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AAkasha -> Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 1:59:38 PM)


Ok submissives..what are your tricks of the trade when it comes to turning on your partner, even when you are completely helpless?  When you are bound and/or gagged, what tools do you have to use to get her aroused? 

Is this considered femdom trolling?  Well, ok, I will admit, I *am* sort of hoping for responses that get me going.  But at least I'm honest!

Akasha




slaveish -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 2:27:33 PM)

If I am not gagged, I tell him (without using swear words) what I would like to do to him, being very explicit and descriptive, using texture and sensations. If I am gagged and boudn, sometimes I like to play the resistance game, struggle a little bit, move as hard as I can against the leather (knowing he is good at keeping me "put") letting him see the musculature of my body. Other times, I simply lie still. It all depends on the mood.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 2:33:49 PM)

My eyes, my feet, my whimpers




atendersoul -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 2:35:31 PM)

giggles.....He can not help but join in after awhile....~smiles~




sleazybutterfly -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 2:42:36 PM)

I just kiss him on the neck, suck a bit there...then go slowly down to his cock.  There is nothing Master likes better than one of my patented deep throat blow jobs.[;)]  He is hot in an instant.
 
tinkerbella




gregor2001us -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 3:05:08 PM)

whimpering...




HisBoo -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 4:59:46 PM)

I'm very strong grrly. I notice that when I struggle really hard, he seems to be even more turned on. Even if I think I can get loose of his grip lol I'll give in. (You know I love him because normally I'm very competitive)

Other than that, I make more eye contact. I typically hate looking into people's eyes because it's just weird. I'm shy in some ways. So lookin into his eyes for a while is a big turn-on for him.




SexyRed -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 5:02:15 PM)

a wicked smile, a gleam in my eye, soft moaning escalating to screams, struggling while bound, wearing hot little bustiers, stockings and heels, begging, whimpering, whispering and saying, I want your cock everywhere....




ProlificNeeds -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 6:35:10 PM)

Struggling, dirty talk, or shameless begging (verbally and non).




Casie -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 6:48:48 PM)

struugling, whimpering, what he refers to as slut eyes, and if I can congure up some tears that really gets him going




classykindasassy -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 7:50:25 PM)

Basically, show up in the same space as him. Sha-wing!




Lordandmaster -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/23/2007 7:51:10 PM)

I remember losttreasure had some ideas a few days ago.




mitda -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 4:01:26 AM)

groans, moans, pleas




littleone35 -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 8:56:57 AM)

I would have to say when i beg MASTER PLEASE!!!! that usually works.  Also Master say my eyes darken to a forest green wheen i am aroused since i usually can'tsay much i use them. 

Matt's littleone




pixelslave -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 9:01:27 AM)

LOL Akasha!  You do come up with some good ones!  There are lots of things that gets Mistress HOT, but only some that I'd feel comfortable sharing. [;)]
 
She definitely responds to moaning.  She loves having her feet rubbed and her toes sucked.  Without a doubt, massages are a big turn-on for her too, especially when I use my tongue in certain spots as I reach them (sorry, but I'll leave it to your imagination as to where those spots are).  We've never talked about it in depth, but I think it pushes her buttons when I beg for what I want.  She also gets turned on by seeing that I'm enjoying what she's doing to or with me.  Similarly, that I'm turned on by watching what what she's doing and enjoying, regardless of how difficult it may be for me to endure or how close to the edge of my limits what's she's doing is taking me to.
 
I know she likes it when I feed her strawberries afterwards, or do other acts of service, such as paint her toenails, help with her make-up, dress, or undress her and things like that.  Not only do I enjoy doing those things for her, but I can tell that she feels very appreciated as well when I do.  She might be embarrassed to admit it, but my complimenting her on how attractive and sexy I find her, turns her on too.  I think every woman wants to hear from the one they care about that they look good to them and are desired.  Not only is it true for me, but I feel the need to let her know it and share my feelings for her.  She responds when I do.  She also likes hearing that I'm wearing her "vanilla" collar when we're apart along with my Cock-Ring.
 
Sucking her fingers!  There's another one that turns her on. [;)]   Straining against my bindings to touch her or make contact with her is probably another one.  Knowing that she can easily send me into sub space by teasing and tormenting me is hot for her as well.  It doesn't take much to take me there and I know the fact she can do that is a big turn on for her.  Oooh, she loves to turn my cheeks a nice even, color of red, and that makes her smile too!  Probably as much as any of the above is that she knows I'm not a bedroom sub; that when the play is done I'm going to try and do whatever else she wants done to please her too, or just snuggle up and hold her tight for the night with something of HERS nestled between her cheeks in the way she likes. [8D]
 
I could continue on, but the list would get very long. [:)]
 
 - pixel
 
   Collared to Majik
 




Littlepita -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 6:22:40 PM)

When I'm over his knee or cuffed to the bed I like to arch my back and raise my bottom. I know that does it for him every time. [:)]




petdave -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 6:57:23 PM)

Hell, if i could get the slightest glimmer of sexual interest out of my wife, by any means up to and including shooting a man so she could watch him die, do you think i'd be hanging around on the intarweb with you lot of wankers? [:o]




facepet -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/24/2007 7:16:27 PM)

Hmmm...what gets my Mistress hot, when i am bound and/or gagged and totally at Her mercy? 

...the frightened roll of my eyes ...
...the snorting sounds of air being sucked back my gag...
...the sheen of sweat glistening on my forehead as i struggle desperately, writhing  against Her inescapable knots...

[shivers...]





WickedWench -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/25/2007 1:21:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
When you are bound and/or gagged, what tools do you have to use to get her aroused? 


Top of the list, for him, I am sure, would be seeing me struggle in inescapable bondage.




ownedgirlie -> RE: Getting your dominant HOT (7/25/2007 1:29:05 PM)

Absolute, complete submission, no matter how difficult he might make it.




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