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labrat18610 -> What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 4:16:22 PM)

I'm a submissive gay guy. I love to obey orders and serve. I'm happiest as servant/slave. Obeying an order gives me an instant erection.I live to shine shoes, pour baths,etc, and wait on Masters. I worship dominant men. Those are my feelings about serving them. But I've always wondered about what a Master felt when he was being served. I've asked some of the truly dominant men I've served. And they usually shrug their shoulders. Somehow they think it's expected. I'd like to know what's going through their minds. What kind of feelings do Masters have while being served?
Rick




earthycouple -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 5:17:26 PM)

I feel power, control, adoration, love, respect, and affection for my slaves/subs when they do things for me.




MasterGremlin -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 5:24:08 PM)

Well, my Master says "Headaches, lots and lots of headaches".  [sm=banghead.gif]

Guess that's what happens when you have 2 mischevious subs [sm=lol.gif]

Cordially,
minxy [:)]




labrat18610 -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 6:04:05 PM)

Thank you for your answer.And yeah, I know this is a dumb question. I was born to serve. It makes me happy. That part I have down pat. Yet, when I asked the Masters what it was like to be a master, outside of being served; they all said, "Duh!".
Rick




labrat18610 -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 6:15:42 PM)

LOL[:D]. Maybe you should get your Master a giant size bottle of asprin. I'm gay, so 1 woman is more than enough. 2 women would mean extra heavy duty narcotics. Your Master must be a very strong willed man to handle two frisky subs.[:)]
Rick




MasterGremlin -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 7:02:16 PM)

Yea, He says He needs something a bit stronger than aspirin too....but in times of dire need, He breaks out the hairbrush....[sm=paddle.gif]... well, the hairbrush for me, the spatula for cali [:o]

Seriously though, for the most part, He has all the same feelings we do.  It isn't just the service itself that brings me satisfaction, it is the glowing look He gives me when He reaches down and runs His hand over my head as I kneel at His feet.  In that I know that He is feeling the same love, admiration, gratitude and pleasure that I am. 

Sincerely,
minxy [:)]




imthatacheyouhav -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/24/2007 9:27:52 PM)

My Master has told me that when He looks down at me when i'm kneeling at His feet He feels like a King...i'm guessing thats a good thing....[;)]




zack2912 -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 3:34:40 AM)

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny




came4U -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 3:44:20 AM)

What I would hope to achieve is what minxy explained..

"It isn't just the service itself that brings me satisfaction, it is the glowing look He gives me when He reaches down and runs His hand over my head as I kneel at His feet.  In that I know that He is feeling the same love, admiration, gratitude and pleasure that I am."

yummy terrific., yet maybe indescribable?

It should be similar to two people who speak different languages yet still communicate by compensating in all other forms?? Eyes,tears, sounds, movements, moaaaaaans hehe. All of which are common in any and all languages. MMmmM.

I don't believe there is a universal language for the art of Mastering or sub'ing. Besides., I Don't think I would even understand English at those crucial moments anyways lol.

Bend me over..it all greek to me! [;)] 




Jhin -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:08:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zack2912

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny


If that is a true master than I don't care to ever meet one.




Donnalee -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:26:50 AM)

I always wonder about this also.




Level -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:32:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zack2912

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny


Oh shit.........




Jayxkes -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:33:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zack2912

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny


I'm not sure where you get that idea from!  It certainly isn't how I feel.




NoVacancy -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:41:38 AM)

I always try to remember to put my waders on before I read a post where someone tries to define what a "true" Master is. 




Jhin -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:43:58 AM)

You should have reminded me.. I'm waist high in this... *smiles sweetly*




fadedlace -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 4:58:02 AM)

Whenever I see a post like zack's, I always wonder...how many slaves has this person actually had?  How's that working for zack, I wonder?




DistantThunder -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 5:00:41 AM)

As I look down and I see them on the floor, sensing their anticipation, nervousness and sometimes fear, there is a mixture of emotions.

There is a real surge of power, the reality that "I have made this person kneel, to obey and they will continue to do so out of respect for me." There is a quivering excitement at all the sensual and kinky possibilities that wait there. This of course leads to a flood of images filled with flesh, toys and sometimes a rubber chicken (Best if you not ask too many questions on that one.)

This is followed by what I can only call a profound respect, the realization of the "balls", for lack of a better word, it takes for someone to kneel, often half dressed or naked, sometimes blindfolded on a cold floor; waiting for whatever my perverse imagination has in mind and my imagination is rather... unique... especially when it comes to kink.

From that point it is never the same twice, each scene is and should be unique. Yet, there is always the sense of respect and adoration.

But, always remember my loves, never cast blanket statements or generic concepts. Each Dominant is different and feel different things. Indeed and sadly in my NEVER humble opinion, there are those that feel nothing for those that serve them, simply a sense of sexual power. A disconnection that does not allow them to feel perhaps. Others, like myself, lavish in that sense of power, in that rush of respect and devotion and it is in turn recipricated, but is different in its delivery to the person(s) on their knees.

"Our truths will never be the same nor should they be. After all, what is blue and who is to say that blue is indeed blue."
Zen Proverb

D.T. (DistantThunder)
Dazvidanya




Rover -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 5:01:45 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zack2912

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny


I think that's a common feeling until you leave the computer keyboard behind and start meeting some real people.  The danger is that the reality of BDSM is nothing like the extensive fantasy you have created in your mind, and online.  So in your case, you run the risk of experiencing disappointment as the most common feeling.
 
John
 
P.S. - Why do people continually bring knives to gun fights? 




Archer -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 5:33:06 AM)

Over the years I have at different times and places felt, fear, wonder, contentment, conspicuousness, genuine pride, false pride, love, compassion, and most recently I discribe my feeling as AWE.
Not at myself directly I'm not that awesome, but at the power I hold and control throough my slave.Trying to narrow it down any better is tough at 8:30 in the morning.




LadyHugs -> RE: What does a Master feel? (7/25/2007 5:34:12 AM)

Dear labrat18610, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I can only speak for my own personal experiences and interactions with Gay male slaves, for which has been a wonderful experience each time.  Perhaps as a Heterosexual lady, sex isn't the 'drive' behind the service given by Gay male slaves.  I find myself feeling blessed, honored, exhaulted, empowered, respected, permission to 'feel' love through grace in service -- perhaps 'spiritual' in the way a slave can transmit love in the sense of giving of themselves, in the spirit of intent of serving and opening the door to a Master to accept their heart as kindly as serving it on a silver tray--something to appreciate, to admire, to covet and to respect and protect.
 
I am perhaps cut by a different cloth however, I do not expect a slave who is Gay to serve me.  However, when a Gay slave does serve me it is a rapture in pure joy for me, as the appreciation for protocols, good manners and being accepted as a Master--I am content and well cared for.
 
Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




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