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vantey -> How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 2:15:35 AM)

How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. do many of you use this as a form of punishment???



noumenon -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 3:41:07 AM)

Obviously I can't speak for any Mistresses but I can tell you that it isn't about needing to do this or how you should do that... it's really just all about personal preference. We are all special little snowflakes.



LadyAngelika -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 5:08:36 AM)

We are not robots. We all have our methods and they differ.

You might not realise this, but for a first post, it comes across quite troll like, like so many boys all wanting to know "what's in it for me and my ass". You might want to try addressing the Ladies here with something a little more thought provoking.

- LA



MsPurrmeow -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 8:41:37 AM)

The posts from boys who are obsessed with the "mistresss and strapon" concept are interesting. I get the impression that most are wanting anal sex, but without the stigma of being "gay". By having a woman with a strapon service them, they can hold tight to the label of "submissive" and "het" without having to deal with the ugly taboo's.

As for punishment, that just seems like another ploy. If the submissive likes it, then it's not punishment. Again, there's a game being played here to where they don't have to admit that it's something they enjoy, because then they might, ohmygod, be perceived as bi or gay. If they set themselves up to be "forced", then it's a complete lie that they can take no responsibilty for.

Why can't people just say what they like? Strapon can be enjoyable, and it can be used in some fun and games, too. There's a difference though, in using something enjoyable for mutual pleasure and having to turn it into something it's not just to avoid admitting the truth.

I would recommend for Vantey to talk from your own perspective. If you have something to say about yourself, then say what you like. If you want information about a particular Dominant woman, then ask them. If you are trying to get an idea for the entire population of Dominant women, that's just not going to happen. I've never met two who come from the same mold. Hope I never do.




MissToria -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 11:21:24 AM)

yup, we're all different

for instance I don't use a strap on at all



BeachMystress -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 1:01:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsPurrmeow

The posts from boys who are obsessed with the "mistresss and strapon" concept are interesting.



You have a good reason for why men like the idea of forced strap on play. Let me add another; humiliation. Look to the animal kingdom.. have you ever seen a dominant male dog mount another male dog? I have, many times. You also see this in our prison system as being the ultimate way of showing someone that they are your inferior. The men obsessed with strap on do not necessarily like strap on play or think it feels in the least bit good. They may be seeking that degradation.



LadyAngelika -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 4:16:01 PM)

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They may be seeking that degradation.


For my boy, it has more to do with prostate stimulation then degredation but I'm getting him to experience the degredation part and he's loving it.

- LA



fastlane -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 6:21:34 PM)

If you want the strap on so bad, ask your Mistress to have you cuckhold and then as your tied to the post, you'll feel something, but it won't be the strap on.[:D]



LadyAngelika -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/27/2005 6:39:36 PM)

Fastlane! I must say I simply adore a wicked, wicked mind such as yours!

- LA



lonewolf05 -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/28/2005 7:59:14 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

If you want the strap on so bad, ask your Mistress to have you cuckhold and then as your tied to the post, you'll feel something, but it won't be the strap on.[:D]

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oh! my gawd!
like, for sure! as if!

sorry. couldn't resist.



brightspot -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (6/28/2005 9:39:55 AM)

Both myself and my Domina enjoy
the strap -on a lot vaginally, so we
use it quite often[:)].

*Brightspot



shykyguy -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 3:56:26 PM)

Ok well how often do you use it on him?



Foibey -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 4:58:00 PM)

I generally prefer to go in manually. :)



MstrssPassion -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 5:05:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: vantey
How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave.


As often as she wants.

quote:

do many of you use this as a form of punishment???


It could be an effective form of punishment so long as the sub doesn't enjoy it... never reward bad behavior.



shykyguy -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 5:15:59 PM)

Yall are no fun we wanna hear some steamy stuff!



siamsa24 -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 5:27:32 PM)

Then you are in the wrong place



Misstoyou -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 5:58:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Foibey

I generally prefer to go in manually. :)


Yes, I'm a "hands on" kind of person as well. [:)]

(Sorry, shykyguy, *another* disappointment. lol)



MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 6:41:44 PM)

I have 3 strapons but sorry shykyguy if i told you the How,When,Why or the Wherefore then your mirror would steam up and your rocks drop off.



Mistressneedsubs -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 9:25:54 PM)

I am with the other Dommes here in the fact that we are all different. I refused to use the strap on at first. Then I started training with a Pro-Domme, and she demands me to use it on my slave.
Some of it depends upon sexuality. Some of it is for enjoyment. I really would not think that a strap on would be used in punishment. To me, it would be too much fun for a slave.
My instructions from the pro is use strap on and often.

Respectfully,

Mistress_Jan




perverseangelic -> RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on there sub or slave. (11/1/2005 10:47:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: shykyguy

Ok well how often do you use it on him?


heh, what "him"?

As far as I've known, Bright is perfectly happy with her Domina, and though I'm not sure, I think she orients as lesbian.




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