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RCdc -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (8/2/2007 2:15:06 AM)

This is Darcy

I think that prayer is basically a form of placebo. If the person who is using it genuinely believes that it makes a difference then it doesn't matter if it does or not, because just the supposition that it does will have had a calming or healing effect on that persons life. As an agnostic (yeah, I'm hedging my bets [;)]), I personally don't believe that praying will ever make a damn bit of difference in terms of external intervention in a situation, but if it gives someone the hope to go on, or to face a difficult situation, then maybe in some strange way it does work.

Darcy




MadameDahlia -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (8/2/2007 4:00:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

ok, let's look at that theory for a second

suppose somone with MD has great amounts of faith, prays to someday be normal like everyone else, be able to ditch their chair and walk again, be able to use their muscles just like everyone else does. they pray for this...how many people have you heard of that has been granted this prayer?



Someone could argue why would they suffer MS in the first place? It seems you are asking if god exists because bad things happen or are allowed to continue happening.


Brings to mind a short bit I once read.

If God is willing to prevent evil,
but not able, then He is not omnipotent.

If God is able but not willing,
then He is malevolent.

If God is both able and willing,
then whence cometh evil?

If He is neither able nor willing,
then why call Him God?


- Epicurus (341-271 BC)

I would say that prayer works for people who want it to work. Not necessarily because someone (or Someone) has answered them. But rather it gives the person comfort and peace. And when praying for miracles and/or relief... aren't comfort and peace what they're really after?

In short... if you feel it works for you... great!

And if you think it's silly or impractical to pray for a cure... donate to the cause, run/walk for the cure. If you're looking for good results on a test... study. If you're interested in lowering your cholesterol... eat properly, exercise and, if necessary, go on whatever meds your MD has prescribed.




sleazybutterfly -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (8/2/2007 4:24:03 AM)

Honestly Michael, what do you want others to say?  There are those that believe it does, there are those that believe it doesn't, then there are those that just don't know.  For us to sit here and go back and forth is pretty fruitless in most aspects.  No one can change your mind, so why even bother? 
 
Bad things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people, that is just a fact of life.  I don't know why, I wish I did.  We can't control everything in this life no matter how much we would like to.  We sometimes must just accept that it's just the way things are.
 
I believe that prayer works, even though that might never bring me winning the lottery, or never having an illness in my life.  You don't for your own reasons.  People jumped on someone that said if you don't believe then prayer won't work.  Well my question on the other side of that is, why pray if you don't believe?  I don't think that one persons prayers are higher than anothers, I don't think that one has to believe just the right amount in order to be healed. 
 
I wish I knew why some are healed and some aren't.  I sat by my grandmothers bed and prayed with tear filled eyes that she would live thru her illness.  I prayed for a baby that never came.  Does that make me question whether God heard those prayers?  No, I know He heard them.  The answer that I got for my grandmother was, it's her time, she has lived a wonderful long life, take the love and lessons she shared with you and pass them on to others in this world.  Learn to let those you love know how much you love them every single day, because you never know when the last time, will be the last.  As far as our baby that never came.  The answer was simply "no", this is not the right time.  I still pray and I still believe it will happen, but I don't know when. 
 
When we believe that there is something bigger than ourselves, then we have to believe that it has the bigger picture also.  We cannot know the future, we cannot know the outcome that will happen from something that we ask for.  Maybe there is something greater in the works, maybe it's just there to teach us strength, or compassion.
 
One person comes to mind when I think of something like that.  When Mr.Walsh lost his son Adam.  It was horrid and tragic, no one can deny that.  Look over the past many years though and how involved he has become in the missing child movement and finding criminals in general.  Look at all of the lives that have been saved or touched because of his love for his son.  Does that make what happened to his son good?  No, it could never be good.  Does it make it more plausible for him to make sense of it?  Perhaps, I can't say for sure.  He has taken his misery, his heartbreak, and he has turned it into helping others and making them more aware of sex offenders, repeat offenders, and the bad guys in general.  He is bringing the memory of his son into every capture that is made and with that, his son will always live on.
 
I am sorry you lost your son, I am sorry that made you lose your faith, if that is what happened.  I cannot take away your pain, I cannot say words here to make it all better.  I am sure there are days when that is all your mind is filled with, the loss of a child is something that cannot be made easier under any circumstance.  You do honor his memory every single day you think about him, when you talk about him, by living each day to it's fullest.  Do you think he would want you to give up?  Do you think he would want you to be mad at God?  I doubt that, he was probably a very loving boy/young man.  He must have been because he gave that love to you, and left a void in your life when he left it.  I am sure a smile comes to your face when you think of a happy moment you spent together, so he is still with you, always.
 
Share his memory with others, I don't know how you lost him, but maybe there is something in that, that could help someone else.  The greatest thing you can do now is make sure he is never forgotten.  Sitting there being angry at God is not doing anyone any good, least of all yourself. 
 
