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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/23/2007 8:48:38 PM

Lashra

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I am not really sure. I know when I was very young I loved to see men tied up and helpless. I remember getting a thrill watching Wonder Woman tie up men in her golden lasso and forcing them to tell her the truth.

In fact I liked it so much I used to do it to the neighborhood boys. Then when I turned 19, I decided to do it to my boyfriend, the rest is just history.

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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/24/2007 1:43:58 AM

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had fantasies as a kid...but wasnt until nilla relationships broke down, partly due to me wanting to play kinky games, that i started to explore more...as well as the kinky sex i discovered the whole D/s power dynamic.

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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/24/2007 6:32:15 AM

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An idea of tying up some cute guys just popped into my head when I was younger, and shortly after I heard about BDSM. So here I sit.

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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/24/2007 9:39:39 AM

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born of a Master/sub relationship in the 1950s, lived in a poly family as a child when such a thing was not the acceptable, given into another House at 15 for my education.....and this has been my path in Life, not something read in any book, but something that was lived......

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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/24/2007 9:50:05 AM

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Like others here, I discovered my urges very young (healthy, happy childhood) but turned on by movies or situations where girls were captured, in bondage, spanked, etc.

At age 16, my English teacher, who was 30, gave me the Story of O (I know, very inappropriate) and it all came together for me. He was actually the first person to spank me. I never had sex with him, but we went through some things for over a year and while it was wrong for him to be doing this with a student of 16, obviously I liked the attention. I was self possessed enough even at that age to NOT be deflowered by him though! But I think of him fondly as the catalyst to my submissive side.

I never turned back and just embraced how wonderful it was to know why I wanted these things.

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RE: So how did you get interested in bdsm? - 7/24/2007 10:32:09 AM

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yup..happy healthy childhood here too..well, for the most part..no worse than most teenagers who complain about how unfair life is.

I had fantasies about being kidnapped and tied up and masturbated to those from at least 3rd grade I can remember...then I ran into BDSM chat rooms on yahoo and went, "hey thats weird, I thought I was the only one with those fantasies" But I still thought it was just an online roleplay thing and no one actually DID anything like that until I was 16 and working at a Scotty's hardware store. There was this one customer I had always had a major crush on, and everytime he walked into the store I would follow him around like a puppy dog and carry all his stuff for him and help him find everything. Then one day, after about 6 months of this, he leaned down and told me to be ready at 7pm because he was going to pick me up and take me somewhere...he told me what he wanted me to wear and smiled and then walked out the store. I wondered about it all day because he never asked where I lived or anything, but I was ready and dressed when he showed up at my doorstep. He took me to a local leather event and things went downhill from there! He never took advantage of me, there wasnt sex involved, but I was definantly "HIS" from the moment he picked me up that evening, and I never left the lifestyle again. My relationship with him only lasted around 18 months, but I will never forget all that he taught me.

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