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And what to do when we don't feel heard? Is it as simple as asking "Did You hear me?" or is that an offensive question to ask of the D-type an s-type is serving?

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 Can s-types leave out expectations? Or is it the place of an s-type to put the D-types feet to the fire when expectations are made? "

Still learning how to do the quote thing.

Your tone and who you are being when you ask makes a difference in how you come across. If it's sincere and humble with no agitation or cocky agenda, I'd find that hard to fault. The question to ask is " how human is your d, and how human are you desired to be"?

A relationship that works relies on communication and trust as a foundation. Even inside protocol, beautiful humanity can be expressed. It's my hope that humanity would be cherished and encouraged.