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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 11:55:07 AM   
Najakcharmer


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Nah! The mods only slam you if you dare to trade insults with one of their buddies. As long as you sit quietly and let the moderators pets flame to their hearts content, you are safe from the big mean mods.


Thing is, from your perspective it may look that way.  From an overworked mod's perspective, it can look quite different.  They don't necessarily have time to read every single post on the board; they step in when they're explcitly called for, and moderate based on what they see.  If Person X stepped over the line two hundred and sixty-seven posts ago in another thread, and Person Y just stepped over the same line on a thread where a mod was just called in by Person Z, guess who's going to get moderated.  It probably won't be Person X, because the mod is a volunteer who doesn't have time to find the other thread and read two hundred and sixty seven posts back.  This will inevitably result in cries of favoritism, when in fact Mod Seventeen (or whichever moderator it is) who actually laid the smackdown may not know any of the people involved on the thread at all.

I moderate on a science board that can get as bad as this one in terms of sheer nastiness, though academics usually go about it with longer words rather than four letter words.  Usually, though not always.  Anyhow, the dynamics of how moderation works is the same whether it's a kinky site or not, and the folks who get moderated are always likely to percieve unfairness and favoritism whether that's what is really happening or not.  Most of what's behind the apparent inequities in a volunteer mod system is a simple lack of time to delve deeply enough into any given issue, beyond making the crap stop that needs to stop.  Generally a mod is likely to do that, and then stop looking. 

Community moderators do not have time to convene a jury trial and a grand scale investigation for every offense committed on a message board forum.  They're just going to do what they have to do in the moment to keep the board functioning for everyone.  Inequalities will result.  Such is life on the Internet.

I'm not saying that it is impossible for some favoritism to occur.  I don't know the situation here or the moderators here well enough to speak to that.  I do know how community moderation works, and how apparent favoritism and inequality can very easily be the result of limited staff time to keep a very large community functioning.  I would suggest considering these possibilities before deciding that every decision here that you do not like is a result of malice or personal bias. 


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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 2:23:04 PM   
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Just like the fact that the "Illuminati" runs the world there are sinister forces at work on CM.


Thengyew.  Thengyew vurrmusch.

We try. 

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 2:49:08 PM   
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Those aren't the kinds of things I whisper into a woman's ear.

Hell, I rarely whisper into an ear.  I usually nibble and bite.


I can attest to that.  Who needs whispering? 

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 4:43:44 PM   
winterlight


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hmm went 20 pages? cannot imagine that was mine. I would have to go back and look.
I am pretty thick skinned and have big girl pants... looks down and laffs...

And no i AM NOBODY'S ex......LOL

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 4:45:21 PM   
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Winterlight you asked if anybody has ever been kicked off this site. I am not sure but Sirdiscipliner69 is not on here making 765 post a day anymore. I am not sure if he found another site or was booted from here. I enjoyed reading his post.

I think Ross was booted.  I can think of at least a couple others who have been also since I've been here, including Sanity.  I miss him.  Though I never agreed with any of his political positions, I enjoyed reading his input because at least he provided a balance and offered another viewpoint.  I wonder if his opinions were simply less acceptable than the opinions of those who continue to rant on the "other side" of those issues.  He didn't seem to be any more offensive or attack anymore than the others he often argued with in the "Off Topic" forum.  Not sure why he was tossed and they weren't.  Only the mods know and their decisions are indeed final.

Also...to the OP...as "obnoxious," "nasty," and "insensitive" as you say you find some posters, that's the way the cookie crumbles on public forums such as this.  Some people are that way sometimes but overall I think most have a good sense of humor and are willing to be reasonable most times.  People disagreeing with me or being "in my face" is not offensive to me but someone who just is not capable of even seeing others' viewpoints is.  Someone who is so persuaded they are right and I am wrong that they aren't even willing to say that I have the right to my way.  That is what's disgusting but, fortunately, 99% of the folks here have evolved past that (and yes, I did do a scientific study on that).............slave luci


What about Costa (uwinceismile)?He went off just after starting the doomed thread about hate crimes/thought police.

I swear I  had nothing to do with it.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 4:47:37 PM   
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He got tired of 'awaiting approval' and left.

eta: I miss him.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 4:57:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: losttreasure

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Those aren't the kinds of things I whisper into a woman's ear.

Hell, I rarely whisper into an ear.  I usually nibble and bite.


I can attest to that.  Who needs whispering? 



