SexyAngryFem
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Joined: 6/26/2005
From: FL
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You do your thing, I'll do mine. The link to my website was just that, a link. If someone wishes to go there and apply they may. If I charge $100 processing fee for long term slavery, that is my business. If you read my profile, I distance train until I know exactly who I am dealing with. Not only am I a Domme but I'm an intelligent woman as well. If you think I'm getting rich off of some cheap application fee which hardly covers my time involved ...think again.
I'd like to explain just for the record since so many people have contacted me about this since I joined here (ie: emails such as "you're a fake welfare mom I'm sure" and other wonderfully amusing messages). I have a FEW slaves which I distance train, others I have real timed with. Until I know everything about one of my subs by no means will I rush right out and real time with just anyone. During distance training (ie: email, chat, video chat, telephone, and by u.s. mail) I get a pretty good understanding of how a submissive will obey my demands. I have slaves who paid their fee a year ago who I have either real timed already or if I haven't decided to RT with them or they are not in the position to RT, I am still in contact with them as I was the day they processed themselves.
Please tell me how $100 covers the cost of me spending hours a day on slaves, the cost of items I send to them in the mail, and my time at all? I have a VERY good job and if those who contact me in such a manner knew where I worked they would be quite surprised. I don't need a slaves money, I make quite enough of my own to live more then comfortably.
The processing fee is a few things to me, a right of passage if you will.....a slave selling themselves over to their sins, to me as both a devil and goddess. Not a TRIBUTE but a way for them to say they are ready and willing to take the plunge to serve me as a submissive. It is also a way to cut out all the fakes, wannabe's, college boys, and men looking for a cheap little thrill as I am not bothered by those who aren't serious about servitude. I think it works very well in fact, and if someone doesn't like it then well too friggen bad.
I am REAL, I am DOMME, I have been in the lifestyle for quite a long time and I have no time for nonsense or BS from anybody. I don't go around knocking people on forums for the way they choose to do things and hope for the same respect. If you don't respect me then so be it but I do things my way always.
Many people that contact me wish to be distance trained only, others wish for real time only. Because I am still a woman, I need to make absolutely sure that I'm dealing with a truly submissive man. Why would I put myself at risk doing RT with someone I hardly know. Should I assume after a few emails that he is to be trusted, upon meeting him that he will follow my orders 100% without question and that I don't end up putting myself into a submissive situation just for the simple fact that I'm a woman meeting up with someone I don't know anything beyond what he has told me? I feel that distance training gives me a pretty damn good idea of who I'm dealing with. I won't go into detail but I believe I have a lot to offer a sub and because I am in such contact with my slaves I often think I have a better understanding of them then they may have of themselves. It allows me to really feel someone out, make sure they are who they say and that they will 100% commit themselves to me as their Mistress and follow my orders to a T.
Here is a great example for you, I recently had someone who seemed genuine apply. He paid his processing fee. I sent him some very simple assignments in the beginning, no reply. I contacted and asked why this was, no reply. I came online and he asked to go on videocam, I explained I would tell him when we would be video training and not the other way around- however I went on with him as I was getting pretty ticked that he wasn't following my simple orders. Once we got on video, I see he is naked without being told he could undress. I begin asking him questions as to why he was not following my instruction and asked to give me more background about how much involvement in the lifestyle he had and he told me he enjoyed "just straight sex". I was confused and asked him more questions about being a submissive and realized right then that he was not. He misunderstood "Mistress" with "prostitute" and clearly overlooked my application terms. I explained there was no be no "straight sex" with me and voiced my thoughts on his actions and he said he would like to learn and basically redeem himself. Against my better judgement, I sent him another assignment and although he did not reply he was quick to send me IM's online asking to go "cam". The next day I receive a telephone call out of the blue..."Mistress?" I said who is this. It was him. I said "have you gone and lost your mind? have you called me to chitchat? Did I give you permission to pickup the telephone and dial? and went on to voice some profanities at him for his actions. My slaves have my home phone number but know better then to just pickup and dial when they so feel the need. They know their place. They are not to call me unless they are told they may do so and I have never had a slave disrespect this until now. I then found this man to be lurking in on my video chat in an online service I use. He was there looking for a little action, using the new name I had assigned him as his screenname. I then realize that he applied under a fake name as well as had given me false information about himself when he applied. I then get contact from him that he wants to meet with me somewhere, maybe a nice little back ally for a quickie I'm sure. I contacted him and said there will be no more contact again, I would return his processing fee and he can go about his life and look for a cheap hooker and that clearly he was mistaken in ever contacting me from the beginning. I STILL am having a problem with this person
And quite honestly from the looks of things I’m beginning to think I have a real whacko on my hands. He is a perfect example of the need to still protect yourself as a woman, DOMME or NOT. I distance train in the beginning
For this reason as it is a tool for me to get to know a submissive.
I have had no other problems using the method I do. This was an occurrence that I wished I had seen coming however given the false information I was, it was pretty unavoidable.
Now you still may say $100 application fee, must be a fake. Due to the fact that I don't charge for real time with my slaves I would hardly say that a $100 processing fee would cover ANYTHING for my involvement with them if I were say a Pro or a financial goddess. If I were looking for a quick buck, why the hell wouldn't I be charging for real time with those who serve me? Isn't that where the real money would come into play, I could charge a hell of a lot of money for what I do. Because I enjoy watching men suffer under my strict hand, I will say I must be doing charity work.
I enjoy RT with different people, I bore easily. I enjoy being served by numerous submissives, that is my thing. I'm not looking for a match, a boyfriend, a husband, nor anything else along those lines. I enjoy my freedom to do as I please. Some may say fake, I would think mostly those who are looking for a submissive "match" per say. If I ever find what I'm looking for in one of my servants, then wonderful but until that day I will continue to do as I please. This is what I enjoy and none of my slaves would say their $100 application fee was a lot to pay for the time that I spend on them.
I enjoy the fun of watching a man sell himself over to my control. It adds to my pleasure. If you find something wrong with this then I'm not sorry and people can continue to contact me in email to voice their opinion but in all honesty I could really give a damn what they think. I do just want to set the record straight here though so that I can hopefully become a part of the community without people having false ideas about my intentions.
Do I enjoy tributes, men who like to spend their money on me when they have a financial fetish. Oh SURE, what woman wouldn’t want a man showering them with gifts? Any woman here want to beg to differ with me on this and say that when they receive contact about financial slavery that they deny the man of his pleasure and yours? I wouldn’t think many women would like to step up to the plate on that one as I’m sure there are plenty of Domme’s
With ulterior motive who won’t come right out and say so. So for the record, YES I am in the lifestyle, YES I real time for free and believe that was my first post here (“Anyone in the Central Florida area that wishes to Real Time?”) YES, I have a slave processing fee for long term ownership if that is what they are looking for and YES I
Won’t return a tribute if it’s made and NO I’m not a fake welfare mom looking to make a quick buck.
I hope that clears it up for those who question me, I would like to continue and possibly start again……….
I am Mistress Imperfection HI glad to have found collarme just introducing myself and hopefully to find
Some great conversation.
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