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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

This is just me and how I work:

I can't imagine using a script or even planning out what I'm going to do next.  I'm quite impromptu and find it works better since I just never know what curve is going to come flying next.  It may be any multitude of things to change what would have been a script or plan had I started with one. 

Jumping off points are always nice, but I simply can't conform to a plan.  Change is good! 

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ORIGINAL: MsNoOrgasm

I completely understand the people who wouldn't go for something like this.  But I'm pretty new to this whole side of myself, and don't have that many ideas.  I don't expect people to follow the scripts to the letter by any means.  The idea was that it would be more of a jumping-off point.  I have one sub and have been practicing on him for the last 2 months or so.  But before that, I was a babe in the wilderness.  And I needed some ideas about how far I could go, how long I could go, etc.  Hell, I still need ideas.  And I don't think I'm the only one. 

But maybe I am...

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ORIGINAL: MsNoOrgasm

Mine:

Start off by calling him into your living room.  Have him strip naked.  Sit down, fully clothed, and have him stand.  Don't let him cover himself.  Explain to him that women are superior to men and that we make better decisions.  If you need help coming up with reasons, this site: http://www.femalesupremacist.org/scaal_home.html has a lot of essays you could use.  If it's a long lecture (the longer, the better, I think) tell him he can sit.  When he goes for a chair, laugh and tell him no.  He can sit on the ground.

Next, explain to him that you've been letting him have far too many orgasms.  Men are simply better behaved when you're their only source for sexual release.  I've actually gone as far as buying a chastity belt to make sure Rob doesn't take matters into his own hands.  You could lecture to him from this: http://www.femalesupremacist.org/subject_chastbenefit.html if it helps.  I used, almost word for word, the following: "I would dearly love to hold your key, and if you belonged to me it would be wonderful being able to lock you up whenever I wanted to, but believe me, you wouldn't be in it for very long. Hours, certainly. Maybe a few short days. Not being able to touch those precious parts would be be sometimes more torment for me than you." Rob liked it.

Once the lecture is through, have him lick you to orgasm(s).  Finish by telling him that he did a good job.  Don't let him cum.

Go out to eat or to the bar, then.  While you're there, hand him a pair of your panties to wear.  Tell him to change in the bathroom.  When he gets back, tell him that you've been thinking a lot about your situation, and you need someone to talk to.  And that you've told one of your friends.  Don't tell him which one.  But tell him that he knows her.  Play with his mind.  He'll think you've told every one of your friends. 

(Here comes the hard part, the part I think you won't do.  But I'm trying to push you to new places and I hope you do the same for me.  Do this!  And tell me how it went, later) When you get back, have him undress down to his panties and spank him for his rudeness at dinner.  Make something up.  Tell him how mad you are and that spanking wasn't enough.  Tell him to get naked and to get into the bathtub.  Then, stand over him (blindfold him if you like) and pee on his chest and penis.  No, I've never done that, either.  But I think it should drive home the point we're trying to make.  He's not as good as you.  He'll get off on it, I'm sure.

After he showers, tell him to come into the bedroom. After he licks you for awhlie, tell him that you need a dick inside you.  After his face lights up, open his mouth for him and put the base of a dildo in it.  Then, fuck his face.  If he has self control enough to not cum, then fuck him afterward.  Tell him you can barely feel his dick after having the dildo inside you.  Tell him that he's too small.  Tell him not to cum.

When you are done and satisfied, lay down.  He should be begging pretty well by this point.  Get him to the point where he'll do "anything" to cum.  Then, tell him OK.  But while he's on his back, lift his legs over his head.  Point his cock so it's aiming right at his face.  Hold him there.  Tell him that he can cum now.  If he can, he will.  If he can't, tell him he had his chance and that it's time for bed.

When a bit of time has passed, have him write me an email about what happened and how he felt.  Tell him that you won't see it, that it's just explaining to another woman how he felt.  Or, if you want to keep my identity secret, have him post it on the forum boards.  Either way, you'll see it. 

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ORIGINAL: MsNoOrgasm

I completely understand the people who wouldn't go for something like this.  But I'm pretty new to this whole side of myself, and don't have that many ideas.  I don't expect people to follow the scripts to the letter by any means.  The idea was that it would be more of a jumping-off point.  I have one sub and have been practicing on him for the last 2 months or so.  But before that, I was a babe in the wilderness.  And I needed some ideas about how far I could go, how long I could go, etc.  Hell, I still need ideas.  And I don't think I'm the only one. 

But maybe I am...

It's my opinion that the best ideas will come from knowing what would turn the two of you on the most.  That can really only come from talking with each other openly and honestly.  Have you talked with your sub about what his desires are?  If not, you can always have a yummy interrogation scene to find out!   Have you spent time thinking about what YOUR desires are?  Where do they overlap?  If you can focus on areas of commonality to start with, it will be much easier to build from there. 

As others have mentioned, there are a ton of web sites out there with many stories and questionaires which can be completed to both capture more knowledge about the level of interest each of you have in different activities and to generate ideas for scenes that revolve around them.  Even going to Alt.com and both of you completing the member profile information there might be of help to you.  You might find you'd learn a great deal about yourselves in the process and pick up some ideas from it.

My Mistress keeps a "black book" where she writes down ideas for scenes or "things she'd lik to try" as they come to mind.  I've never seen it, but I believe she's mentioned that she's filled one book and is working on a second.