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If You've been abused and could turn the torture around? - 6/27/2005 7:18:48 AM

knees2you

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If You could ever take someone who has
Tortured You, and tie them down,
and could do anything that You wanted to them what would it be~

Maybe a fake You met, an ex~Husband, ex~Wife??
ex~Master, Mistress, Slave, Submissive.
Lets get Creative here

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 7:33:47 AM

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i think the best most creative kind of torture that i could do would be to just go on with my life,live it happily and hopefully get together with someone with a bigger penis

The bigger penis remark was aimed at my ex-husband.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 8:20:03 AM

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I know this is not what you are looking for but if I had them all tied up and had their devoted attention I would simply inform them that they had fallen far short of their goal. They have not ruined my life...as a matter of fact....quite the opposite, they have made me a much stronger, more compassionate human being. I walk through life with my head held high. I don't carry hate with me, as a matter of fact I don't allow them to take up space in my head. I would also make a point of letting them know just how much I pity them and how pathetic and weak I think they are. They will not escape their bad karma....what goes around comes around eventually....whether it be in the here and now or later in the unknown....but rest assured....it will bite them in the ass.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 8:45:09 AM

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I know this is probably supposed to be a tongue-in-cheek exercise and maybe I am just being too dull and boring and should just pass the post by - however, it's me, I cannot

I would never wish torture or humiliation on anyone, even if they had caused abuse towards me. It does not good in the long run, maybe you might feel better - or justified - but the reality is, it just makes you no different than the person who did the original abuse.

Two wrongs do not make a right - you just handed more power over to the abuser.

I am more a believer of the karma police. And besides Ant, as a christian, are you not supposed to value forgiveness?

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 3:50:01 PM

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quote:

I know this is not what you are looking for but if I had them all tied up and had their devoted attention I would simply inform them that they had fallen far short of their goal. They have not ruined my life...as a matter of fact....quite the opposite, they have made me a much stronger, more compassionate human being. I walk through life with my head held high. I don't carry hate with me, as a matter of fact I don't allow them to take up space in my head. I would also make a point of letting them know just how much I pity them and how pathetic and weak I think they are. They will not escape their bad karma....what goes around comes around eventually....whether it be in the here and now or later in the unknown....but rest assured....it will bite them in the ass.

Splendid reply erin! The best revenge is living well.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 3:50:48 PM

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quote:

And besides Ant, as a christian, are you not supposed to value forgiveness?

I'm not even a christian and I value forgiveness!! Geez.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 3:56:42 PM

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I believe that all people get what they deserve eventually. Anger that I hold towards another person does not hurt them... it hurts me.

I don't go for revenge.

sorry Lady.. the reply was meant for ant

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 4:06:27 PM

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The best revenge I could ever have, I didn't have anything to do with.

My ex-boyfriend top-type partner was an abusive fuck. I broke up with him, am with my wonderful, amazing best friend/lover. He flunked out of college. Twice. Can't hold a steady job and got kicked out of his parents house.

I'll admit, though, while I feel vindicated, I'm also kinda sorry for him. He seems like he's got a pretty miserable life.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 5:35:53 PM

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Awesome answers~

I too Would get on in life, although movies show us a
Darker side~

I To Believe what goes around comes around.

What You give, You get 10 times fold~

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 6:44:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: knees2you
I To Believe what goes around comes around.
What You give, You get 10 times fold~

Well, I believe three-fold *grin* but it amounts to the same thing.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/27/2005 8:45:24 PM

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Ehhh, take a wee bit of a trip to Grozny is all.

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/28/2005 1:17:19 AM

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Ah M'Lady A - I just saw the irony in ants post

Personally I think M'Lady A has an enormous amount of forgiveness in Her, (from what I have seen on the boards - She has had to!)

Peace and Love and (a very tender backside*weg*)

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/28/2005 5:20:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dark~angel

Peace and Love and (a very tender backside*weg*)

Ooo!!! I wonder why? Maybe I'm not so forgiving afterall ;)

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/28/2005 5:51:17 AM

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quote:

Splendid reply erin! The best revenge is living well.

Thank you LadyA, I guess I just don't see giving people like that even one more minute of my life than those they have already taken. I see so many people who can't seem to move past certain events in their lives, or worse yet, use them as an excuse to be dysfunctional. I just simply don't have time for all that. I have too many positive things that I want to accomplish in my future to spend any of my time dwelling in a negative past.

On a side note.....does anyone know why some people have cool new style paddles and some of us are still stuck with the old pink balloon thingy?

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/28/2005 6:09:38 AM

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Hey erin...

I noticed that just after the switch, but when I deleted my cookies, now everyone on the site has the new paddles - maybe try that?

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RE: If You've been abused and could turn the torture ar... - 6/28/2005 6:38:34 PM

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I see so many people who can't seem to move past certain events in their lives, or worse yet, use them as an excuse to be dysfunctional.

Precisely! It is important to get closure, get over it and move on.

- LA

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