We sometimes put a block up between ourselves and God.  I have done the same thing.  I felt as though He wasn't listening, He had left me, I was totally alone.  I then realized that while He was always there, it was myself that was gone.  I hurt too much, I felt He didn't care, I had let go of my faith.  All I had to do was open my heart back up and as I did, I could feel Him again.  It wasn't instant, sometimes I still felt as though I were talking to myself, but I kept talking, I kept praying.
 
I am still here, that is how I know that prayer works.  I sat there with a blade to my wrist a little over a year ago, I had a stream of tears down my face, and no hope in the world.  I was at the rock bottom of everything, too much pain, too much hurt...I couldn't take it anymore.  The seconds felt like minutes as I pushed down, as I cried out for something, for Him and as I almost pulled it across, He saved me.  He ran the love of my family, the love of my animals, the love I have for Him, my niece and nephews beautiful faces, my mothers world falling apart if I were gone, and all of the future thrown away if I chose to end it myself.  I have learned He gave me this life for a reason, though sometimes I still don't understand why out of 8 babies my mom was preg. with, I was the one to make it finally.  I always think they could have done something better in life, or made a difference I have wasted.  I then think about my mom, and how after my father left she wanted to die.  The only reason my mom lived was because I was there.  She knew she had to take care of me, she had to be strong, the other babies would have been older and probably out of the house.  She would not have felt that need to do what she did.  Maybe that was the reason, perhaps I have yet to find the reason, or I may never know.
 
Being alive is possible again, being here though at times might seem like a curse, is a great gift.  Please don't waste it by sitting there sad, depressed, or feeling alone.  You have to find the strength to rise above yourself, to rise above what has happened..to realize your value as a person, and as a child of God.  You might even pray, if you don't feel anything, pray more, pray until you feel something, until you feel your heart soften, until you can't pray anymore....then keep praying.
 
Or, you can just ignore everything I wrote and do what you want anyway.
 
I am sorry I babbled, but I wrote what I felt I had to. 
 
Best of wishes to you, and I will put you in my prayers..even if you don't think it will work.
 
 




