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AAkasha -> Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 9:54:58 AM)

Sometimes when I have a femdom itch I can't scratch and want a little nasty variety on cam, I will take a look at some of the "cash for cam" sites where models put on little shows for money.  The nicer quality ones charge about $5 or $6 per minute.   The models only get a small portion of that of course, but they still are getting paid basically to respond to typed commands from strangers and put on little shows involving jerking off, toys, etc.  (I am not sure of what the market is like for female subs, but someone probably does).

Has anyone ever done this kind of modeling/camming for fee?  There's a common erotic fantasy of being "whored out" for cash - doing it behind cam seems to be a pretty safe way to get a start in it.  I have thought about making a man do it on cam for cash as part of a "whore" fantasy but haven't had enough time or resources to go through the steps.

But here's my bigger question.  Male subs, even if you are totally straight, would you ever consider camming for cash, even thought most of the customers are men?  Keeping in mind, you are providing a fantasy essentially, and you don't have to see or touch the man.  You could pretend he is a woman giving the orders, anyway.  There are so many men that gleefully engage in cybersex without knowing the gender (for sure) of the person anyway - a lot of sub men have already spent hours submitting to men and they don't even know it.    Also, I see a LOT of women, actually, in those cam sites....looking and paying men to perform.  More and more actually.  I guess I am an early adopter.  I was doing this two years ago.   The models, now (who while they say are gay or bi, my estimation is that at least 30% are straight) are having to cater to women and not label themselves as gay as much.

If you could earn a couple hundred dollars a night a few nights a week camming, would it matter who is on the other end?  Especially if you knew that at least once a night you might be used by a woman?

Akasha




CuriousLord -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 10:04:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

If you could earn a couple hundred dollars a night a few nights a week camming, would it matter who is on the other end?  Especially if you knew that at least once a night you might be used by a woman?


Likely depends on the male's sexuality and on his willingness to act as an exhibitionist.

For many heterosexual males, the idea of participating in something sexual with another male is sickening enough to reject such an oppertunity.

It seems you feel that, since they don't actually know such viewing males in specific, it would be alright to them?  That it's not sexual?  I'm afraid I'd have to disagree that this is not the case.  Sexual engagement necessitates neither full awareness of such nor actual physical touch.  The computer screen, while still a computer screen, simulates that male for others' pleasure.

This said, some males may be disconcerned with this aspect enough as to value the money over the violation of his sexuality and the time spent.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 10:04:33 AM)

I really don't care what someone receives or gives for money (OK I do, I don't approve of a lot of inflated pricing and black market stuff) as long as the services are provided as promised.




bisub4play -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 12:20:07 PM)

Ms. Akasha,

                 I do serve a Domme on a part time basis and she enjoys making me suck sock on cam for HER and HER friends to watch....I do not know if she is making any money over it or if is is just for HER pleasure and entertainment...




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 12:30:35 PM)

Get your Porn l;ol live porn rofl




Damocles809 -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 6:30:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
If you could earn a couple hundred dollars a night a few nights a week camming, would it matter who is on the other end? 


Of course it would.  It would matter if they recognized me, or if they recorded it and showed it to someone who did. 




proudsub -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 7:29:47 PM)

I don't understand why people pay to see others on cam, there are several cam sites you can join and watch it all for free, lots of exhibitionists out there.  My first dom and i used to perform at one of those sites.




AAkasha -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 8:10:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: proudsub

I don't understand why people pay to see others on cam, there are several cam sites you can join and watch it all for free, lots of exhibitionists out there.  My first dom and i used to perform at one of those sites.


For convenience. I have looked at the free cam sites.  I either don't see anyone I am attracted to, or don't have the time to cultivate a connection so that I can get attracted to them. I also don't want strings attached, I don't want someone asking for pics or personal information from me (which they rightly deseve in a fair transaction); I would rather give currency and save time if I just want to get my rocks off, so to speak.

Akasha




LotusSong -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 8:16:59 PM)

Well, AAkasha, if you have no other aspirations for your life like, being some sort of a professional (doctor, lawyer, politician, teacher) or maybe having a family.. anything where your past could be dredged up and used against you..go for it. 
 
Ask Miss America... the silliest things we do comes to bite us in the ass at the worst possible time.




AAkasha -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 8:50:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Well, AAkasha, if you have no other aspirations for your life like, being some sort of a professional (doctor, lawyer, politician, teacher) or maybe having a family.. anything where your past could be dredged up and used against you..go for it. 
 
Ask Miss America... the silliest things we do comes to bite us in the ass at the worst possible time.


I wouldn't sell myself on cam, no.  I am talking about the men willing to do it.

Akasha




Damocles809 -> RE: Cash for Cam: why not? (7/28/2007 9:04:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

I wouldn't sell myself on cam, no.  I am talking about the men willing to do it.



Probably even worse for guys, professionally speaking.  It's it's fairly common nowadays to be camgirls, so it's not *that* shocking for employers or co-workers to find it. 

As for guys, being on cam stripping for old dudes to beat off to is probably a bit more of a strike against the traditional male role prescribed for any guy in a professional job. 




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