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Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 8:11:27 AM   
goddessAVA


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Status: offline 		Lately I have been thinking about the different dynamics in F/m, M/f  sexual interactions.

What kinds of UNUSUAL female sexual turn-ons have you come across? 
For instance, yesterday I had a forced excercise session where I wrapped him in plastic packing tape and barked orders to do 50 sit ups, push ups, juping jacks on and on.  The only breaks we took were to prevent a premature end to the activity-it really got him excited and I had a ball!  There are boys who like a specific shaving cream covering their bodies, an exact perfume sprayed on stinky feet for them to sniff, asparagus pee, chunky bowel movements with certain food items in them, it goes on forever. 

I am curious if submissive women ever express desires akin to these. What I have witnessed in my very limited experience watching M/f interactions seems to be more about tpe, bondage, physical torment, mental control, not the goofy raunchy stuff I described-just curious.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 12:17:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I recently recieved an e-mail from a  newbie "submissive" who was into foot fetishes and as I later discovered, group sex, which to me, has nothing to do with BDSM. Unfortunately, she presented herself as an online troll, proving that she e-mailed me with the wrong motives, but then, maybe she was only into cyber relationships as a kink (which is one of my hard limits, btw). *sigh*

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 12:47:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just like you have described for your male the females are into the same. I think thsy are afraid of talking about it because they get slammed in these forums for being sick and needing help by all those holier then thous that are so prevelant.
It seems like a major double standard doesnt it?
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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 2:08:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: goddessAVA
What I have witnessed in my very limited experience watching M/f interactions seems to be more about tpe, bondage, physical torment, mental control, not the goofy raunchy stuff I described-just curious.


I think, for the most part, you are correct.  This may be because, in general, women are more focused on submission as a feeling, where men focus on submission as an act.  Also, I think, perhaps, that men in the lifestyle are a bit more aggressive in persuing their kinks, wheras a woman will seek to do what they think will please their dominant.

I have met some female rubber enthusiasts, and some who were into some pretty heavy degradation (watersports, etc), but the off the wall kinks seem to be, by and large, the domain of the men.

Now I am sure someone will come into this thread with a story of some CRAZY woman who could only come when she douched with Aqua-Velva while a dominant played "Istanbul was Constantinople" on the penny whistle, but I hold that, for the most part, men have far more bizarre fetishes.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 4:21:23 PM   
PairOfDimes


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Status: offline 		Interesting question! I've known at least one submissive (well, switch-ish) woman who has expressed a forced exercise fantasy. I know several submissive women who have expressed desires for golden showers and who incorporate them in their play. I know several *women*--submissive or not--who like particular perfumes on their partners or particular shaving creams (or lotions, or whatever) on themselves. I don't know about scat--I've seen that more among men than women, and it's a fetish I avoid. But in general, I've seen that women like (or like disliking!) sweat, spit, and other fluids, and generally getting messy.

Taggard's statement that women focus on submission as a feeling while men focus on submission as an act doesn't accord with my experience. It may be that women who submit chiefly to men are mostly emotionally motivated, and perhaps they make up a greater portion of the people Taggard observes, while I encounter many women who submit and bottom to women, or to both women and men, and although some of them are mostly into emotional responses, quite a lot are into particular activities.

Of course, I'm not sure what counts as a bizarre fetish within a community of people with bizarre fetishes, so perhaps I've drawn the line differently from yours, Ava.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 4:54:50 PM   
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I hold that, for the most part, men have far more bizarre fetishes.



Or they're more shameless!

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/25/2007 4:57:32 PM   
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Or they're more shameless!


Oh that is certainly true...



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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 11:55:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		TallDarkAndWitty;
Your are dead on about men. For men, submission is an act. And men  are way ahead of women in the fetish race. As a gay guy, I've met guys with the weirdest fetishes. One of them was a fetish for tan sweaters-not dark yellow nor brown, but only tan. Then there was the guy who was only into untied sneakers- the laces couldn't show any  marks of being ever tied.. Then there was the guy who was into licking spit on sidewalks. You can't name an object that some guy dosen't have a fetish for.
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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 12:08:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		In my experiences I have come across quite a few female subs/slaves with a fascination with K9 scenarios. As that isn't something that interests me, I don't know if push came to shove, they would actually do it, but I have been surprised at how many have that fantasy. 

