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LadyPact -> RE: is this wrong to want (7/25/2007 6:03:04 PM)

Moki,
 
I realize from the subsequent post that you regret the OP, but do you mind if I take a stab at it anyway?
 
First of all, I wanted to say that I feel for your situation.  I'm a married woman, too, and I don't know what I'd do if My husband was opposed to Me being in the lifestyle.  The whole thought just boggles My mind.  I've done both spend time in and spent time out during Our marriage.  I know which one makes Me happier, but it would be tough with your circumstances.  If he didn't agree with it, there would definitely be some tough choices.
 
There's nothing wrong with you, as a person, wanting things.  We all want things.  The question is, are the things you want worth the price you might have to pay?  How far apart are the things you want compared to the things your husband wants?  Is there a way to compromise the two, without compromising yourself or him?
 
I don't know nearly enough about your situation to answer those things, or even give you a decent opinion.  You and your husband have to figure that out together. 




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: is this wrong to want (7/25/2007 6:07:56 PM)

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i'll disagree slightly, michael. some people truly are monogamous, and couldnt fathom being otherwise. some people wish to spread their pollen as widely as possible (as it were).


most likely these people are monogamous by choice. humanity as a whole is not monogamous.




interestingtimes -> RE: is this wrong to want (7/26/2007 12:43:01 AM)

Grins well i have a soft spot for  brunettes, but a sexy read head rocks...




MisPandora -> RE: is this wrong to want (7/26/2007 2:07:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: moki1984

I never should of posted this. Im getting somuch shit from people in my mail. NO I AM NOT DOING THIS BEHIND HIS BACK
jesus christ I forgot how much people on this site will jump all over you without knowing the entire situation

You posted your business and what you wanted us to know about it in a public forum.  You'd have bitched if no one answered you...just as you've bitched that folks have strong opinions about married folks suggesting stepping out on their partners.  What are we to do?  If you can't handle the feedback (good or bad), don't solicit it!




skareamoos -> RE: is this wrong to want (7/26/2007 9:59:14 AM)

Moki ... I am so sorry that some fools are critisizing instead of supporting you.  Sadly, it goes with the teritory that there are creeps and fools in any sizable group.  If you expect this and ignore their foolishness, you will be happier for it.

Hang in kid.  You have been given some good advice, some bad.  Consider carefully before you choose to follow either, and best of luck to you.,




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