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Rumtiger -> RE: help... (7/27/2007 5:03:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: goodgirl85
He is divorced, but there is no one else as far as I know. I have been to his house. I have seen where his children sleep. I have done his dishes, he has cooked me breakfast, I have slept in his bed.
I had been sending him a good night and good morning texts. So thats eight, plus two emails, and two phone calls. plus some little texts about finishing the Harry potter book and going out with a friend. I do know that he has other priorties, more important ones to. Im not going to call him ten times a day crying to him. I have learned my lesson there it doesnt help any. I know its only four days, but since we have started talking, it is the longest we have gone with no communication at all. I was worried.
Okay, now we got something to go on here.
Number one: kids, unless hes hyper loaded and can somehow afford to have a squad of nannies then that is going to be (and bloody well should be) his priority which is going to take up more than a shitload of time.
Numero Dos: Lemme go out on a limb here and say this. Whenever I have someone I know do something for me and I wait for such a thing to be done, each time they contact me, whether it be simply friendly or businesslike then I'm going to keep thinking if theyre doing the thing I asked them to do. Eventually each time they contact me as the time goes by any message I get from them that dosent say they did the thing I asked is going to seem more and more inane (not a typo) to the point to the point I just get irritated.
You contacted him..alot..and if I was in his psyche I can imagine the little harry potter texts and going out things which had nothing to do with the thing you two had in agreement may just have made him say "fuck it". Who knows, maybe hes the impatient one here, and although you dont know it, you've been pushing his buttons by simply not doing as your dom says.
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