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:32:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been approached as well by couple looking for that and have been mailed some unsolicited clips of women doing that.  To me, its no better then what Micheal Vick was into-an animal cannot consent (obviously)
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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:37:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ava;
 
     I tend to disagree, slightly. While I find no enjoyment in the activity you described. I am a libertarian and a realist. While a male human having anything to do with a dog might be animal abuse, a human female, gettting naked and getting on all fours and getting mounted by a male dog cannot possibly qualify as abuse as, the male dog in question has, obviously "consented".
 
    Once again: this is not an activity I recommend but logically, a human female could NOT be guilty of "abuse", in that instance.
 
 
 
 
 
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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:38:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Estring

In my experiences I have come across quite a few female subs/slaves with a fascination with K9 scenarios.


That really doesn't seem all that fetishy to me...sure, it is taboo...but it just isn't as freaky as some of the things I have seen some men be into.

K9 sex is inherently sexual...spitting on sidewalks, or tan sweaters are not.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:47:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do food fights count? Not like.. sexual food-play, just a full out bar-brawl style food fight? It brings a new meaning to 'messy'.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:49:24 PM   
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 the male dog in question has, obviously "consented".
 
  I actually disagree with this. A 3 year old can say "yes", too, but it doesn't necessarily mean that it's consent. You're talking about an entity that doesn't have the ability to reason it out. It's just acting on urges or training without thought process.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 1:49:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think it is true that there are all sorts of interesting kinks out there.

In my experiance women tend to be more mental and emotional with thier kink.. it is the *thought process* behind it. While men are mostly about action and sensation.

One submissive of mine has a Mummification fetish. Not the just wrap me up in saranwrap and lock me in a sleep bag kind.. We are talking full out Egyptian undead sort of Mummy fetish. *smiles* It was certainly interesting esp. at first. But it makes roleplaying great fun... I have never even heard of anyone else having that one fetish.  I have ran into Male Dom's who wanted to hook girls up to industral cow milking machines... and milk them like cows. I have ran into one who thought he was an alien and needed to inseminate superior women to hatch < yes I said hatch > his master race... ( nut job that one.. might not qualify as a fetish.. ) I have never really ran into a girl with a truly odd fetish. Just the run of the mill stuff... *shrugs*

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 2:04:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		That is what I thought-men are way more fetishy but then I started to realize how much I get off in some of these scenes-while they may not have been my idea to start with, I have incorporated some of the fetishes I have discovered in other sessions because I liked doing it so much-piss play being a somewhat tame but major favorite, especially testing different fluids for taste on my subbies. 

There has to be more of this going on in M/f relationships-I asked this of Masters because you tend to be much more open then sub. women (and dom women-oops did I say that.!).  Thanks for the feedback.

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 2:22:04 PM   
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TallDarkAndWitty;
Your are dead on about men. For men, submission is an act. And men  are way ahead of women in the fetish race. As a gay guy, I've met guys with the weirdest fetishes. One of them was a fetish for tan sweaters-not dark yellow nor brown, but only tan. Then there was the guy who was only into untied sneakers- the laces couldn't show any  marks of being ever tied.. Then there was the guy who was into licking spit on sidewalks. You can't name an object that some guy dosen't have a fetish for.
Rick



Sounds to me like the guy who only liked tan sweaters, and the one who wanted unmarked shoe laces were more OCD than they were into fetishes.  Just my opinion. 

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 2:28:21 PM   
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Ava;
 
     I tend to disagree, slightly. While I find no enjoyment in the activity you described. I am a libertarian and a realist. While a male human having anything to do with a dog might be animal abuse, a human female, gettting naked and getting on all fours and getting mounted by a male dog cannot possibly qualify as abuse as, the male dog in question has, obviously "consented".
 
    Once again: this is not an activity I recommend but logically, a human female could NOT be guilty of "abuse", in that instance.
 
 
 
 
 
Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
 
 
Michael


The problem with your rationale is that animals do not possess the same thought processes that we do, therefore they are not able to reason and simply act on instinct. 

I will probably end up receiving email telling me what a narrow minded b*tch I am, but it is my opinion that K9, horses, sheep, cows..whatever animal is in question,  is just another way to exploit innocent and unsuspecting animals. 

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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 2:56:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ignoring the stuff that is giving me the heebies.....

I have had very few women contact me with the more bizarre and weird stuff. Only one that I can think of actually. It really wasn't any one of her things but the compilation and extreme lengths she wanted to go to with them. Add some bizarre background stuff and reasoning and I was kind of not interested anymore. The whole package was unusual and moreso what I have seen from guys rather than women.


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RE: Unusual Submissive Fetishes - 7/26/2007 3:11:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		LaT... there's nothing wrong with being into more 'orthodox' things. Personally, I find that a turn-on.

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