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Niran -> RE: Serious Question. (7/4/2005 9:43:59 PM)
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Indigo-
The other issue that I really had when I was in your boots was that the harder I tried, and the more I focused on it, the worse it got. Once, I was actually physically ill over it. e had made me a lovely dinner, and the music was going (jazz sax..whp can resist..) and then we got to "that" point and I went running for the bathroom as soon as his jeans came off. You're going to be okay..As I pointed out in my previous thread, intimacy does not have to equal sex....It does get better. As I mentioned, it took me a year to get straightened out. I was only on that horrid shot for a round of three, so 9 months. You were on it for 3 years I read? Its going to take some time to get straightened out. Some of the herb Damiana helped to get it adjusted as well. Be aware that I did my research on the herb, I knew what it was for, and exactly what I was putting into my body. I am not "recommending" it, I am stating what I did. The biggest factor is going to be getting the root of why you feel the way you do. However, as I said, the more it is dwelled upon, the worse its going to be.
Karbon-e sends his sympathy. he understands where you are at as well. he said to tell you this-"Its hard, but its not the end of the world. The biggest mistake I made was thinking that 'If she loved me she would just snap out of it and give me sex.' and also to settle into the mindset that sex and love were the same. It sucks, but be patient. Oh, and invest in some astroglide."
We have been there, and I do not envy your position. I hope that it all works out for you.
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