

LdyScarletDomina

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Hey A/all, its been a while. Good news is I'm 15 weeks pregnant with the Master's first um. We're extatic. (well except for the morning sickness LOL) But this pregnancy has brought up some questions for me. (I have all ready searched the archives and not really found the answers to these questions I have)

I've been approached by friends who know I'm in the um way and asked about lactation play. This thought made me uncomfortable, like squirmy uncomfortable, so I broached the subject with Master. Now we switch occassionally and we do alot of age based role play (little girl/daddy, teenage boy/mommy) but I've NEVER been into infantilism at all. We had an interesting discussion that left me with some questions/desire for further conversation with others.

Here's my questions/discussion prompts. Is there a difference between induced lactation and sharing the tap with Daddy? I think that the reason I personally feel squirrely about it is because I see nursing as something between mother and um, meant to foster closeness and a bond. Master says however that there is a significant amount of endorphines released in lactation and that it could be very enjoyable for me. Is there a way I can work on letting go of my . . . social stigmas or could this just be a sign of finally finding a hard limit I can't cross? (I only have 1 other hard limit in our relationship - piercings)

thanks for any advice, opinions, or personal experience stories you all can share.

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 9:12:31 AM

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First of all, congratulations

Are you talking about after you have the baby? When I had my first child (25 years ago, yikes), I had so much milk, I could have fed six babies, I think. I got so engorged that my then husband finally took it upon himself to "relieve" me, so to speak. We didn't do it in a playful or sexy way at all, and to be honest, it seemed really weird to see his head down there going at it. I'm kinda like you, to me, it seemed like more of a mother-and-child bonding thing, not sexually arousing in any way. But that was just me. Some people may totally get off on the experience, and that's great for them.

The only problem I could see there is, when you breastfeed, your body sort of naturally regulates the amount of milk you produce to jive with the amount taken by the baby. (My producing so much was only at the very beginning, a few days after the birth. It settled down after that.) If daddy frequently shares in the milk demand, you will most likely produce a lot more milk, and if he doesn't keep up with his "feeding", then you might find yourself in an overabundance.

Anyway, to answer what I believe is your question, there is no physical reason not to share with daddy. It can be a pleasurable sensation, but, at least for me, only mildly pleasurable. Not enough to release great amounts of endorphons to cause feelings of ecstasy.

As far as beforehand, before the birth, you only produce colustrum, a sort of "pre-milk" that has vitamins and antibodies that are still good for the baby before your milk comes in. If daddy wants to partake before the birth, there could be a benefit of helping to prepare your nipples for nursing, "toughening" them up a little before the baby starts going at it. It's amazing how sore, and I mean SORE, nipples can get from a baby's nursing.

I honestly don't know if his nursing on you before the baby is born will trigger your real milk coming in sooner. Good luck with everything!

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 9:42:29 AM

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I had "help" getting my milk to come in, it wasnt a sexual thing, my baby just wanst sucking vigorusly enough to get the milk flowing so someone else adding to the workload of the breasts made the milk come in better and let down easier

I have heard other women say thay had orgasms from breastfeeding, so I know its possible....

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 10:02:45 AM

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congratulations! here's my .02 as far as nursing goes.

nursing prior to birth can trigger contractions. that's why women who are at risk stop breastfeeding their other children so as to lower the risk of a miscarriage.

also, the amount of milk produced is regulated by the babies sucking. so, unless you want to mess around with your supply, it may be better to not engage another party until you are ready to wean the baby.

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 11:45:52 AM

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I once subbed for a Domme and although she was lesbian as I am, she never allowed me to touch her ample breasts. She said that she automatically lactated from any direct stimulation and sometimes had to check herself if someone inadvertently bumped into her boobs. This drove me absolutely nuts, because I was very much attracted to her sexually. Although I havent seen her in 8 years, we regularly speak by phone and sometimes I fantasize ~ if she tastes as good above as she does below . . . look out.

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 12:06:09 PM

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After I had my daughter 22 years ago, I had more milk than a dozen cows make in a day...SHEESH it was horrible, it was in my neck. I nursed my daughter for 9 months and was like that the whole time. There was no other suckling going on. I did take advantage of it and froze a lot of it so that she would never have to have formula. Some people's bodies regulate their milk production, then there are the freakish ones like me that turn into dairy's. My mother was the same way...4 kids and way more milk than any of us could drink. Talk to your mother about her milk production and use that as a way to gauge what might possibly go on with you.

In answer to your question about engaging with your Master. If your happenstance is that your body produces what it uses, then Master suckling won't be a problem even if he doesn't stay on a schedule. Just get a good pumping system that allows you to bag your milk and freeze it...that way, baby always has a supply and baby's Daddy can do some late night feedings with breast milk as well as feed baby when you need to go take a short sabitical (cleverly disguised as a long walk) and get a breath of fresh air.

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 12:18:24 PM

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Emerald...

Go to this website. It is the only one I know of, but it is very informative about ANR and ABF and might help you become more receptive to the idea of (as you put it) "sharing the tap with daddy"..

http://www.landmilkhoney.com/lactation2.htm

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RE: Questions about Lactation(natural not induced) - 7/22/2007 5:42:13 PM

LdyScarletDomina

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thanks everyone for the input. And for the congrats! To answer a few questions.

Windchymes: Yes, the lactation play would be after the baby is born. I cant imagine letting ANYONE touch my poor sore nipples before then. LOL

About overproducing: I have 3 other ums. I've always been a major overproducer. Even after I weaned I had frozen breast milk hogging space with the steaks in the freezer. I've actually been talking to the local La Leche League lady about donating breast milk. The crazy diet they want you to stay on is kind of off putting . . . but if someone else can benefit!

southernstyle, thanks for the link, that will help.

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