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coolhandluke450 -> Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/24/2007 10:55:26 PM)
A friend of mine once told me about a favorite game she'd play with her male slaves. She'd tie them up, take out a stop watch, then begin stroking them to orgasm. If they came within the set time period (5 minutes I'd guess) she'd punish them by using a strap-on on them (unless of course that was one of the slave's favorite activities) This was her favorite game because the slave was so conflicted, especially as it got down to the wire. Anyone else ever done anything like this? If not, maybe you've simply had to punish a slave for an orgasm they weren't supposed to have (either period or without permission) What was your favorite punishment to receive and/or give? Obviously it's got to be something they fear/dislike but at the same time it's not past their limits, i was just wondering what the favorites out there were....

LadyEllen -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 5:42:03 AM)
Never seen it done and I suppose quite difficult to find two willing participants, but this is apparently a good wheeze; Take two males and put them in a 69. The aim of the game for each is to make the other come without coming themselves. The one who comes first is the "loser". E

Rover -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 5:46:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Take two males and put them in a 69. The aim of the game for each is to make the other come without coming themselves. The one who comes first is the "loser". Boy, is THIS a lesson in subjectivity!!! John

Tristan -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:06:25 AM)
I had a female submissive who enjoyed orgasm control. She had to ask permission before she was allowed to orgasm. I started by giving her until the count of ten to orgasm. After a while, I decreased the time to the count of three. If she did not orgasm by the end of the count, she was not permitted to orgasm again until I gave her permission. I usually made her wait until the next day or if she was good, maybe later the same day. If she orgasmed before being granted permission, she received a few strokes of the crop. She never knew if I would grant her permission to orgasm when she asked. I would sometimes take her to the very edge, and make her wait. Because she knew that she would only have one chance to orgasm, it assured that she did not ask permission too soon. She loved being kept on the very edge before being given permission to cum. Tristan

Celeste43 -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:26:53 AM)
If I was punished for orgasming, I would stop having them. I would stop becoming aroused. Many women shut down sexually. And after a few weeks/months? I'd really have no interest in him. Makw me wait, fine. But deny me arbitrarily after getting me to that point? I'd stop trusting you enough to enjoy your touch. And at that point I'd rather not be with you.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:48:40 AM)
I do it as a fun game in which we all know I'm just playing around and not giving them anything serious- at most a dozen smacks on the butt. Otherwise, na. I enjoy orgasms and want them to be a wholly enjoyable experience. If they orgasmed when I was playing with them without permission, it just means they need more training and/or that I wasn't timing things well enough.

chellekitty -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 8:46:42 AM)
1) i thought the point of punishment was not to enjoy recieving it... 2) you don't want my brain to make this equation orgasm=punishment=bad things=no orgasms - ever...i don't even do corpral pushments for otherthings...cause i don't want my brain to equate pain with punishment...pain is a reward for me...i don't care about the intent...i would rather be able to enjoy a hard smack out of no where than to have to worry if i did something wrong... 3) and if i had to pick my favorite punishment for cumming without permission it would be more orgasms... chelle the slut...and thats a good thing...

earthycouple -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 11:25:55 AM)
I can't imagine not wanting to allow my slave to orgasm. such fun to watch! I do have requirements for orgasms while not in my presence but when I'm around...when it's time it's time.

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 12:55:53 PM)
I've done something similar but I don't know that I would call it punishment per se. Similar situation but My version is more to this extent... Occasionally, after a specific period of time in chastity (verbal or otherwise) I would bind his hands behind his back, pull out the stopwatch and say "you have 3 minutes" (or whatever amount of minutes). his goal was to masturbate to orgasm within that 3 minute time frame without the use of his hands. Amusing to watch his face as he figured out how he would accomplish it..and all the while that 3 minutes is ticking off. The expressions that occured as I counted down the remaining time were priceless as well. After 3 minutes one of two things happened. Either ice was applied in order to place him back into chastity or he was allowed to continue until completion. Each minute beyond the original 3 minutes meant additional days in chastity. I don't see the purpose of punishing for orgasm unless it was one that was obtained without permission once a period of chastity was set forth. I would think that my disappointment in him (and his own disappointment with himself) would be far harsher punishment than any I could inflict physically if that were the case. Not to say it wouldn't go into the Big Book of Punishment, it definitely would.

Aubre -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 1:00:30 PM)
I think some folks are confusing orgasm control and orgasm denial. Punishment may be a way that a dom/me is trying to use to condition the submissive to have orgasms when the dom/me has granted permission - and also can be paired with rewards for having the orgasm at the proper time according to the dom/me. Someone who is submitting to straight up orgasm denial would probably expect strict punishment for having an orgasm. Different Strokes.