I disagree: nothing like a lewd whisper in my ear to make me... gasp... global general meltdown... purrr.

PS: especially if the whisper in question's gossip.

PPS: What?! I had to try, didn't I!

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 4:59:11 PM   
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What about Costa (uwinceismile)?He went off just after starting the doomed thread about hate crimes/thought police.

I swear I  had nothing to do with it.



Perhaps he got tired of having to wait for each and single one of his post to pass the safety inspection.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 5:04:36 PM   
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He got tired of 'awaiting approval' and left.

eta: I miss him.


Can anyone email him off list or privately?Maybe invite his ass back?I remember he mentioned being on probation.Maybe he`ll pop back after that.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 6:20:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Owner59

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ORIGINAL: camille65

He got tired of 'awaiting approval' and left.

eta: I miss him.


Can anyone email him off list or privately?Maybe invite his ass back?I remember he mentioned being on probation.Maybe he`ll pop back after that.


Huh... why don't YOU do it?

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 6:39:54 PM   
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a. Moderators are rumored to be people ...
b. and are rumored to be volunteers ...
 
It's probably a pretty busy job, as volunteer jobs go (point b). They probably don't have time to hang around making up plots for, or against.
 
If those they know get a little props, they are probably just being people (point a).
 
I've been warned a few times. I'm mostly grateful that the moderator gave me a chance to clean up my act, instead of just dropping me in the moderation pit. I'm guessing here, but would be willing to bet that moderation victims were given warnings, and responded with escalation.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 6:47:18 PM   
kittinSol


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a. Moderators are rumored to be people ...
b. and are rumored to be volunteers ...
 
It's probably a pretty busy job, as volunteer jobs go (point b). They probably don't have time to hang around making up plots for, or against.
 
If those they know get a little props, they are probably just being people (point a).
 
I've been warned a few times. I'm mostly grateful that the moderator gave me a chance to clean up my act, instead of just dropping me in the moderation pit. I'm guessing here, but would be willing to bet that moderation victims were given warnings, and responded with escalation.


Of course the moderators are to be thanked for the work they do on our behalf. Thank you for this worthy reminder.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 6:47:52 PM   
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(Domiguy sits back and smiles at the thought of caitlyn being pulled out of the moderation pits)  I can just see your heaving breasts so clearly as your shirt drenched in moderation is clinging to your braless frame....Turkey's done!!!  Let's eat.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 6:49:21 PM   
caitlyn


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... as if you could ever be worth, anything ...

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 7:03:41 PM   
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... as if you could ever be worth, anything ...



Nice!

PS:



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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 7:10:31 PM   
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Come on, out with it! Who are you talking about, aye, aye, aye?


I may be fearless.  But I'm not stupid. 

FirmKY



lol Kentucky

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 7:17:17 PM   
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darn, domiguy ... struck down TWICE!

I'd suggest a strategic retreat for the nonce ....

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 7:23:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

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ORIGINAL: Owner59

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ORIGINAL: camille65

He got tired of 'awaiting approval' and left.

eta: I miss him.


Can anyone email him off list or privately?Maybe invite his ass back?I remember he mentioned being on probation.Maybe he`ll pop back after that.


Huh... why don't YOU do it?

His profile is off.

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RE: to the moderators - 7/23/2007 7:23:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

Anyhow, the dynamics of how moderation works is the same whether it's a kinky site or not, and the folks who get moderated are always likely to percieve unfairness and favoritism whether that's what is really happening or not.  Most of what's behind the apparent inequities in a volunteer mod system is a simple lack of time to delve deeply enough into any given issue, beyond making the crap stop that needs to stop.  Generally a mod is likely to do that, and then stop looking. 

Community moderators do not have time to convene a jury trial and a grand scale investigation for every offense committed on a message board forum.  They're just going to do what they have to do in the moment to keep the board functioning for everyone.  Inequalities will result.  Such is life on the Internet. 


Agree!  I moderate on a writers' board and whenever someone accuses us of not being democratic (no promises are made on our forum to that in the first place), I like to remind them that it's actually a benign dictatorship

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RE: to the moderators - 7/25/2007 3:01:23 AM   
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I think the mod's are assuming that we are all fairly mature and can handle some heated debate as long as it isn't against the TOS.  If you find particular poster is  not to your liking you can always block them so that you don't have to read their posts or stay away from threads that tend to be emotionally charged such as anything to do with politics. If you are still finding the forums unpalatable it may be time to have a break and play solitaire...that is what I do.

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