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herpet1313 -> Subtle public humiliation (7/22/2007 8:33:00 AM)
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For whatever reason, (i have long since given up trying to figure out why) this submissive husband enjoys public humiliation. However, i agree with most that it is not proper to act out in ways that are "in your face" to the general public, and especially children. Being collared and on a leash while strolling through a mall, as suggested on a recent post, is, i think, too much. Besides, such behavior draws a lot of attention to the Domme as well and i don't believe there are many dominant women whho would welcome, not to mention handle that. There are ways my wife, and Mistress, can push my buttons, publicly, that are more subtle. Let me add that these are not all original ideas. i recall reading, years ago, an entire list from either this or another website that had lots of ideas. This is what works for my Mistress.
First of all, i do, always, walk two steps behind her. Often times i will carry her purse, especially if she is clothes shopping. If she wishes to try on some shoes, i kneel and "assist" her. If she has come out of a changing room, again, i kneel and tie her shoes. Of course, along with her purse, as the shopping progresses, i am laden with whatever she intends, or has already, purchased. This can be quite a struggle when Christmas shopping. Having her walking ahead of me, unburdened, while i am loaded down with her purse, her coat and all the packages might bring a few stares, but it is not "in your face" behavior.
If we are out at a pub for a bite to eat, and scening as well, i am not allowed to speak unless spoken to.Since she enjoys feminizing me, i am wearing "a bit" of eyeliner and mascara. i always wear panties and must keep them pulled up high. When a shorter than normal T-shirt is added to the mix i have to be very careful how i sit and try to avoid bending over, lest someone catch a peek. Mistress often "accidently" drops things. Since my Mistress enjoys sitting at the bar she will do so even if there is only one stool, leaving me to stand next to her until someone leaves. When told there is a table for both of us, she just smiles, and says "thank you, but i prefer to sit here." If i am able to sit, i am not allowed to slouch like a guy but must sit up straight, with my legs crossed in a feminine manner. When the server asks what we want to drink Mistress will place her order. Now the server looks at me, but first i have to ask my Mistress if i may have a beer. This is about as "in your face" as it gets. But this is a pub, and i have to think most workers and patrons of such establishments have seen it all. Our little scene usually results in a smile and by the end of the evening the server is adressing all questions to my Mistress and ignoring me.
Mistress loves to shoot pool. She is quite good at it and enjoys challenging men to a game. If she does, i am left to sit alone. She has me "watch her purse" by placing it in my lap. i must pay attention to her and she enjoys signalling me to bring her a cigarette, which she keeps in her purse. It is quite humiliating to stroll across the bar, purse in hand. i arrive next to her and open the purse, get the smoke out, and light it for her. i am told to go sit back down. Sometimes, only seconds later, she will call me over again, and request a beer. (She could have done so while i was there before.) There have been nights when she was playing well and this went on for hours. i've had women compliment me on my purse and also dealt with the awkward situation of taking it with me to the bathroom, when, try as i might, i just couldn't hold it any longer. One can imagine the looks i get in there.
There is more to add but i think i've gone on a bit too long already.
herpet
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