Aubre -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 1:02:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Never seen it done and I suppose quite difficult to find two willing participants, but this is apparently a good wheeze; Take two males and put them in a 69. The aim of the game for each is to make the other come without coming themselves. The one who comes first is the "loser". E Actually you could do a male/female or female/female and it should work.

hardbodysub -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 6:56:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck I've done something similar but I don't know that I would call it punishment per se. Similar situation but My version is more to this extent... Occasionally, after a specific period of time in chastity (verbal or otherwise) I would bind his hands behind his back, pull out the stopwatch and say "you have 3 minutes" (or whatever amount of minutes). his goal was to masturbate to orgasm within that 3 minute time frame without the use of his hands. Amusing to watch his face as he figured out how he would accomplish it..and all the while that 3 minutes is ticking off. The expressions that occured as I counted down the remaining time were priceless as well. After 3 minutes one of two things happened. Either ice was applied in order to place him back into chastity or he was allowed to continue until completion. Each minute beyond the original 3 minutes meant additional days in chastity. I don't see the purpose of punishing for orgasm unless it was one that was obtained without permission once a period of chastity was set forth. I would think that my disappointment in him (and his own disappointment with himself) would be far harsher punishment than any I could inflict physically if that were the case. Not to say it wouldn't go into the Big Book of Punishment, it definitely would. I really like your ideas. I also think a variation on this theme works nicely: restrain your sub, tell him that if he can prevent himself from having an orgasm for 3 minutes (or 5, whatever you want), that he won't have to be placed in chastity. If he comes, the chastity device goes on. Then give him the best cock teasing he's ever had, keeping him on the edge of orgasm as the time limit approaches. He won't be able to hold out, of course, because you won't let him. And the conflicting emotions raised in him by the situation (wanting and needing to come NOW, but not wanting to be locked up in the chastity device) will excite him even more.

MasterMataeo -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:06:01 PM)
I love to control the orgasm of my sub/slave , and do punish when she has one without asking permission ,, and i have many ways of punishing her for it ,, one of them tyeing her sown to the coffee table in my dungeon with thick hemp cord and gently using a ridding crop on her clit until she cums again and again and her labia swell ,, or a few others such as sexual deprivation for a period of time ,, and eye restrictions ,, and well if she likes cuddle ,, make her sleep on the floor or at the foot of the bed,, all depends on my mood at the time MasterMataeo

Sinergy -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:07:20 PM)
Interesting thread. I would point out that her orgasms are really about me. Not sure why I would want to punish her for having them. Sinergy

girl4you2 -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:30:20 PM)
Ed. quote: ORIGINAL: Tristan She never knew if I would grant her permission to orgasm when she asked. Because she knew that she would only have one chance to orgasm Tristan only one? um...what about higher math? i really think that's a negative reinforcer to a place i don't want to go. i like having orgasms, and i kinda think my partner would like me to be having them, too.

switchsecrets -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:40:42 PM)
orgasm control and denial sounds like fun for a day, but the thought of days, months.... i don't know what i'd do. whatabout the old saying, if you don't use it, you'll lose it? i'm sure some Dommes would be happy if the male couldn't perform any longer, which makes me wonder: are Dommes less orgasmic than subs? and this is why they care to punish the sub? i'm sure that's not the primary reason, but maybe part of it? (ok, i think i better duck now)

Sinergy -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 7:50:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girl4you2 only one? um...what about higher math? Im trying to figure out where the "i" quantity goes. I hate working out orgasms that requires the use of imaginary numbers. Shaddup and cum already. Sinergy, He Who Is Higher Math Challenged.

velvetears -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/25/2007 9:53:55 PM)
i am with celeste on this, after a while my body would become so confused and i would be so uptight it would shut down and not be able to become aroused - as a defense mechanism i would suspect. i would find it very agitating and nerve wracking, too much stress and arousal goes right out the window. It would definately undermine the trust i would need, to feel relaxed enough, to be able to let go.

cckbound -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/26/2007 1:43:11 AM)
years ago i had a Misstress that would write down a time, set a timer, and then She would tease and stroke me. if i had an orgasm in less time than the amount she wrote down i would get a stroke on my bottom for every minute i came up short.

SexyRed -> RE: Favorite Punishments for orgasms....... (7/26/2007 6:54:50 AM)
I just cannot associate punishment with having orgasms; punishment leading UP to an orgasm, yes, but not being punished for having them. sheesh.

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