PairOfDimes
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Joined: 7/20/2006 Status: offline
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Yes, you can submit to things you enjoy. You can also enjoy overtones of "force" with things you enjoy--it's a species of roleplay, and that doesn't make it less valid. I'd venture to say that most submissives in inequal relationships obey requests to do things they enjoy sooner or later--either they learn to enjoy the activity, or they already enjoyed it. Admittedly, when submissives enjoy activities, one doesn't get the lovely summoning up self-discipline in order to obey in spite of distaste, but that's not to everyone's taste, anyway, and one can get that elsewhere, either with other activities, or with other people.
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