slavegirljoy -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (8/2/2007 8:30:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado Of course prayer works... collection plates get filled all the time.
 IF ONLY........you were right.  But, unfortunately, it's not true.  Collection plates are not being filled and if churches had to rely on having their "collection plates get(ting) filled all the time" most would have had to close up long ago.  Church attendance in the U.S., as well as most of the developed nations, has dropped over the past 40 years and the amount of money churches collect from church-goers has fallen.  In most congregations, only 30 - 50% of church-goers contribute anything at all and only 20% of the members provide 50-80% of total contributions.  The average amount contributed is 2.5 - 4% of personal income, well below the 10% that the Bible says is required for tithing.  Overall, members donated a smaller portion of income to their churches in 2003 than in 1968.  While per capita income increased 111%, in inflation-adjusted dollars, from $12,510 in 1968 to $26,449 in 2003, church collections declined from an average of 3.11% of personal income in 1968 to 2.59% in 2003.  (Source: U.S. Department of Labor, Bureau of Labor Statistics, Consumer Expenditure Survey) Even with that, U.S.religious organizations provided $7.5 Billion, in 2003, to humanitarian causes, compared to corporations, which gave $2.7 Billion.  (Source: U.S. private giving and remittance data, collected by the U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis for 2003).  The US government expenditure on overseas aid, in 2003, was just 0.13% of the GDP, the lowest proportion by any of the 23 richest nations in the world.  In 2006, the U.S. moved up to second to the last place, just above Greece and directly below Italy, by providing 0.17% GDP to foreign aid, although the actual dollar amount that the U.S. continues to be the highest among nations. (Source: OECD Development Statistics) Churches and religious organizations provide aid to millions of people around the world, along with many volunteers to help the poorest of the poor in areas of child health, welfare, and education, adult literacy training, food and water, health care, emergency aid, disaster relief, and economic development. 
In 2006, Catholic Relief Services, for one, served the poor in 98 countries, helping 80 million disadvantaged people.  Because of the generosity of American religious groups, prayer does work for millions of people all around the world!
 One example comes from a church in suburban Maryland.  In the mid 1990s, the Damascus Wesleyan Church, just north of Washington D.C., was looking to expand and asked for contributions to their building fund, which resulted in donations and pledges of $287,000.  However, instead of expanding their building, it was decided by the church members to use the money to purchase a 99-year lease on 10,000 acres of land in Zambia. The land came with a beautiful farm house, 2,700 fruit trees, cattle, four deep wells, and three dams. Damascus Wesleyan Church now runs an orphanage for 300 children on this land.  It has an elementary school and two- and three-bedroom homes for teachers and students that cost between $7,000 and $8,000 each to build. Its agricultural program assists the local families in establishing farms. Each participating family receives 25 acres to till, complete with a water source, oxen, and a plow for three years.  They are taught renewable farming practices, soil preparation, crop substitution, and planting techniques.  The people in that community have been given the opportunity to become self-sustaining, with their own food source. According to the World Health Organization, 10.8 million children, below the age of 5 years, will die this year.  That's 29,000 deaths a day among children under five, with almost 4 million a year occurring in the first 28 days of life.  Malnutrition is the underlying cause of 53% of all deaths in children younger than age 5 years. If Christian church members in the U.S. had given at the 10% level in 2003 instead of the 2.59% level, there would have been an additional $156 Billion available to fight poverty and hunger around the world, $5 billion could help stop the majority of children's deaths and $7 billion could provide basic education for the world's children. (Source:  empty tomb, inc., Champaign, Illinois, a Christian service and research organization) Whatever you feel about religion and churches, one thing can't be denied, they do a lot of good around the world for people most of us barely think about and in places where a lot of us would never want to go.  If it means that a baby won't have to die tonight because of a lack of food, then i say let the church collection plates overflow and thank God for them! So, my prayer is that church attendance will increase and the collection plates will start filling up all the time.  It's my prayer that people will give to either a church or a religious organization at least as much as they pay for pet food.  According to a news article, "Studies: Child Deaths Avoidable" by David Brown, Friday, June 27, 2003; Page A12, posted on the Washington Post website, "North Americans and Europeans spend about $17 billion a year on pet food."  (http://www.washingtonpost.com/ac2/wp-dyn/A37367-2003Jun26?language=printer) 
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ORIGINAL: domiguy Of course thye all went on to do miraculous things ....Which says much about the tenacity of the human spirit as it does about God.....Here are some more stories where "God?" intervened and these people went on to do nothing.  Obviously God and trees, or maybe just trees hate people....Screw global warming!...It's us or them.
 How could i have forgotten about the Great Killer Tree Scheme that God has in place?.....His band of angels holding up old, weak, sickened tree limbs and trees, just waiting for the marked individual to be perfectly positioned under it so they can let it come crashing down on the poor sap....Okay, if that's what you want to believe, but i say that there are just a lot of trees around and some of them are old and uncared for and haven't been trimmed or inspected in a long time.  They lose their strength over time and there are some trees that people have carved their initials into the bark, opening it up to insects and disease and, just like with people and animals and all living things, there comes a time when they simply give out.  If someone happens to be under the old or sick tree when it gives out that is a terrible tragedy, but that's all.  Unexpected and unfortunate events happen all the time, as do wonderful and delightful events.  That's what life is, uncertain and sometimes wonderful and sometimes heartbreaking and all too often too short.  That should be a lesson to all of us that each day that we have the gift of life should be cherished and used to create positive energy and try to improve ourselves and the world around us.  At least, that's how i look at it.   Since we only have the news accounts of the tragic events involving tree limbs and trees falling on people and have no follow-up, we don't know what might have resulted from these events that could have been positive.  There could be people out giving testimony about the way any one of these events might have changed their life for the better.  We just don't know, without more information.  In fact, we don't know if perhaps the 63 year old woman who was killed when a tree crashed onto her car during a wind and rainstorm had just learned that she had inoperable cancer or some other terminal disease and she was praying to God that He would just take her rather than let her suffer and put her family through the stress of watching her suffer.  We just don't know all that there is to know.   There are countless incidents that happen every day that we just don't know all the implications about the cause and effect of their happening.  And, it's no good spending our lives worrying about all the possible bad things that might happen to us at any given moment.  We just need to live our lives the best we can with what we have.  Yes, people can be very tenacious.  A lot of people have told me that i am tenacious but, they don't see the amount of uncertainty that is inside of me at times and they don't hear my prayers to God to keep me strong and help me get through one more day.  They just see the result of those prayers and the strength and determination that i get from God being in my life and answering my prayers.  i honestly don't even want to know how hard this life would be for me if i didn't have Jesus walking beside me every step of the way.  What a lonely and scary feeling that would be if i didn't feel His presence in my life.

"Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows....he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed."  Isaiah 53:4-5

Oh, and for anyone who believes that prayer only helps those who have Christ in their heart, i have to say that is so very wrong.  God hears everyones prayers, whether they are believers or not.  To know that, you only need to hear about the many nonbelievers who received "foxhole conversions" as the bombs and bullets exploded around them in battle.  Many a nonbeliever has found God on the battlefield, as well as in the jailhouse and on the operating table and on the sinking ship and the crashing plane and the burning building.  For many, it takes being in a very perilous situation for them to find God and accept Jesus into their hearts.  In fact, even if you don't believe in God or the power of prayer, someone else could be praying for you and God is hearing their prayers and you could be the beneficiary without even knowing it.  You might just think you're a very lucky person. slave joyOwned property of Master David "Commitment transforms a promise into a reality."




Alumbrado -> RE: Honestly...does prayer REALLY work? (8/3/2007 5:47:48 AM)

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I didn't say it worked for everyone... do you doubt that those churches that are wealthy became so through prayer?




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